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RE: Wasting Time!!! - 12/23/2005 4:30:46 AM

KatyLied

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Katy yup but some are explicit about it, and some try to do it very slowly

Yep, I know.
And some have a good arsenal of temptation at their disposal.
But it is your job to make it clear to them that you are not looking.

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RE: Wasting Time!!! - 12/23/2005 11:59:06 AM

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katy I do over and over and over AND OVER AGAIN. my whole profile exclaims that I'm not looking to replace my mate, I tell them first thing on contact, It's CRYSTAL CLEAR. I couldn't make it any clearer if I hit someone with it, I make it crystal clear and some people still think you're not serious or you're looking for greener pastures, it's those people I consider time wasters.

Like the one guy who understood and agree'd to the no sex non sexual thing and later on it comes out all along he was hoping I'd be so infatuated with him I'd drop joseph and go to him. He knew very well he said he was fine with the arrangement and the whole time he was plotting to stab joeseph in the back by stealing me.

Even after I told him it would not happen that way he still tried to guilt trip me into seeing him coming to stockton to see him playing with him. I told him flat out no, you're the one who said friends only when I said I would not leave my bf for you and I am sticking to that. I eventually stoped speaking to him because he was always trying to" make his point" about why it's ok to break up with your commited mate for another man

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RE: Wasting Time!!! - 12/23/2005 12:03:30 PM

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ORIGINAL: FemDomHouTx

If someone wastes your time in a long term online situation its probably because you refused to see the signs

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They don't waste my time long term. I find them out really quickly usualy but it's still a waste of time. It could be worse, it could of been months of wasted time, but when I put my attention into something or someone, tell my mate about the person cause I always do, it's a part of our open policy, and then they're full of shit It's wasted my time, and my mates energy.

Joeseph is very open about letting me play with others, but naturally like a bf should be there is co ncern for my saftey my well being and when I find my times been wasted and he see's my disapointment well it affects him too.

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RE: Wasting Time!!! - 12/23/2005 12:18:53 PM

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I think it is all in your perception and personality type. Are you a negative personality or a positive personality? A negative personality will say "That was a waste of my time". A positive personality will say "I really learned something there".

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RE: Wasting Time!!! - 12/23/2005 3:52:16 PM

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i've been here since Jan '04. In that time i've made friends who will last forever, chief amoung them my Mentor, who had to conduct sex ed 201 with a very skeptical student, LMAO.

i have not found my One, but will someday, i think. However, i see CM as more than a dating site, and would probably go on posting, etc., even after we became involved.

Who knows? But it's been a godsend to me.

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