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RE: Safewording Digression - 11/12/2005 2:07:08 PM

BeingChewsie

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These areas are where you can do major damage. Around the spine you can cause temporary or permanent paralyzation. Hitting too close to the kidneys can cause bruise them, which means you pee blood or worse. The hands and feet, well it’s hard to hide or explain, plus hit from the wrong angle the bones are very fragile.
I teach both newbie Masters and newbie submissives that so both know.
Tony

Thanks Tony..I know they are. I was just curious if it was a club rule that people could not hit those places in your club. My owner engages in hitting many of those areas so I'm well versed in the risks. Was just the *do not hit those areas in public* that caught my eye.

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RE: Giving up - 11/12/2005 3:42:26 PM

Sunshine119

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ORIGINAL: Chaingang

To the OP:

BDSM is not something that one chooses to experiment with. Such desires are a part of one as plainly as the need to breathe.

When all else fails, try finding an adventurous women outside the "official" scene. I won't go off all "gorean" and tell you about the natural submissiveness of all women - but then, you might be surprised how many women do actually respond to natural assertiveness on the part of a man. Yes, it's significantly part of the genetic function of women to be submissive - not that nature doesn't have plenty of alternative experiments she's also conducting with 6 billion plus people on the planet. Still, I'd say there were plenty of women outside the scene that were willing to experiment if a Dom could be patient and nurturing of those incipient submissive leanings. A few years of that and a man might find himself with a great submissive on his hands or at least be ready to experiment further with others and without having to admit a beginner's status.

If your desire is real and your heart is pure - go forth and conquer!

The way I was introduced to BDSM was through a "vanilla" meeting. I started dating a man who within a few dates expressed to me his kink. He was very much into full time dominance and I responded. I do think you are right about the genetic predisposition of most women. Many of us were raised in the atmosphere where female liberation was the goddess of our lives. Little did we know what we were sacrificing. All I needed to find to submit was a man who was stronger than me and willing to use that strength.

There is a part of me that believes all women are natually submissive, but, when men refuse to become the dominant factor in a relationship (perhaps through political correctness), women can, and do rise to become dominant. Somebody HAS to take charge, don't they? Perhaps in a thousand years or so, genetics will change and women will become the primarily dominant sex.

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RE: Giving up - 11/12/2005 5:47:01 PM

Chaingang

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ORIGINAL: Sunshine119
Perhaps in a thousand years or so, genetics will change and women will become the primarily dominant sex.

Bite your tongue, girl! Yikes!

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RE: Giving up - 11/13/2005 3:14:56 AM

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ORIGINAL: Chaingang

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ORIGINAL: Sunshine119
Perhaps in a thousand years or so, genetics will change and women will become the primarily dominant sex.

Bite your tongue, girl! Yikes!

oh oh we need more stem celling stuff... stem.. as in stoppping (stem the tide) right?

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RE: Giving up - 11/13/2005 8:39:25 AM

LadySonelle

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ORIGINAL: rubberservitude

Oh really?

Then how come every other profile starts like this.....?

NO MEN.

NO LOSERS AND WANNA-BES

MEN ARE ONLY AFTER SEX and MEN are "this " and MEN are "that"?

Really? That has not been my view at all. I am a femal Supremacist Mistress and I *love* My male slaves! Men are wonderful, beautiful creatures and when they kneel before a Woman they are some of the most compellingly desireable creatures on Earth!

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It really doesnt matter what you write in your introductory letter because
the female dominant is going to decide in about 2 seconds if she thinks
she can get what she wants out of you. Thats just the way it is.

That depends on the Domme. I want certain things from My slaves: respect, obedience, but most of all, PARAMOUNT is the desire to improve and to learn! I am a Financial Domme but I am also a BDSM lifestyler. I earned My Old Guard leathers in 1983 after having apprenticed as a submissive for a year, to two wonderful Topmen and a Lady who taught Me the ropes. I have lived the principles of Old Guard BDSM for decades and man-hating is not and never WILL be part of My world-view.

Yes, I *will* demand certain things from slaves. That is what it is all about. The male slave is here to serve Me, to fulfil MY needs first. I will make certain, however, that the slave's needs are met as well! As a Mistress, I am responsible FOR My slaves as they are responsible TO Me. While I will require things of all My slaves, I will also train and care for them as any Top, Woman *or* man ought to.

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Most of the time its ignored anyway.

I seldom ignore messages which are politely phrased and more than one line in length. Even if it is only a "I am not the mistress you seek, Grasshopper!" I will generally respond if I feel the submissive has shown Me proper respect.

Lady Sonelle

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RE: Giving up - 11/13/2005 9:16:00 AM

Misstoyou

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ORIGINAL: Sunshine119

Perhaps in a thousand years or so, genetics will change and women will become the primarily dominant sex.

So I'm just ahead of my time? Again?!!!

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"Myths are public dreams, dreams are private myths." - Joseph Campbell

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RE: Giving up - 11/13/2005 12:55:01 PM

HeavenlyCeleste

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Hmmm, i just replied to teh post about age making a difference. That attitude is immature at any age. Sounds like "taking my toys and going home." You say you've been here for awhile, but you're still vanilla on your posts. People can't get to know you if you;re hiding in a corner!

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RE: Giving up - 11/13/2005 1:57:46 PM

slavejali

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Maybe there is some way you are operating that is attracting non-real people Sir. Both Master and i had rl Master slave relationships previously before we met online, we are as real as you get...and we did meet online. So if we are real, it just figures that there are other real people online too. From what ive seen just by these forums, there are heaps of real life people even on here. Maybe its time to look at how your operating? or put it down to extremely bad luck?

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