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RE: Humiliation play - 12/7/2005 2:46:07 AM

Pinkpottiepants

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What you are saying is true to at least some measure for everyone, that's why I brought up the point about diaprs. They can be used as a bondage or punishment tool when almost every other device or punishment would be out of the question, when privacy is needed. They can be reasonably well hidden under your clothes and so they can be worn almost at any time or place your Mistress chooses. When you're the one wearing them, you never forget you have them on and you constantly fear that someone will either notice the buldge that only a diaper makes, or hears the crinkle of your plastic pants.

You struggle with the fear of discovery the whole time you're out in public, always worrying about where and how you are standing, knowing that good slight lines are your enemy. You must do everything right, you can't bend or reach, that might expose your diaper. If you are permitted to use a public washroom, you have to choose the time and place carefully. You fear the slience of stores and places that don't play that dreadful background music, because your plastic panties will sing out there crinkle crinkle tune as you walk or move, telling everyone within ear shot what you are wearing.

The mere fact that someone might discover that you are wearing the most babyish of items, a diaper and plastic panties, makes an outting in diapers a real challenge for even those who are experienced in public humiliation. Yet even a good public pants wetting can usually be hidden from glaring eyes, unless you make a mistake. Of course if your Mistress insists that you show off a little bit of your diaper or plastic pants, that's a whole other story. One that brings both fear and excitement to anyone who lives for humiliation.

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RE: Humiliation play - 12/8/2005 5:17:30 AM

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Humiliation has a purpose, keeping the slut keenly aware and in her place. There are many ways to publicly humiliate without being overt. We use private and semi-private humiliation as a discipline tool and learning experience.....perhaps we are a little too serious.

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RE: Humiliation play - 12/8/2005 8:18:09 AM

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I have often been made to masurbate into a dog bowl & then I would be forced to lick it clean. The Domme I was serving often had her friends watch & laugh.
I have been placed in bondage in display during parties so the guests could be amused.
A discreet form of public humiliation I have endured was a electric cock ring...zap zap...while trying to eat, walk, watch a movie.

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RE: Humiliation play - 12/11/2005 12:45:40 AM

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mnottertail,

I get sick to death of reading your foul expletives on these posts.

Clean up your fingers and do us all a huge favor.

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RE: Humiliation play - 12/22/2005 6:51:30 AM

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Texas Maam,

Surely you are joking with regard to the "foul expletives?" While I do think there are better ways to express yourself, you must expect to see a little adult language on this site?? Geez, half the threads on this message board contain harsh, crude, adult language, and it's not limited to just the males. Geez, I get such a kick out of people like you!!! Lighten up a little!

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RE: Humiliation play - 12/22/2005 9:02:19 AM

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I have to admit like others that it is a major rush when out in diapers and baby pants.
That rush intensifies when you are forced to use them.
Many mistresses aren't into this kind of play, but talk about a effective way to be humiliated.

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RE: Humiliation play - 12/22/2005 1:54:12 PM

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i have to say as a man who enjoys certain "humiliation" i also dont want to look like some sort of clown, and certainly not to someone in the general public. Maybe i am wrong in saying that i like humiliation, as it is more of a psychological thing, something to make me get ans stay in that head space. Being nude while others are clothed is humbling to me, but is it humiliating? Hard to say. I may revise my "profile" and x out the humiliation, as being laughed at is not part of it, but being noticed in my role is. I may be scaring off those who would be compatible or not.

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RE: Humiliation play - 12/22/2005 2:03:34 PM

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ORIGINAL: exploruDC

i have to say as a man who enjoys certain "humiliation" i also dont want to look like some sort of clown, and certainly not to someone in the general public. Maybe i am wrong in saying that i like humiliation, as it is more of a psychological thing, something to make me get ans stay in that head space. Being nude while others are clothed is humbling to me, but is it humiliating? Hard to say. I may revise my "profile" and x out the humiliation, as being laughed at is not part of it, but being noticed in my role is. I may be scaring off those who would be compatible or not.

That's one of the problems with words in the scene: they can have so many meanings. To me, I find a lot of the people I meet who way they are interested in humiliation are more interested in something like erotic embarrassment. In your case, the "keep one in headspace" adds another dimension to a complex issue

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RE: Humiliation play - 12/22/2005 6:34:05 PM

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Mr. Warren,
Hi. I just wanted to say I enjoyed your book. It gave me alot of keeen insights into the scene & is one of the books I always recommend to newbies.

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RE: Humiliation play - 12/24/2005 11:44:30 AM

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Texas Maam,

Surely you are joking with regard to the "foul expletives?" While I do think there are better ways to express yourself, you must expect to see a little adult language on this site?? Geez, half the threads on this message board contain harsh, crude, adult language, and it's not limited to just the males. Geez, I get such a kick out of people like you!!! Lighten up a little!

