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RE: What kind of sub wants a Spanking/Paddling? - 11/12/2005 8:46:11 PM

LilWhiteWolf

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when i ask for a spanking, i am told i am trying to top from the bottom. i don't like very very hard spankings but i do love to be spanked. i crave it and now i really want one. i like Daddy Doms too and love the guidance.
i am not sure what kind of sub i am though. i am just me

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RE: What kind of sub wants a Spanking/Paddling? - 11/13/2005 3:04:12 AM

nephandi

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Have you tried local groups and munches? One of my skills is that I'm able to do intense pain play without unacceptable damage. Because of this reputation, I'm contacted by the pain players without having to seek them out.

Ah now i wish i went for BDSM mettings in USA, i feel that you would have been a real interesting person to meet JohnWarren.

As for the topic at hand, unless it is part of a play roleplaying senario, the naughty student or rude sosity lady, i am not bratty, but i do like painplay, usualy for the submissive way it makes me feel, but somthimes also for itself. i think that the best part of painplay is not pain itself, but being comforted afterwards, that closeness is somthing i realy enyoy. But somtimes a hard spanking just for fun is werry nice, but yes, i have met fewer girl submissives that just say i need a spanking than boy ones, but it waries.

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RE: What kind of sub wants a Spanking/Paddling? - 11/13/2005 6:13:54 AM

JohnWarren

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quote:

ORIGINAL: nephandi

Ah now i wish i went for BDSM mettings in USA, i feel that you would have been a real interesting person to meet JohnWarren.

As for the topic at hand, unless it is part of a play roleplaying senario, the naughty student or rude sosity lady, i am not bratty, but i do like painplay, usualy for the submissive way it makes me feel, but somthimes also for itself. i think that the best part of painplay is not pain itself, but being comforted afterwards, that closeness is somthing i realy enyoy. But somtimes a hard spanking just for fun is werry nice, but yes, i have met fewer girl submissives that just say i need a spanking than boy ones, but it waries.

Aftercare is always part of my negotiations. My preference is cuddle time... well, actually my preference is a sandwich cuddle with Libby and me as the "bread." However, a number of times I've been told "just give me a blanket, personal space and leave me alone. I'll honor that but I do find that it leaves me with "cuddle deprived."

I like your approach since I find nonconsensual bratting to be annoying, but in the context of a role play, quite a lot of fun. It's also a neat way to get constant feedback in a high intensity scene so I know my partner is still enjoying herself. (Think of it as a "Green.")

< Message edited by JohnWarren -- 11/13/2005 6:14:39 AM >

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RE: What kind of sub wants a Spanking/Paddling? - 11/21/2005 1:11:36 PM

MastersBabieGirl

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i love being spanked

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RE: What kind of sub wants a Spanking/Paddling? - 3/4/2006 3:53:20 PM

badboy884

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I enjoy the ritual and the humiliation of a good spanking.

Having my clothing stripped off for the spanking puts me
in the psychological role of complete submission.

I enjoy the progression beginning wih a scolding then
having my tousers taken down despite my feined resistance.
I am embarrassed with my underpants exposed.

I am turned over a knee with my feet off the floor and
then receive a few "warm up" spanks.

The real spanking begins after my underpants are pulled
down.

This is usually followed by "corner time"

I may receive a warm up

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RE: What kind of sub wants a Spanking/Paddling? - 3/4/2006 4:41:19 PM

MHOO314

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Do a search in your own state, there are two huge spanking groups, one in Austin and one in Dallas.

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RE: What kind of sub wants a Spanking/Paddling? - 3/6/2006 11:22:24 AM

Hissweetshiv

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~marches up and down singing... ~
Spanking... Spanks and paddling... what KIND of SUB likes spanks and paddling....
fat subs ... skinny subs... subs who climb on rocks...
tall subs...short subs... even subs in chains and locks...

lol sorry i couldn't resist

I adore a good spanking, the kind that has me squirming by the end, struggling to override my body's instinct to roll/ crawl away from the pain. The best one i've experienced so far was with a lovely paddle... wood on one side and fur on the other for that mixture of sensations. Unpredictable - lovely! There are indeed several spanking groups in Texas, and a few of them have yahoo groups. I wish you luck!

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RE: What kind of sub wants a Spanking/Paddling? - 3/6/2006 3:37:05 PM

sweetpettjenny

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For me i am a masochist , yes i love when Master spanks or paddles or flogs or anything short of killing me feels good. But i love him so it is easy for me to love his hand on me.

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RE: What kind of sub wants a Spanking/Paddling? - 3/8/2006 11:14:35 AM

champagnewishes

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I thrive on a good spanking....but i would no more say in my profile

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tonypad
"I need a daddy" or "I need strict guidance" rather than bluntly say "I need a spanking".

I thrive on a good spanking not because i enjoy the pain nor for reasons that have anything to do with feelings for the One inflicting it.

I thrive on a good spanking as a matter of having learned to allow my mind to ride the path that is provided when pain is introduced rather than concentrating on the physical of it all.

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RE: What kind of sub wants a Spanking/Paddling? - 3/8/2006 5:49:06 PM

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