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ORIGINAL: MrDiscipline44

This thread has all but died here. Why is it still open to responses is beyond me. One would think the mods would've closed this down after people stopped really discussing anything and made it a thread for petty bantering.

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This is such a convoluted mess, the only good I can see coming from this thread is that it lets you three vent.

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ORIGINAL: mistoferin

There are positive things here that one can walk away with though. It would be nice if people read this and realized that while helping out another human being is a wonderful thing to do.....rescuing them generally does not work out for anyone involved. At the very least, before you take on that type of responsibility you should certainly be able to step back and determine if you are indeed prepared to handle the problem at hand.

If someone asks you to take care of a package for them....and that package is clearly ticking, it would be best to bow out gracefully. Unless of course you are a bomb technician who has been sufficiently trained and is highly skilled at disarming explosive devices. If you are not and you take that package home and set it on your dining room table.....eventually it is going to blow your dining room to smithereens.

People are no different...if you know the issues a person is dealing with are far beyond your capablities....you only have yourself to blame when it all blows up in your face. The most unfortunate aspect though of dealing with people is that they generally come attached to other people who end up being unwitting victims of our lapses in judgement.

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ORIGINAL: sweetwhisper

What is preventing you from going back to get your belongings?

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ORIGINAL: GIGGLEBOB

I know this advise is stupid now but a password protection on your files in future will protect you from this ever happening again. i'm not entirely sure how the slave system works but I'm sure even a master cant make you take it off.

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ORIGINAL: Chaingang

::snore::
zzzzzzzzzzzzz....

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ORIGINAL: DesertRat

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ORIGINAL: Dragonzaymaster

Ok Desert Rat, Why read if you disagree? Hmmmm makes one wonder the intent, doesn't it. This is a public board.
Dragon

Yes, my behavior sure is strange, isn't it? Sticks out like a regular sore thumb. I'm just so bizarre.

Bob

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ORIGINAL: LATEXBABY64

lets see first we end up saying this was about a woman just gone nutz then a master who is abusive then back to a woman who is bi polar...

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ORIGINAL: truesub4u

Lord thank you for mistoferin......

this thread should of died ages ago... been buried, redug up, and made to carry on. For God sakes.... enough already

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ORIGINAL: stef

The only purpose this thread serves is as a huge blinking WARNING! sign advising people to avoid getting involved with any of the participants of this debacle. It's a gigantic Mr. Yuk sticker for airing the dirty laundry of a hyper-dysfunctional "relationship."

The three cast members of this uber-drama should take a bow. You've certainly earned it.

~stef

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when I take the info off the hard drive and put it on this new computer, I'll be able to tell if I had the password turned on for the old computer

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ORIGINAL: LATEXBABY64

oh wait you mean this was not a script for the next jerry springer show i am lost lol oh well i was getting my hopes up shuky darn and stuff. ok to the point of things this stuff happens all the time in our lifestyle tons of dysfuctional paople trying to find some worthless meaning in sex and admoration in other people who are more dysfuctional then they are shrugs. balance key word take a look at this what makes a good relationship and bad well it starts with one balanced individual trying to find another balanced individual suppose to be dom domme well maybe i do not know i just know of late there to much kaos and bs i see more dom dom couples being born for god knows what reason its like two doctors getting together thats like a bad omen forsure but hey thats the life of hard knocks just not on my block anymore kidos i have had enough i am going to stand in the conservitive conner cause their lives seem to be more harmonious and happy maybe its because of there structure its not all about them take alook find out for you self anyone can type and anyone can act can you be more shrugs its all up to you be stupid or be right just know i am tried of the bs ds and i am putting up a fight at every conner and every place i am putting back love and respect in this place
purrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
catch the wave :)

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ORIGINAL: fastlane

Hey Phoenix, I soooo glad the you and Master are back together again and the flaming on the boards has ceased for you.
Nice to see good things happening for you both again!

Peace, Kevin

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ORIGINAL: IceyOne

Oh geeze, who gives a fuck already

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ORIGINAL: LATEXBABY64

some people keep the other persons things to pay for things they did not get for example bills

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I have my own income and I gave them $500 month, just because I was a family member there (that's what they told me) and I voluntarily wanted to give money to help out with the monthly bills and etc. This was given freely and I'm happy that I pitched in.

I also paid my own phone bill costs, personal care item costs, etc. and any food I ate was mostly left-overs that they never ate and threw away. I grew up eating food that was cooked the day before, so what? It actually tastes better the second day because the flavors are stronger. Nothing wrong with that. I was glad that I could show the alpha slave that I was costing them actually nothing to live there. I contributed income and I had almost zero expenses to be there.

I was proud that I was an asset to them and NOT a burden.


< Message edited by phoenix1 -- 2/6/2006 11:06:12 AM >

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ORIGINAL: IronBear

...It was those personal items which hurt the most and made her act of bloody minded vandalism unforgivable….. Do what you have to do and don’t even consider the effects o his family.. He is responsible for his actions and all the consequences.