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Younger Master/Older slave - 12/28/2005 7:32:35 AM

yesses4u

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I would like to know what the conscensus is on the Master being younger (anywhere from 10-20 years younger) than the slave. I have talked to quite a few younger Masters that seem to have quite a bit going for them (of course, this is all based on whether what they are talking is real), they have stated that age isn't an issue, it is the person and their soul that matters.

Are there any Master/slave relationships here on collarme that can tell me if it is working and if so what kind of drawbacks (if any) there are and what are the perks (if any)?

Thanks

beth

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RE: Younger Master/Older slave - 12/28/2005 7:37:42 AM

LuckyAlbatross

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"If you can imagine it, then it exists."

Most subs don't want younger doms, that's true. But there are lots of relationships where the dominant is younger than the sub. Figure out what works with you and go with it.

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RE: Younger Master/Older slave - 12/28/2005 8:25:59 AM

Heinz

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

"If you can imagine it, then it exists."

Most subs don't want younger doms, that's true. But there are lots of relationships where the dominant is younger than the sub. Figure out what works with you and go with it.

I agree,

but

if the feelings and desires are the same................

ik can work!!!!

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RE: Younger Master/Older slave - 12/28/2005 8:44:48 AM

newflowers

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It seems to be that in matters of age, or size, or hair color, or ethnicity, or height, or any number of the potentially superficial issues we consider when meeting someone, you have to decide what you want for yourself. If you speak with intent to one who is significantly younger than you, you meet, all seems well and continues in that direction BUT the consensus turns out that he is too young, do you say - Oh no, this was such a promising relationship but others have said it can't work because of his age. Do you turn away and reject what you want because others prefer older dominant partners?

If age difference does not bother you and the one with whom you are involved, what difference does the opinions of others make? There is a difference between age and maturity to be certain. One must consider as well the societal prejudices - when a male seeks or is with a female of significant age difference, it's not such a big deal; however, when a woman seeks or is with a male who is much younger, it is a topic of conversation.

Ultimately, you have to decide what you want and have the confidence to pursue it regardless of the consensus. Certainly there are considerations if there are disparate ages, but there are considerations for many issues to create and work toward a fulfilling relationship between two people.

I would say, regardless of age, it is most important to make sure that the two of you are seeking complementary things and expectations within the relationship.

Go for what YOU know to be good for you.

-a-

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RE: Younger Master/Older slave - 12/28/2005 8:56:47 AM

Mercnbeth

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this slave has no idea how the previous posters could prove their theories concerning "most" subs, however, what "most" subs are interested in would hardly seem to be relevant to your own unique situation.

here's an interesting thread on the age issue: Does Age Matter?

this slave has seen successful relationships occur between two people who didn't place a whole lot of importance on how many times each one of them has travelled around the sun, or what sex or skin color they were born with. OF COURSE, depending on what part of the country you live in and how you relate with your family and others, there are going to be "societal expectations" for lack of better words, and varying degrees of your family or vanilla society might give you grief, but it is YOUR life so only you can answer the question of if it can work between the two of you.

this slave would agree with LA in that if you can imagine it, it exists.

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RE: Younger Master/Older slave - 12/28/2005 9:03:51 AM

yesses4u

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thanks Merc and beth, that was a great link!!

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RE: Younger Master/Older slave - 12/28/2005 9:32:32 AM

konekoneko

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i'm min the reverse situation (older master), and there was quite a bit of drama when certain people found out. imo, you need to ask yourself, "is it worth dealing with how others may react to this to make myself feel happy? is it worth ending the relationship in order to avoid those kind of situations? if this is where you want to be, then no one else's opinions should change that.
my own personal problem stems (i think) from the fact that i am, to some extent, a people-pleaser, and i want to be the kind of person that everyone thinks i am.
the only life you can live is your own, and you can only live it once - why waste it living for others when you already know what you want for yourself?
note: it's a hell of a lot easier to write that than it is to live by it.

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RE: Younger Master/Older slave - 12/28/2005 2:02:00 PM

ownedjulia

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My master is 32 - 4 years younger than me.

It's easy to forget he is younger. it is impossible to forget WHO is in charge.

it works for me.

