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timg -> male crossdressing (1/11/2006 6:09:56 AM)

hello does anyone have a view on this subject?
i myself was a crossdresser in my first marriage that ended do to my dressing
let me hear from all the men and women.
thanks




LindaLashes -> RE: male crossdressing (1/11/2006 6:54:37 AM)

Hmm. My crossdressing has kept me away from forming any relationships most of the time. Crossdressing is such a big part of who I am, and I tend to bail out first if I sence a rejection to my way of living.
I would never go into a deep relationship or marriage with a woman without her knowing about Linda, and accepting her.




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: male crossdressing (1/11/2006 7:01:31 AM)

I'm not into it, but if I had a partner who was, I'd get into it for them to enjoy, as long as they enjoyed trying to pass or be casual about it. Some crossdressers go in for the "Ooo look I'm a man in a dress and horrible make up" humiliation thing, and I don't like that for men or women :)




FTopinMichigan -> RE: male crossdressing (1/11/2006 12:53:51 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LindaLashes

I would never go into a deep relationship or marriage with a woman without her knowing about Linda, and accepting her.


Your a wise person, LindaLashes.

In response to the OP....Crossdressing is a hard limit for me. It's not negotiable for the man I would be in a serious relationship with, but I'm not completely opposed to scening in the club with men I know that enjoy it.

I have no interest in a man that also states he would put aside that part of himself, to pursue a relationship with me. This type of action (or denial as it would be) would not be fair to me OR him! And don't get me started on the man that just thought he'd surprise me...and shows up in his frilly best. Not a good move!

My feelings have always been, if I wanted to be with a woman...I'd BE with a woman.

K




FelinePersuasion -> RE: male crossdressing (1/11/2006 2:52:36 PM)

I'm not interested in cross dressers, The ocasional girly thing would be kind of fun like getting joeseph to agree to letting me paint his toenails with cl ear sealer polish, or doing facials on him* no not sexual ones legitimate* and getting him more into grooming, but I enjoy having a man for a bf and if I wanted someone who wanted to be or look like a lady then I'd be with a lady. that actually reflects what FT just said.




BalletBob -> RE: male crossdressing (1/20/2006 1:08:31 PM)

I do some Cross Dressing, and the wife is okay with that, as long as I don't go outside the house, with anything more Fem than Leotards and Ballet Slippers or Mary Janes at time. And not them either, when I am with her. I don't dres up all the time, and do go overboard, mostly on Halloween.

She did tell me I MAY wear my French Maids Outfit a couple monthes ago, if I mopped and waxed the floors, so I jumped right to it. But not too hig, I had 4" heeled Mary Janes on at the time. Most of the time is is something subtle, like Thongs, Lace Ankle Socks or a Bra, under my regular clothes. Now when it comes to Ballet, she knows I relaly LOVE that, and can wear anything to do with Ballet, with no other clothes over them...even without working out at my Portable Ballet Barre.

When I did have MADAM, she use to have me wear things to bed or work, but I just do whatever I want now, within reason of course. A few Female Subs I met on Collarme, also helped me out some with Outfits they wanted me to wear, and I obliged them, and took Pictures for them to see too. After all, they were nice enough to hel me out, and we BOTH had FUN doing it.

Planning my Halloween Costurme for 06 already, BalletBob




windy135 -> RE: male crossdressing (1/20/2006 1:16:22 PM)

hmm cross dressing.. I've never really thought deeply about it. I can't say im completely opposed to dating someone who cross dresses. I'm pretty openminded. I have a lot of gay male friends that enjoy dressing up on halloween and I think many will end up doing it more often. But I guess that is more of a Drag Queen thing. Which I guess is just like cross dressing except they are gay.... haha I'm rambling. I say do what makes you happy! Crossdressing never hurt anybody [:)]




MstrTiger -> RE: male crossdressing (1/24/2006 10:45:35 AM)

Most gay men who crossdress do it for fun rather than to explore a part of their sexuality. I have known several slaves into it for humiliation and to degrade their masculinity, I don’t find it even remotely erotic though it can be quite amusing seeing a muscular slave parading around in a pair of panties.




NakedOnMyChain -> RE: male crossdressing (1/24/2006 12:05:33 PM)

It's never really been an issue for me. I have a few very good friends who are crossdressers, so it's never really been an issue. They are who they are, I have a great time with them, they have their lifestyle and I support them. I don't even think about it unless it's brought up. It would be a lot weirder if they weren't crossdressers.




veronicaofML -> RE: male crossdressing (1/24/2006 4:24:05 PM)

i am less...the crossdresser....and more the aspiring sex change-er...






BlkTallFullfig -> RE: male crossdressing (1/24/2006 5:36:35 PM)

There's a great discussion going on in ask a submissive/slave including theories as to why some women love it or hate it.
http://www.collarchat.com/m_247415/tm.htm M




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