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RE: The Sweet Spot - 12/13/2005 7:03:32 PM

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Mine too, Kyra. It is my downfall.

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RE: The Sweet Spot - 12/13/2005 7:15:35 PM

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

Now we're gonna start a whole new wave of bad poetry about a "doms hands" "doms eyes" and "doms voice"

Let me know where to enter the bad poetry contest.

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RE: The Sweet Spot - 12/13/2005 7:43:09 PM

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I think I may have touched one a few weeks ago. We were at a trade show manning a booth for Libby's company. At one point, coming back to the booth, I came up behind her, grasped her hair and pulled her head back, kissing her neck.

From behind me, I heard a soft "OHHHH, I want one of him," another female voice responding "Me too" and a soft sigh in third voice.

Not bad for an old, balding fat man.

Enough to make damn near any woman swoon.

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RE: The Sweet Spot - 12/13/2005 9:05:06 PM

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I have tried to be nonjudgemental but it is against my better judgement, so instead I just keep my judgements to myself.

Truthfully I find that listening attentively to a woman is a very good way to get an inside track into her thought processes. It seems that very few men do that these days and it's a shame because that IS the best way to learn about someone. I also like to watch her eyes when she's talking to me and see if there is laughter or sorrow there.

Physically I find that walking along beside her and rubbing my fingers gently around in circles in the small of her back usually elicits a response similar to a purr or a shiver. It doesn't have to be obvious or extreme but just a gentle touch to let her know I'm thinking about her.

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RE: The Sweet Spot - 12/13/2005 9:08:53 PM

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My sweet spot is in a scene when he holds me tight and looks me deeply in the eyes. I know thats cliche, but its really powerful stuff

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RE: The Sweet Spot - 12/13/2005 10:06:58 PM

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... do you have a "sweet spot" ...

... you can assume no one has touched my "sweet spot" but that's untrue; ...

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I knew it.

I just knew that somewhere in there there was a sweet spot.

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RE: The Sweet Spot - 12/14/2005 6:36:14 AM

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More than a 'sweet spot' (very nicely stated, Candy), people need to have security in knowing they can fall and not hit the floor emotionally. Imagine free falling with your intended and enjoying the ride not worrying about the landing...

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RE: The Sweet Spot - 12/14/2005 9:10:17 AM

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At one point, coming back to the booth, I came up behind her, grasped her hair and pulled her head back, kissing her neck.

JohnWarren

OOO, pulled her by the hair...yummmm.

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RE: The Sweet Spot - 12/14/2005 9:14:05 AM

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Let me know where to enter the bad poetry contest.

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His hands, so beautiful

Holding my hair; holding my soul

i feel the chains of rapture and freedom

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RE: The Sweet Spot - 12/14/2005 9:15:31 AM

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OOO, pulled her by the hair...yummmm.

I know. It works for me too. We could start an entire thread about the joys of having hair grasped, pulled, tugged, etc.

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RE: The Sweet Spot - 12/14/2005 9:16:27 AM

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I knew it.

I just knew that somewhere in there there was a sweet spot.

Noah

Huh? Don't i seem sweet on the boards? Or are You chasing me? LMAO.

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RE: The Sweet Spot - 12/14/2005 10:10:19 AM

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Truthfully I find that listening attentively to a woman is a very good way to get an inside track into her thought processes.

this reminds me about that old saying about politicians that sincerity works best, and if you can fake that you've got it made.

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RE: The Sweet Spot - 12/14/2005 10:16:23 AM

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Truthfully I find that listening attentively to a woman is a very good way to get an inside track into her thought processes.

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this reminds me about that old saying about politicians that sincerity works best, and if you can fake that you've got it made.

happypervert

Oscar is right; one way to "enter my world" is to actually listen to me. Being heard by a Man is a rare occurence. As for happypervert's comment; no, i know when attentiveness is being faked. The Man cannot retain any information i share with Him and begins guessing. A total turn-off.

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RE: The Sweet Spot - 12/15/2005 10:46:55 AM

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She tugs the leash, he crawls across the floor to Her feet, lies prostrate awaiting Her command, She stretches one long black stocking high heeled leg toward him, bids him to kiss it, grasps his hair, pulls him toward Her and kisses him long, deep and passionate, pulls his head back, looks into his eyes and breathes, never ever forget who you belong to--

and he responds, Yes Maam----
I think I'm about to hit the sweet spot---She smiles

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RE: The Sweet Spot - 12/15/2005 2:39:40 PM

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when he holds me tight and looks me deeply in the eyes.

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RE: The Sweet Spot - 12/15/2005 7:20:37 PM

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When we first meet, it's that look in his eyes that says he's anxious to know me getter. His next action is to ensure i've taken steps to ensure my safety as he shows me his license (and yup..that all true). Second, as we move (to a table/bar maybe), it's the light, firm touh of his fingers on the small of my back, helping to seat me, and then smiling, just at me. <sigh> Prolly won't ever happen, but i guess that's what dreams are for. And..as we leave, he opens the door, and sees me to what ever i'll be using to get home. And..the sweetest spot of all? He calls me to say Good night...i want to see you again. On such small hopes and intimacies have balanced, many faltered, the chosen few, suceed..and the Gods shine down and they are blessed...

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RE: The Sweet Spot - 12/15/2005 9:00:59 PM

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My "sweet spot" is my passion. My passion is what makes "Her" happy.

I remember a very incredible time for me some while back. Someone I love very much decided to hurt me. It was a wonderful night. I'm still today surprised someone didn't call the police. (Really).

I've broken my wrists (both at the same time), both elbows (the Percodans truly rocked), and I even remember two occasons when my life actually flashed before my eyes.

That wasn't SHIT compared to this.

She beat the living crap out of me that night. It lasted about a minute or so...and I can tell you right fucking now....that was the longest damned hour and a half I EVER experienced!

And every memory of it I carry through to today is full of love, tenderness and caring.

Yeah, she melts me today. She knows it. And I'm lucky.

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RE: The Sweet Spot - 12/15/2005 9:04:33 PM

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(One of these days, I need to remember to read the whole thread before I respond).

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