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RE: Younger Master/Older slave - 12/28/2005 2:10:00 PM

fastlane

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I card em at the door.....now......That satitory rape law is a biatch to beat

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RE: Younger Master/Older slave - 12/28/2005 2:14:06 PM

veronicaofML

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dont know about Hims.....

my Ms AND Her vanilla hubby are both younger than me.

different generations..i have memories that is mere history to them.

take care

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RE: Younger Master/Older slave - 12/28/2005 2:15:31 PM

Mylee

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ownedjulia

My master is 32 - 4 years younger than me.

It's easy to forget he is younger. it is impossible to forget WHO is in charge.

it works for me.

Yep same here for me, my Master is younger then i am by about 5 years and thre is no way i can forget who is in charge, who rules the roost, who holds the leash...younger doesnt always mean lack of wisdom, sight or controll

< Message edited by Mylee -- 12/28/2005 2:16:20 PM >

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RE: Younger Master/Older slave - 12/29/2005 6:51:37 AM

pettaurus

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Master is 23 and I am 29. He is the first Dominant that I have ever wanted to serve 24/7. He is also the only one younger than myself. All other men in my life have always been older, usually by 7-10 years. I am having the time of my life. He keeps me feeling young. And to think, had I know He was 22 when I asked Him out, I most likely never would have asked Him out. What a loss that would have been. It doesnt determine maturity all the time. Age? just a number. Now, if I could only tell that to my almost 30yr old brain LOL

pet

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RE: Younger Master/Older slave - 12/29/2005 6:58:08 AM

littleone35

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In my situation i always liked older Masters. My late Master was 22 years my senior (as is my hubby) and a Master i was condisering was 20 years my senior. As i have heard age is just a number. Ther are some 2o years old who are more mature then some 30 years olds. If a younger Master works for you i say go for it.

littleone

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RE: Younger Master/Older slave - 12/29/2005 7:10:47 AM

Jennylu48

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Well age play is a favorite interest of many ... not to mention the fascination many of us have about being ravaged by a young stud!! (hehehe). Still ... when your talking about lifestyle relationships ... I find great comfort in men my age or slightly older. There is somethinhg very sexy about maturity combined with experience ... don't ya think??

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RE: Younger Master/Older slave - 12/29/2005 7:32:38 AM

pettaurus

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quote:

There is somethinhg very sexy about maturity combined with experience ... don't ya think??

I agree Jenny. Is why I always went for the "older" guys. Even in vanilla relationships. Master and I met as vanilla. I asked Him out on the spur of the moment for coffee. We had never talked about age before, and I thought He was my age. I didn't know His age until the end of the night, when I asked, "so, how old are you?". My jaw dropped when He told me. He did not act like most 22 yr olds. So, definitely, maturity is sexy as hell. But, maturity and experience don't always come with age.

pet

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RE: Younger Master/Older slave - 12/29/2005 12:47:17 PM

MrBiguun51

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I prsfer the sub to be no more than 2 years older or less than 5 years younger

although I have been with subs as much as 22 years younger

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RE: Younger Master/Older slave - 12/29/2005 3:32:05 PM

orfunboi

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My last mistress was 13 yrs younger than me, and i don't think that was a problem. It all depends on the people involved.

quote:

ORIGINAL: yesses4u

I would like to know what the conscensus is on the Master being younger (anywhere from 10-20 years younger) than the slave. I have talked to quite a few younger Masters that seem to have quite a bit going for them (of course, this is all based on whether what they are talking is real), they have stated that age isn't an issue, it is the person and their soul that matters.

Are there any Master/slave relationships here on collarme that can tell me if it is working and if so what kind of drawbacks (if any) there are and what are the perks (if any)?

Thanks

beth

(in reply to yesses4u)

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RE: Younger Master/Older slave - 12/29/2005 5:21:43 PM

kalstolyn

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quote:

ORIGINAL: yesses4u

I would like to know what the conscensus is on the Master being younger (anywhere from 10-20 years younger) than the slave.

It would be tough, in my experience, younger fellas tend to trigger the ole maternal instinct, and I get all "mother hen" on em... not exactly condusive to a Master/slave type relationship.

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RE: Younger Master/Older slave - 12/29/2005 5:43:46 PM

fastlane

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I have learned the hard way....I now call the parents first and ask....if it's allright with you...me too!

Peace, Kevin

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RE: Younger Master/Older slave - 12/29/2005 5:46:05 PM

Quivver

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quote:

ORIGINAL: fastlane

I have learned the hard way....I now call the parents first and ask....if it's allright with you...me too!

Peace, Kevin

and if you call the house again your in BIG trouble!

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