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RE: slaves who r looking but..... - 11/30/2005 6:08:00 PM

HisMagdalene

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ORIGINAL: amayos

Goodness, I haven't experienced THAT as of yet. Such things to look forward to. ;)

Well, not here, anyway.

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RE: slaves who r looking but..... - 11/30/2005 7:50:26 PM

amayos

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ORIGINAL: HisMagdalene

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Goodness, I haven't experienced THAT as of yet. Such things to look forward to. ;)

Well, not here, anyway.

But your stalking is fun, dear.

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RE: slaves who r looking but..... - 11/30/2005 8:39:16 PM

HisMagdalene

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But your stalking is fun, dear.

[Oh sure, you say that NOW. A year ago? Not so much.]

*giggles* Thank you, Master.

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RE: slaves who r looking but..... - 12/2/2005 8:57:44 PM

Slaveless1

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I yet to fully understand most subs/slaves on here. As for finding fakes I figure at least half if not more are on this site. It is easy to to trip a fake up for the most part. A few examples are but limited to:

1) they start by being astute in theri capitalization only to stop and askf or pictures shortly there after.

2) My friend who is on here has contacted same person and both have gotten different pictures of same.

3) sob story and ask for $$$

We are true people on here in search of the right slave for us, I do not have tiem to play many games. Will continue our search with this site being a small part in our search.

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RE: slaves who r looking but..... - 3/8/2006 10:38:38 PM

Warrior

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There are several issues here with respect to sending mail. First, I do not send form letters. However, I also no longer "write a book" as some have called my notes over the years. Why? Simple. It is often a waste of time due to several things already mentioned. If someone has 300 messages in their inbox, will they even read mine? Will I be shunted off to a bulk mail folder? I have no problem with someone putting in their profile their bulk mail settings, but it appears that as it is not a collarme requirement, it does not happen all that often.

I have posted journal entries every so often about courtesy. It has no real effect on many people, but at the same time, does it matter? If someone is going to be discourteous, do you really want to deal with them in the first place? An example is someone you have corresponded with a few times who then just never replies again. At times I have sent a subsequent note to see if they got my last one.... but that has made no real sense.

And what about this one.... I read a profile of someone I thought I would be very compatible with, and somewhat local, say within 150 miles. I spent a bit of time on a note and attempted to send it, only to find that I was blocked. Blocked? Someone has blocked someone that has never written to them in the first place? Amazing.

In summary though, I have adjusted my expectations, unfortunately downward in terms of what I might get back upon sending someone a note.

Life goes on. Enjoy it.

Warrior

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RE: slaves who r looking but..... - 3/9/2006 1:48:03 AM

IronBear

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It’s not just the forums and emails you need to worry about. I was in chats the other night and was surprised by an IM from a male sub. So ok it wasn’t against the rules to IM without asking first, but it is rude. Anyway this joker rabbited on for a while and I let him because the chats were not talking much. IN the end I asked him what the purpose of the incessant personal questions were. He informed m that he wanted to sub for a large Master. I asked if he had read my profile to which we answered yes.. I asked if he realized that I was a Gorean Master and he said yes.. I asked if he realized that he lived in the US and I lived in Australia and he said yes.. I then told him that Goreans do not have subs but only slaves. And that it would take 5 years for him to get here… he said to me “Don’t you have any was for me then Master?” To which I stated “No, not really.” The reply was amusing: “Fuck you, you wanna be your no master…” and left….

Glad I’m no longer looking it may be worse.. have to fix the profile to show not interested or remove it altogether.

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