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RE: Deep throating - 12/10/2005 10:44:34 AM   
slavedesires


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I deep throated a cock with 14 guage bar bell attached to the tip


Which brings ME to my next question....

The guy I'm fooling around with right now has an 8 gauge PA. I only recently started deep throating him and I really rather like it... but the PA scratches the back of my throat and makes me choke because of the pressure point, the ball on it, the fact it's cold, etc etc. He said he could take it out and I could spend a good long time deep throating him, but I also really like tonguing the right and toying with my teeth and such when I come up from air and we'd both be sad if I couldn't. Sooooooo is there any good way to get used to that, or just deal with him taking it out?


I have no suggestions for you twice. Whenever I swallowed for several days I felt like the 14 gauge was caught in my throat. I've not taken it since.

It just occured to me...if a woman has tonsils maybe that has something to do with the gag reflex or the amount of stretch in the esophageal musculature. I have none...i just work a cock down.

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RE: Deep throating - 12/10/2005 12:44:10 PM   
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Status: offline 		This was amoung my repetorie of sex acts as a vanilla woman; i could do it for hours and loved it. But there has been damage to my esphogus and digestive tract since i last did it, and i cannot guarantee a Man i can still call upon that experience and deep-throat Him. i will be very sad if that is true.

For me the key to deep throating was (1) suppress the gag reflex by going slow at first and allowing the throat to relax and (2) staying in control, so i could breathe any time i wanted to. When a Man put His hand on the back of my neck to shove me down further or keep me down, that was His last bj from me.

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RE: Deep throating - 12/11/2005 6:02:57 AM   
sweetwhisper


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Status: offline 		ugh, this is a pretty big issue with me, my Master wants and expects me to deep throat, and i ofcourse, really really REALLY want to be able to do this as well, but geez oh geez, i have terrible gag reflex.....whine whine whine. lol.

i always thought i was great at giving blow jobs, back in the days when i was vanilla and expectations weren't nearly as high, but damn, now i realize i suck at it, and not in a good way either!! lol

i am going to try the chloreseptic spray and hope that it works.

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RE: Deep throating - 12/11/2005 9:08:51 AM   
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or learn to sword swallow, that could be helpful to get it down lol


ROFL.

I would always pretend like i was swallowing it and it worked for me just fine.

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RE: Deep throating - 12/11/2005 9:37:26 AM   
windy135


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Status: offline 		The breathing thing is what gets me.. I try to breath out of my nose but I think my nasal passage also becomes restricted since he is doen my throat. its very annoying

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RE: Deep throating - 12/11/2005 3:23:54 PM   
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Status: offline 		All I have to say thank god that I'm a man lol. We have it alot easier.

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RE: Deep throating - 12/12/2005 2:19:22 AM   
Twice


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When a Man put His hand on the back of my neck to shove me down further or keep me down, that was His last bj from me.


Yeah, that makes me panic SO badly.

But, anyway, I spent a long time working on deep throating last night and today, actually. It got easier when I gut used to how the 8 gauge felt on my throat and told him PLEASE not to thrust/move/breathe at all when he had the ring in and I was deep throating him. As long as I could control WHERE it hurt, I could take it.

Then he took the ring out (actually, I did, by accident, and he decided not to put it back in) and found out that if I can get him in deep with it on... I can get him in REALLY deep without it! heh

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RE: Deep throating - 12/12/2005 8:41:03 AM   
candystripper


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ugh, this is a pretty big issue with me, my Master wants and expects me to deep throat, and i ofcourse, really really REALLY want to be able to do this as well, but geez oh geez, i have terrible gag reflex.....whine whine whine. lol.

i always thought i was great at giving blow jobs, back in the days when i was vanilla and expectations weren't nearly as high, but damn, now i realize i suck at it, and not in a good way either!! lol

i am going to try the chloreseptic spray and hope that it works.

sweetwhisper


i imagine some do have "stronger" gag reflexes than others, but i think a lot of it is psychological, because your air is cut off while His cock is in your throat. i strongly suggest you & He keep trying; with you focusing on giving pleasure (and getting it; i love bjs). Let you control how long, how deep, amd then eventually you should be able to deep-throat. After that; your Master should able to throat-f**k you, controlling your air, etc., but that's for down the road. First you need to learn to relax and enjoy.

Best wishes.

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RE: Deep throating - 12/17/2005 10:11:45 PM   
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Status: offline 		Just learn to swallow when it hits your throat. This is elementary, folks, and if you haven't gotten it, find a man (like me) who can't hit your uvula.

Yes, I DID just say I have a short cock.

if sex is go great, then a man should be able to enjoy himself without needing to fuck where he can't go.

