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passingglance -> RE: Erotic humiliation (12/13/2005 6:09:08 PM)

Humiliation can be quite enjoyable...

Personally, I'm a fan of degrading namecalling and crossdressing.




Sensualips -> RE: Erotic humiliation (12/14/2005 4:59:42 AM)

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It is a very strong punishment or negative reinforcer.


Aversive...it is an aversive. It is really bothering me I used the term negative reinforcer incorrectly and can not edit it. Gawd, I am such a geek.




mnottertail -> RE: Erotic humiliation (12/14/2005 5:38:17 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Sensualips

quote:

It is a very strong punishment or negative reinforcer.


Aversive...it is an aversive. It is really bothering me I used the term negative reinforcer incorrectly and can not edit it. Gawd, I am such a geek.


I am at a loss as to how your mind works.....
You find this erotically humiliating?

Try this on, then; it ain't not right!

Did the world move for you too?

LOL,
Ron




xxblushesxx -> RE: Erotic humiliation (12/14/2005 11:32:26 AM)

I wish I could tell you why I enjoy it...could it be my physical reactions? (my face flushes, nipples tighten up, body shakes...and well...some things already mentioned)...or emotional?...My lust/confusion when he goes from calling me 'princess' to his little (insert word) slut?...and making me beg to do what he does?...and making me beg for him to do it more...especially if he knows it is not something that I like?
Or...the pleasure/fear of actually beginning to like the thing I hated before?
Making me beg him to let me be his '____ toy'....
To beg him to own me...in any way he wants....
His satisfaction with me when I do...and the way he keeps me off-balance by, going from 'princess to slut to princess' again....confusing me...mingling pain with pleasure, always...
His chivalry, and kindness outside of this...
All of this, is a huge turn-on...(for me)

Christina




kyraofMists -> RE: Erotic humiliation (12/14/2005 4:43:14 PM)

LuckyAlbatross,

I really enjoyed your post on erotic humiliation. You appear to have a very good understanding of who you are and it is very apparant in your writing.

Knight's kyra




asiandoll27 -> RE: Erotic humiliation (12/15/2005 1:59:31 AM)

i think it is because being addressed as a anything other than what you think of yourself is a turn-on. Humilation is being knocked off your pedistal that you have been placed up on by others around you or sometimes by yourself. Definately a big turn on when done right and it leaves you floored. :)




sexedup62 -> RE: Erotic humiliation (12/15/2005 9:15:33 PM)

I love being Humilated by my wife. It shows acceptance of her ownership of me. It also shows her to what extend my loyality goes. It entertains her and that is satisfying to me. She has made me crawl in circles for her on the floor in front of her. She jests with me, prods me, calls me sissy, and the like, But I hear the Love in her voice and I am proud to belittle myself before her. It is my badge of sissyness. I deserve the jaunts. But, She Loves her property!




krikket -> RE: Erotic humiliation (12/16/2005 8:00:31 AM)

i agree..it's difficult to explain why i get so hot, or even what has to be said to get me that way. i've experienced a dom telling me one thing that i don't "enjoy" yet if someone else says the same thing i'm off and running..lol. If it goes too far, however, so that i start feeling like junk then it's not only a turn off, but a turn down...

cheers
jimini




lilminx -> RE: Erotic humiliation (1/3/2006 6:28:55 PM)


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ORIGINAL: snowgirlsub

From time to time, I like being humiliated. But I can’t explain why.

So I wanted to hear from other subs. If you enjoy being humiliated, please tell me why. What does it do for you?

Thanks,
Snow



During play I have been called a slut, a whore, a hole. I enjoy it actually, it is quite the erotic turn on.




Petruchio -> RE: Erotic humiliation (1/3/2006 8:45:40 PM)

Some time ago, I worked in an office with a stunning blonde who was obviously spolt. Others virtually kowtowed to her. I was polite, but kept to myself.

She come into my computer room and made some demand. As she turned away, I responded with humor, "You're really a bitch, you know."

She turned back and looked at me for the first time, and said, "You really think so?"

It was one of those suspended moments, where the right or wrong word would make the difference. I just said softly, "Bitch."

A little later she returned and said she couldn't believe I'd said that. I shrugged and said, "I'm busy at the moment, but when you return, scrub some of that tacky makeup off your face."

I turned away, but not before I saw her double-take.

One morning I wrinkled my nose and said, "Did you bathe today?" (The truth is, my sense of smell isn't very good.)

She turned red and I didn't see her for hours. She told me later she'd actually gone all the way home and bathed again.

Another time I said, "You probably are waiting to ask me out, but it probably won't work because I like pretty breasts."

If you knew me, I am a kind, gentle, and supportive dom, but I was able to sense what would work for her and what wouldn't. We did have an affair, but it's not in my nature to humiliate 100% of the time, and in fact the only honest criticism was that she wasn't a good lover.

I have had 'affectionate' nicknames for girlfriends which sounded like anything but to outsiders. Dr.Phil the other day had a couple who affectionately called each other 'craphead', and I understood that perfectly.




foxglove716 -> RE: Erotic humiliation (1/3/2006 9:37:44 PM)

being humiliated is a delicious feeling, isnt it? Like some masochists would call themselves sensationsluts, I am a mentalsensationslut, and I like to feel it all. Love, hate, pride, humility, perfection, degredation. I love to be knocked off my pedestal sometimes, but only with someone I know will help me back up.




Petruchio -> RE: Erotic humiliation (1/3/2006 10:11:14 PM)

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being humiliated is a delicious feeling, isnt it? Like some masochists would call themselves sensationsluts, I am a mentalsensationslut, and I like to feel it all. Love, hate, pride, humility, perfection, degredation. I love to be knocked off my pedestal sometimes, but only with someone I know will help me back up.


foxglove, you helped my comprehension. I've been told how understanding I am, but in truth, as a dom, I only understand a sub like a fox understands a rabbit. I can never be a rabbit.





PetCucky -> RE: Erotic humiliation (1/10/2006 12:37:42 PM)

I always loved it when my ex wife would humiliate me, particularly in front of her two sisters. She would have them make fun of my small cock, masturbate in front of them, they would all pee on me. I was in sub heaven! *blush*




kessia -> RE: Erotic humiliation (1/10/2006 1:10:32 PM)

Humiliation to me is about reduction. Being reduced to a moment, unable to even contemplate the next. Being reduced to a thing, there only to be used. Nice feeling, that.

It is also about being known. “nasty slut” to me is not humiliation, because it can be true. It is only when someone sees me, sees the things that worry me, that they can get their fingernails in enough to really tear away my sense of self. It leaves me open to my core and that is a powerful thing on both sides of the power equation, I think.

kess




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