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Fears - 12/9/2005 5:38:27 PM   
MHOO314


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Status: offline 		We have lately had some awesome threads about expectations, questions that should be asked---now I pose to My esteemed colleagues--what are your greatest fears?



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RE: Fears - 12/9/2005 5:43:21 PM   
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I'm not into prolonged, severe pain.

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RE: Fears - 12/9/2005 6:31:23 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MHOO314

We have lately had some awesome threads about expectations, questions that should be asked---now I pose to My esteemed colleagues--what are your greatest fears?




Abandonment
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RE: Fears - 12/9/2005 6:33:08 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MHOO314

We have lately had some awesome threads about expectations, questions that should be asked---now I pose to My esteemed colleagues--what are your greatest fears?



I am afraid of getting lost and afraid of driving. I do both very well and very often.

I'm also afraid of rejection and retaliation.

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RE: Fears - 12/9/2005 6:33:30 PM   
BalletBob


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RE: Fears - 12/9/2005 6:33:47 PM   
ToServeIsToLive


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Status: offline 		Needles. It's not quite a fear, but I get sick watching people get poked, and I tense up incredibly whenever I get a shot.
Being my easily trusting self at the wrong time.

(Not serious) Nuclear war.
Carnies. Circus folk. Nomads, you know. Smell like cabbage. Small hands.

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RE: Fears - 12/9/2005 6:43:26 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		Being taken in by yet another liar, when it's so difficult for me to trust in the first place. Bees, wasps, hornets, since I am allergic to the stings. Spongebob Squarepants. Well, I'm not *afraid* of Spongebob, but he disturbs me on a visceral level.

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RE: Fears - 12/9/2005 6:50:22 PM   
JohnWarren


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We have lately had some awesome threads about expectations, questions that should be asked---now I pose to My esteemed colleagues--what are your greatest fears?


Failure to protect and care for those who have given me their trust. After watching The English Patient, I didn't sleep for almost 48 hours and had nightmares for weeks. It was one of the most terrifying horror movies I've ever seen.

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RE: Fears - 12/9/2005 6:54:12 PM   
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what are your greatest fears?
Freezing, feeling awkward, not knowing what to do, interrupting his ride because I'm being clumsy/inept/ill prepared... My greatest fears, and yet I have to experience every single one just the same to become better. M

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RE: Fears - 12/9/2005 6:55:35 PM   
kyraofMists


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ORIGINAL: MHOO314

what are your greatest fears?



Betrayal
Rejection
Disappointing the ones I love


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RE: Fears - 12/9/2005 7:00:52 PM   
MHOO314


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Status: offline 		hmmm, I think we were separated at birth--smiles, major allergic to stings, SpongeBob, egads dont get Me started on that one--and well not finding the man/boy/sub love---I have one under consideration and well...

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RE: Fears - 12/9/2005 8:11:57 PM   
KittenWithaTwist


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Status: offline 		I'm afraid of being taken advantage of. I'm afraid of being abandoned. I'm afraid of rejection.

There are more. But that's enough to dwell on, I think.

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RE: Fears - 12/9/2005 8:17:23 PM   
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I'm afraid of rejection.


I think many people carry that.

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RE: Fears - 12/9/2005 8:22:55 PM   
liltxsubby


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Status: offline 		Needles-I actually get faint and queasy when I have to have a shot.

Bees, wasps, dirt dobbers and anything else that can sting and make me swell up like a balloon.

FnF with a golfshaft when I've been particularly bratty.

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RE: Fears - 12/9/2005 8:28:26 PM   
foxglove716


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Status: offline 		I fear either being too close or too distant to someone, and the pain it might cause either one of us

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RE: Fears - 12/9/2005 9:15:17 PM   
LilWhiteWolf


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Status: offline 		what i fear the most is being lied to or being yelled at. mental abuse can do that to a person i guess

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RE: Fears - 12/9/2005 9:22:10 PM   
Quivver


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Status: offline 		The Fear that Fear itself will hold me from finding what I desire.

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RE: Fears - 12/9/2005 9:28:06 PM   
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Failing to pleasing those i love,
Disappointing those i love,
Being betrayed,

those are my biggest fears,

Knight's alandra

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RE: Fears - 12/9/2005 9:32:06 PM   
FangsNfeet


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Status: offline 		I like water and I love Fire but I never liked the idea of burning nor drowning while alive. The idea of watching your flesh drip off like hot butter or not being able to breath just dosen't seem fun to me. Other than that, I don't like thinking about police showing up at my door to inform me that a loved one such as my pet has died or been in a serious accident.

When I use to work in Trauma units and the ambulance, my biggest worry at work was seeing a loved one roll in on a stretcher or having to repsond to an accident only to be supprised by the sight of someone I know being in the wreck. I'm glad that I'm now in pharmacuticals and medical supplies. Atleast I now don't have that thought going in the back of my mind any more.

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RE: Fears - 12/9/2005 9:44:05 PM   
Sensualips


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Status: offline 		Failing to provide for or adequately protect my children.

The Kansas legislature.

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