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RE: Vanilla SO and the lifestyle - 12/12/2005 6:33:10 PM

AquarianButerfly

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talk to your wife first. let her know what it is you are looking for. make sure she is ok with this, because other wise you will destroy everything and everyone you care about. sneaking behind someones back is never the answer.

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RE: Vanilla SO and the lifestyle - 12/12/2005 7:06:02 PM

MsSonnetMarwood

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quote:

talk to your wife first. let her know what it is you are looking for. make sure she is ok with this, because other wise you will destroy everything and everyone you care about. sneaking behind someones back is never the answer.

I believe from previous posts his wife has agreed to let him see a domme within certain parameters.

Now the question is for him to figure out what he actually wants, what he actually can offer, and where to go from there.

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RE: Vanilla SO and the lifestyle - 12/12/2005 7:09:09 PM

MizSuz

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ORIGINAL: LadyVictoria

A lot of good advice has been offered so far. Here's another perspective... Have you talked to your wife about WHY she has no desire to learn or play? Perhaps it is something simple, as having no knowledge, or something more problematic such as in deeply-seated religious beliefs. I applaud your honesty with her in even approaching the subject. Perhaps she would be open to discussing her thoughts with a Domme. Just a thought....
LadyV

WONDERFUL advice!!!! Beautiful.

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