BikerBoy, I'm sure the 'f' word is most likely at the top of your vocabulary list. Yes, sad to say, I expect to see expletives here, I just get tired of them.

For those of us who prefer something a bit more esoteric, I'm sure posts without the 'f' word in every single sentence would be most refreshing.

My post was directed towards mnottertail, whose posts are so boringly full of such expletives that I don't even read them anymore. Pity, too, because Ron has a few good things to say now and then. That is the specific reason for My online lament of same; I lament not reading Ron's threads anymore because the habitual expletives in RON's threads have renered them a waste of My time. Because that is such a bad habit, and an easy one to break, I had hoped calling it to Ron's attention might give him pause and cause to rethink before he writes. Not that he needs My upbraiding, only that I'm sure I'm not the only one who'd like to read his opinions or experiences without the expletives. Simple as that.

Like most of us here, I find well timed and well placed expletives in a scene or in private to be quite stimulating on occasion. That is not to say they are stimulating or descriptive in thread.

My father always told me that habitual expletives in casual conversation were a sign of limited intelligence. I'll take that a step further and update it a bit: habitual expletives in casual E thread are a sign of limited intelligence.

To everything a time and a place. The 'f' word and other repeated expletives in regular posts on this site are simply unnecessary and unimaginative.

My interests here are not to 'lighten up' for the likes of you.

TM

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RE: Humiliation play - 1/19/2006 11:36:19 AM

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my ultimate enjoyment comes from being racially humiliated by a White Domme. i love it i love it

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RE: Humiliation play - 1/19/2006 2:54:14 PM

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Interesting about humiliation... when i read that one sub had to sniff each sock before and after washing it, it occured to me that this may be enjoyable to him ! i know i would like it no matter who saw me doing that. And i wondered too, wouldn't it be more humiliating when asked about "walking her dog" if She DIDN'T make up a story and just told the truth ... that he's a submissive dog who needs to be humiliate in public, so throw some food at him! " Just some thoughts.

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RE: Humiliation play - 1/20/2006 6:36:34 PM

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Well I am from nyc and I feel that people who are in the life who push their lifestyle on unsuspecting and definatly nonconcensual people are not only out of line,but are also inconsiderate ,rude and show no respect for their fellow human beings...I prefer humilitation that is private,which can be done out in public in a non threatening way..I enjoy having my pet use a butt plug that vibrates,or shocks his penis and everytime I see something that I enjoy,I just push that little button and he gets either a jolt or a vibration,either one make him skirm a bit,and makes his face turn red..its good fun and no one is the wiser..

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RE: Humiliation play - 2/11/2006 6:08:02 AM

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A bit long but kind of funny... as I remember how it was told...

Probably the funniest thing I ever heard of was in college a frat pledge. The fraternities big sisters learned that a pledge had sub desires... This guy was a bit cocky on the outside so they decided to have some fun with him. Two of the accompanying sorority sisters asked him to strip down to his underwear. Once nearly nude they asked him if he had BDSM/Sub desires. He said yes. They told him if he wanted to submit to the sorority for the day he could. To show that he wanted to be submissive they told him to take all his clothes and place them them into the hall. He did with the exception of his underwear. He turned around and faced them again with a big smile. When they asked him again if he wanted to submit fully and unconditionally to the sorority as a BDSM slave. He of course proudly and cockily replied sure I do. They asked him why his underwear was still on then since they said all his clothes. From what I heard he shuddered a bit and said, ok. Just before he dropped his drawers they asked him again and told him this would be his last chance to stop... and that they would decided when his service was over and he would have no control. So dropped his underwear and placed them outside the bedroom in the sorority house and shut the door. He was told he would start out as a mascot dog and work his way up from that point... placed on all fours and collared and leashed they led him out the door of the bedroom. (LOL) Apparently he thought it was going to be some closed bedroom fun...it was not. He supposedly shuddered abit when he realized his clothes were no longer outside the door. They reminded him he wanted to play he said 'yes' they told him dogs do not talk and walked him out into the main sorority room for some additional help and group humiliation. Made him do stupid doggies tricks, etc. Funniest part was they made him roll over and play dead on his back. Then started making fun of his lack of manhood. They said it must be a girl dog as they could not find a weineer on the dog. Then they played a bit of dress up with the (pledge) dog and put him in some sort of bright pink panties as he was a girl dog. I heard after they got board with dog tricks they put him to work in those panties cleaning, mopping, etc and having multiple girls torment him all the way - with no way to escape as his clothes were gone. Poor guy... he thought he was going to have some fun with two girls ... not be the maid to the house for the day and be henpecked/humiliated all the way... LOL

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