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RE: Straight Woman Blues - 12/21/2005 1:31:50 PM   
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Are straight women just not exciting? Is monogamy just never enough? i have a clear vision of a life or peace and joy with my One; but apparently few men are interested in that vision.

candystripper


I just have to add this: Not all men are the same, just as women are not the same. Monogamy to one might be too confining for another. I see many women here who are polyamorous, and in their profiles they insist that they have more than one sexual partner. But does that necessarily mean that all women want this kind of variety in their lives? Of course not.

If you say that you are not bisexual in your profile, then no one who wants a woman who is bisexual should not message you.

And as far as the threesome thingy, it is true that most men have a fantasy that involves two women making love with each other. However, if you find a man who really loves you, he will appreciate having you and you alone in his life.

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RE: Straight Woman Blues - 12/21/2005 2:30:47 PM   
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^laughs^. One of life's mysteries is why men would find two women together exciting, but women do not want to see two men together (as a rule).


I must be the odd one out, but I find two men together to be very hot



mmmmmmmm so does my kyra mmmmmmmmmm



I knew there was something i admired about kyra. What tickles me most. Is that you as her Lord. Allow her to express this to you. Most men I've run acrossed, (Not all). Will strictly forbid such talk. Let alone thoughts of this. But all I get to hear is how the thought of 2 women is such a major turn on.


Candy, I'm like you on see one that prefers bi women. I'm not sure if i'm bi or not. I've been told I am and I'm not. Though I'm not new to being with another woman. I can not go 1 v 1 with a female. I have to have a male present. And have been told that I was pure gay while he or they watched. From past experiances, he doesn't have to be a Dom either. Just simply male... LOL

Now does this make me bi?... don't know. All I know, is 1v1 with a female is not my cup of tea. But think it's great for others that can and do find company with the ones they wish too. So please don't any one think this is a negative post... I do have friends of the gay life style and we all get along fine. So this is not bashing... LOL

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RE: Straight Woman Blues - 12/21/2005 2:57:16 PM   
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Unless....what???????
I bet I can guess. One goes on this end and one goes on that?
Am I close?
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RE: Straight Woman Blues - 12/21/2005 3:13:30 PM   
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RE: Straight Woman Blues - 12/21/2005 3:22:47 PM   
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I'm one of those women who find myself nowhere near bi or bi-curious. When discussing this with the man I have been with for a year now, I told him this is one of my hard limits....monogamy. He laughed. Being older, and having had many experiences with many people, he explained to me that fantasies are sometimes best left as that....fantasy. Two people together are tough enough. Trying to manage a relationship among three or more, as he explained to me, the work just didn't seem worth it. That doesn't mean that he limits his fantasy to the two of us. I don't mind, it just doesn't get ME excited. And if that all that is necessary to keep him happy, perfect.

I guess you have to be exceptional to be able to be in a poly relationship. But, for me, the idea of women with women is a big turn off. I'm not putting anyone down here. It's just me that is extremely heterosexual. We all fall somewhere between pure hetero and pure homosexual. I can't think of any situation that would include me and any other woman that would be hot. Now, me and two men????? LOL.....NOT according to my Dom. HE doesn't share with other men. Funny isn't it?

Oh, and man on man action? Hot...definitely!

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RE: Straight Woman Blues - 12/21/2005 3:26:50 PM   
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Unless....what???????


Heather *gets* me!



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RE: Straight Woman Blues - 12/21/2005 3:28:54 PM   
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Status: offline 		I think most guys think like that....from hanging around with the BUDDIES too much. I don't care either way, and don't ask for it. I am having enough trouble finding a Mistress, let alone tell her she has to be Bi and have another Mistress to work on me the same time.

On the other side of the coin, I don't see many women asking to see 2 guys together. If my Mistress requested of me, I would do some things, but only if she was present too. After all, I would be only be doing it to please her, and not the male.

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RE: Straight Woman Blues - 12/21/2005 3:48:24 PM   
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ORIGINAL: KnightofMists


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ORIGINAL: siamsa24

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^laughs^. One of life's mysteries is why men would find two women together exciting, but women do not want to see two men together (as a rule).


I must be the odd one out, but I find two men together to be very hot



mmmmmmmm so does my kyra mmmmmmmmmm



I knew there was something i admired about kyra. What tickles me most. Is that you as her Lord. Allow her to express this to you. Most men I've run acrossed, (Not all). Will strictly forbid such talk. Let alone thoughts of this. But all I get to hear is how the thought of 2 women is such a major turn on.



*perks* someone mentioned two guys together... *eyes glaze over* big fantasy of mine.

truesub,

Even though it is a fantasy that my Lord will never fulfill himself, when I am ready to make it reality, he will make it happen if at all possible My Lord is very secure in his sexuality, so although it may not turn him on, he appreciates that it turns me on.

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RE: Straight Woman Blues - 12/21/2005 3:50:39 PM   
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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

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Unless....what???????


Heather *gets* me!



she ain't the only one

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RE: Straight Woman Blues - 12/21/2005 3:53:20 PM   
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Status: offline 		Hi KyraofMists. Now you see what goes on in most guys minds....LMCLAO

I hope you get to see your fantasy come true someday. I love to make women happy, but Florida is kind of far for that....Tee Hee Hee

Still in the State of Confusion (New Jersey), BalletBob

Do you ever chat on Yahoo Messenger?

