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Mistress are you a Sadist? - 12/8/2005 4:55:39 PM

talmar

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Dommes how many of you identify as a sadist?

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RE: Mistress are you a Sadist? - 12/8/2005 5:12:24 PM

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sensual sadist

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RE: Mistress are you a Sadist? - 12/8/2005 5:16:40 PM

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Only with those that respond with passion, whimpers and moans. Sadistic energy is wasted on those that can not fly with the pain in My opinion...it is the dance of sadism and masochism that feeds My desires when I choose this type of play.

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RE: Mistress are you a Sadist? - 12/8/2005 5:23:11 PM

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Consensual sadist. It wouldn't amuse me to give pain to someone who didn't want it.

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RE: Mistress are you a Sadist? - 12/8/2005 5:27:30 PM

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Only with those that respond with passion, whimpers and moans. Sadistic energy is wasted on those that can not fly with the pain in My opinion...it is the dance of sadism and masochism that feeds My desires when I choose this type of play.

That's very true. Although I consider myself rather sadistic, I do need the positive energy of having the sub fly for me to really enjoy myself.

Basically what i do is pace myself to where they can go, and push as I get to know them better.

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RE: Mistress are you a Sadist? - 12/8/2005 7:11:51 PM

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I suppose I would consider myself a sensual sadist as well. I would also consider myself a gag sadist

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RE: Mistress are you a Sadist? - 12/8/2005 7:13:08 PM

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One of the body languages that particularly incites My sadism is when the slaves body tries to come "to" Me for the next indignity even when they are securely bound to My St Andrews Cross or CBT Bondage Chair. When their bodies seek out more torment even against their will. Slamming them back against the cross is enjoyable as well.

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RE: Mistress are you a Sadist? - 12/8/2005 7:34:04 PM

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Consensual sadist. It wouldn't amuse me to give pain to someone who didn't want it.

This is almost me.

Fox isn't a masochist but I am a sadist. He offers himself and suffers for me and it is so amazing. Very different then when I'm with a masochist, a different type of energy exchanged and I don't desire as much SM time or intensity with him because of this difference.

With a masochist, I'd probably do SM once a week or more. With Fox maybe once a month we do SM in any serious way. I just don't need it more often with what he gives me when he fetches my floggers, my knife or stands still for a slap.

I can't really put into words that difference but the fact that he does it to please me and this is his only reward is so amazing (there's that word again!).

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RE: Mistress are you a Sadist? - 12/8/2005 7:36:49 PM

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I am a very responsive bottom...when I am not gagged. What are you favorite torture methods?

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RE: Mistress are you a Sadist? - 12/8/2005 7:39:48 PM

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Lady Julie Ann,
Hi. I am intrigued...what is a gag sadist? What types of gags do you enjoy employing?

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I suppose I would consider myself a sensual sadist as well. I would also consider myself a gag sadist

Be well,
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RE: Mistress are you a Sadist? - 12/8/2005 7:41:55 PM

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Yes I only believe in playing in a Safe, Sane, Consentual & confidential manner.

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Consensual sadist. It wouldn't amuse me to give pain to someone who didn't want it.

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RE: Mistress are you a Sadist? - 12/8/2005 7:47:50 PM

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ORIGINAL: talmar

Dommes how many of you identify as a sadist?

Edgy sadist, stickler for consent.

I want what you would give to nobody, doesn't much matter what it is.

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RE: Mistress are you a Sadist? - 12/8/2005 7:48:23 PM

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Mistress Passion,
Hi. I noticed in reading your profile that you are a expert in electrical torture...what toys do you enjoy using?

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RE: Mistress are you a Sadist? - 12/8/2005 7:57:45 PM

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Sadist, yes, especially when I have a very responsive masochist I am playing with.

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RE: Mistress are you a Sadist? - 12/8/2005 8:18:58 PM

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A sadist I am...I love the feeling of giving pain, and knowing the other person enjoys it...if he doesn't then it isn't as much fun...doesn't stop me much thought...if they don't want the pain, then they better say so before...after I have started, the pain will come until they reach their limit...or until I deside to stop it...lol....whichever comes first...lol

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RE: Mistress are you a Sadist? - 12/9/2005 4:28:39 AM

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ORIGINAL: talmar

Mistress Passion,
Hi. I noticed in reading your profile that you are a expert in electrical torture...what toys do you enjoy using?

I use a tens unit as well as a violet wand.

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RE: Mistress are you a Sadist? - 12/9/2005 5:12:46 AM

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ORIGINAL: talmar

Lady Julie Ann,
Hi. I am intrigued...what is a gag sadist? What types of gags do you enjoy employing?

I enjoy gags that fill the mouth and cause the sub to have to control his breathing and gag reflex, and I generally enjoy gag reflex play in my scenes. I have a large cock gag, ring gag, leather mouth-stuffer gag, and a couple of ball gags. I also enjoy layered gags as where something is stuffed in the mouth and something is tied between the teeth or taped over the mouth to hold it in.

I have to give credit to the wonderful Master Ken and his slave sweatcream for the term "gag sadist".

Be well,
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RE: Mistress are you a Sadist? - 12/9/2005 6:55:48 AM

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Yes.

Truly,

Lady T.

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-Tennessee Williams-

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RE: Mistress are you a Sadist? - 12/9/2005 8:23:02 AM

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These responses give me some hope.

I was starting to wonder if there were any Sadists on the site. I am primarily into sensation play.

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RE: Mistress are you a Sadist? - 12/9/2005 10:46:11 AM

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ORIGINAL: talmar

Yes I only believe in playing in a Safe, Sane, Consentual & confidential manner.

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Consensual sadist. It wouldn't amuse me to give pain to someone who didn't want it.

I am definitely NOT an SSC person!

Tammyjo, I understand what you mean about working with someone who really *isn't* a masochist........it's very intense satisfaction! You are very lucky to have Fox. :)

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