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RE: How do you explain being a sub? - 1/4/2006 7:25:30 AM

liljoy

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Three of my best friends know about the redynamics of my relationship. All three are friends from work where i am anything but submissive. One guessed without me telling her just because of the things i said about the relationships i was in at the time and gave me her beauty series books, another is a bi sexual guy that doesn't understand but accepts the last used to be my boss and when i told him he said "I KNEW it!!!"

Gosh maybe i'm more submissive at work than i know lol

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RE: How do you explain being a sub? - 1/4/2006 8:49:53 AM

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How do you explain being a sub or in my case a Dom....see signature line below for answer

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RE: How do you explain being a sub? - 1/4/2006 4:24:05 PM

SweetSarijane

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Thank you all so much for you input here. One post in particular flipped a switch and unblocked me and the others offering advice, ideas helped a lot. I talked with my friend today and she does now better understand. We went further after this even because she then wondered if she was submissive and didn't realize it. Quite an in depth talk. I didn't think we could be any closer friends but it seems we are.

And to NakedOnMyChain, lol I told her about the joking comment made and she loved it...totally cracked her up.

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RE: How do you explain being a sub? - 1/4/2006 9:12:29 PM

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quote:

Thank you all so much for you input here. One post in particular flipped a switch and unblocked me and the others offering advice, ideas helped a lot. I talked with my friend today and she does now better understand. We went further after this even because she then wondered if she was submissive and didn't realize it. Quite an in depth talk. I didn't think we could be any closer friends but it seems we are.

I actually found out tha one of my friends & business associates is also a Domme in similar fashion. While speaking about my new relationship I made the comment that "our relationship doesn't allow for nonsense like that". She said allow for huh, you a Domme too? In my shock I could only stammer...too? We both started rolling laughing and at the exact same time said " I thought so".
I think that lots of people once they realize "normal people like them" (snicker) are into WIITWD they can finally admit to their inclinations and ask questions.

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RE: How do you explain being a sub? - 1/5/2006 12:11:04 AM

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LisaSea mentioned her friends think she's in a 1950s relationship.

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