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RE: Straight Woman Blues - 12/21/2005 3:58:34 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DelRey

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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

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Unless....what???????


Heather *gets* me!

she ain't the only one

indeed : )

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RE: Straight Woman Blues - 12/21/2005 3:59:02 PM   
truesub4u


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*perks* someone mentioned two guys together... *eyes glaze over* big fantasy of mine.

truesub,

Even though it is a fantasy that my Lord will never fulfill himself, when I am ready to make it reality, he will make it happen if at all possible My Lord is very secure in his sexuality, so although it may not turn him on, he appreciates that it turns me on.

Knight's kyra



I never doubted this for 1 minute. I do hope you and your Lord didn't think other wise.

I think it's great that fantasies are still allowed to flow freely once in a relationship. Hell, fantasies during a scene are great as well. Being one that likes mind control during a scene makes it all that much more intense.


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RE: Straight Woman Blues - 12/21/2005 4:07:13 PM   
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ORIGINAL: candystripper

Sometimes i see a profile and it's very appealing; then i get to the part where He discusses what He wants; and so often He wants a bisexual or "bicurious" woman; and i feel sad.

Are straight women just not exciting? Is monogamy just never enough? i have a clear vision of a life or peace and joy with my One; but apparently few men are interested in that vision.

Don't misunderstand; i get mail; but often when i actually IM with Him -- He asks "would you?' and the answer is "no f**king way"; and we come to an end. *Sigh*.

Am i suffering alone?

candystripper



HEY just had a thought... what about the "straight man blues"?? you know men have a feeling too you know! of course I am not straight... it curves just alittle to the left *W*

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RE: Straight Woman Blues - 12/21/2005 4:09:14 PM   
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I never doubted this for 1 minute. I do hope you and your Lord didn't think other wise.

I think it's great that fantasies are still allowed to flow freely once in a relationship. Hell, fantasies during a scene are great as well. Being one that likes mind control during a scene makes it all that much more intense.



I didn't think that at all truesub. Sharing fantasies keeps our relationship fun and full of possibilities. This is not to say that every fantasy will become reality, but the idea of them can really intensify a scene. I am a very imaginative person, my Lord can describe it and I can picture it happening. Makes for great mind-fucks of a sort.

To the OP, there is nothing wrong with you wishing to be only heterosexual; it just may limit your choices of compatible partners. There is also nothing wrong with someone wishing to have a bi-sexual partner either, it limits their choices in other ways. Don’t get discouraged; finding someone compatible isn’t always easy.

kyra


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RE: Straight Woman Blues - 12/21/2005 4:31:05 PM   
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Hi KyraofMists. Now you see what goes on in most guys minds....LMCLAO

I hope you get to see your fantasy come true someday. I love to make women happy, but Florida is kind of far for that....Tee Hee Hee

Still in the State of Confusion (New Jersey), BalletBob

Do you ever chat on Yahoo Messenger?


lol

Sadly, Bob the PJ's just don't do it for me..... now a bald man in a leather kilt, that would make me happy!!!

I appreciate the interest to chat, but I only chat with a select few who are approved by my Lord.

kyra

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RE: Straight Woman Blues - 12/21/2005 5:06:46 PM   
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ORIGINAL: candystripper

^laughs^. One of life's mysteries is why men would find two women together exciting, but women do not want to see two men together (as a rule). Men should realise how discouraging it is to read "must be bisexual or bicurious" in a profile....it makes me feel a gap that cannot be bridged. So if it's NOT a requirement, perhaps You might edit that out.

candystripper


I really hope this doesn't come off as nasty or mean spirited... I'm just wondering who that rule belongs to... because it doesn't for me.

It doesn't for a close friend of mine. It doesn't for a friend that I've known online for about five and a half years. And it doesn't for a great number of other woman that I know.

< Message edited by MadameDahlia -- 12/21/2005 5:07:10 PM >

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RE: Straight Woman Blues - 12/21/2005 5:22:15 PM   
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Suffice it to say that some of you here make me.............

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RE: Straight Woman Blues - 12/21/2005 5:48:45 PM   
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but women do not want to see two men together (as a rule).


I had never been really motivated to see two men together. It did not make me uncomfortable, it just did not really get me hot and bothered either. Then I saw a few scenes on "Queer as Folk." Hmmm, let me think about this...

Once I had the opportunity to live-in-person see/participate with two men, I immediately moved it over to my "enjoyable activites" list. As with anything, some situations are better than others. But sexuality and passion and animal lust are appealing to me, no matter the gender. I really get off ont he reactions of other people.

That being said, I would never make it a requirement or pressure anyone to participate. (Unless it was a regular partner and I sensed/knew this was something he wanted and my request/command would give him "permission.")


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RE: Straight Woman Blues - 12/21/2005 5:51:36 PM   
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Hahahaha. Thank you, Caitlyn.

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RE: Straight Woman Blues - 12/21/2005 6:10:30 PM   
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Status: offline 		Man, I think a lot of that is just the typical male horniness...one girl is hot, so two are even hotter right? It seems to be something most of them grow out of though, or at least if they love YOU, they are able to live without it

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