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RE: Deep throating - 12/18/2005 10:52:38 AM   
MHOO314


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RE: Deep throating - 12/18/2005 10:54:18 AM   
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no hair, he has to shave the hair, I cannot abide to hock up a hairball---


LMAO oh gosh...that is just gross

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RE: Deep throating - 12/18/2005 11:29:13 AM   
nephandi


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Status: offline 		Hum... just jumping on this tread, i have never even considerd doing this, but my Master like it so i probably would at some point in time. So a few questions, if they have been answerd elsewere sorry, like i said i have just jumped on the tread to ask afew questions.

Is it dangerous?
Do it hurt?
Can you get, well his littleguys in your lungs?
Can you breathe while you do it?
Do it take mutch training?

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RE: Deep throating - 12/18/2005 12:31:07 PM   
windy135


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ORIGINAL: nephandi

Hum... just jumping on this tread, i have never even considerd doing this, but my Master like it so i probably would at some point in time. So a few questions, if they have been answerd elsewere sorry, like i said i have just jumped on the tread to ask afew questions.

Is it dangerous?
Do it hurt?
Can you get, well his littleguys in your lungs?
Can you breathe while you do it?
Do it take mutch training?




Dangerous? No not usually. It can be a lot of fun.
Can you get his little guys in your lungs? hehe no you have an epiglotis so if he were to cum in your mouth you would swallow it.. it wouldnt go in your lungs.
Can you breath? Yes and no it depends on how far you take his member into your mouth/throat. You can bob your head up and down you dont have to just suffercate yourself.
Training? I wouldnt think of it as training. Just think about having fun and making your master feel good. Might be helpful to watch some porn.

Nephandi- I work with a few younger kids with aspergers and understand it. I'm just saying this so that if you ever have any questions please feel free to contact me. Good Luck*

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RE: Deep throating - 12/18/2005 3:31:51 PM   
candystripper


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ORIGINAL: MHOO314

no hair, he has to shave the hair, I cannot abide to hock up a hairball---


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LMAO oh gosh...that is just gross.

IrishMist


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candystripper

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RE: Deep throating - 12/18/2005 4:58:48 PM   
phoenixMF


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Status: offline 		the key to deep throating is to dissociate while you're doing it...

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RE: Deep throating - 12/18/2005 6:44:14 PM   
DoYouHaveOne


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ORIGINAL: troilus

Just learn to swallow when it hits your throat. This is elementary, folks, and if you haven't gotten it, find a man (like me) who can't hit your uvula.

Yes, I DID just say I have a short cock.

if sex is go great, then a man should be able to enjoy himself without needing to fuck where he can't go.


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and slavedesires know how to take em all...there isnt one she wont try for her One.

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ORIGINAL: candystripper

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ORIGINAL: MHOO314

no hair, he has to shave the hair, I cannot abide to hock up a hairball---


quote:

LMAO oh gosh...that is just gross.

IrishMist


No, No, No...do not remove Man Fur!

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i am NOT a cat!! and i dont take hairball formula catnip



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RE: Deep throating - 12/18/2005 7:19:45 PM   
MHOO314


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Status: offline 		c'mon cand, only like right THERE, no where else but ewwww I can't abide getting a hair out of My throat---::::cough cough:::smiles

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RE: Deep throating - 12/19/2005 4:36:46 AM   
nephandi


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Status: offline 		windy, thanks alot for the information and i will remember your offer and i will mail you if i have any questions, thanks alot you are werry kind.

Do deep troathing hurt?

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RE: Deep throating - 2/5/2006 9:54:32 AM   
Tapestry


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ORIGINAL: sweetwhisper

ugh, this is a pretty big issue with me, my Master wants and expects me to deep throat, and i ofcourse, really really REALLY want to be able to do this as well, but geez oh geez, i have terrible gag reflex.....whine whine whine. lol.

i always thought i was great at giving blow jobs, back in the days when i was vanilla and expectations weren't nearly as high, but damn, now i realize i suck at it, and not in a good way either!! lol

i am going to try the chloreseptic spray and hope that it works.

OK, technique-wise, i've found that opening my mouth wide and taking Him in all the way in to my throat is much easier than closing my lips around Him as i try to take Him in. Once my lips are closed, my mouth and throat tend to constrict, so to get Him all the way in, i keep my mouth open until He's there. Sometimes i gag a little, which makes me smile, because He does so enjoy the sensation! If the gagging becomes too much i simply pull back and do something else for awhile. Oddly enough, sometimes i've wanted to gag a bit to bring Him pleasure and i can't. Don't know what's up with that!

I think the other thing is to relax, and enjoy. Let your tongue play over the surface of Him, swirling and finding every little ridge and nook and cranny. Listen for His reaction, what makes Him catch His breath, or moan in pleasure? Then do it some more! Keep trying new things, feel how He swells and hardens, the vein pulses, the pre-cum begins to leak, that's when you know you're bringing Him pleasure. You're probably much better at this than you give yourself credit for, so just relax, experiment, and enjoy.

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RE: Deep throating - 2/5/2006 3:01:04 PM   
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i am NOT a cat!! and i dont take hairball formula catnip




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