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RE: Her's What Slave/Subs don't realize - 7/17/2005 1:12:02 AM

hullman

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as a master who has had both a sub and a slave there is a big differance,a sub has the right to negotiate what will be allowed and what they arnt interested in,where a slave declines there option of choice by putting there life soul and wellbeingin the hands of another,they however do this willingly and usualy sign contract so stating, hope this clears the issue for you,

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RE: Her's What Slave/Subs don't realize - 7/17/2005 1:15:55 AM

lonewolf05

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doesn't TAKE control he is control?

jeeeeeeeez. ya sound like my drill sergeant now. and my ole man.

i hate dictatorships.

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RE: Her's What Slave/Subs don't realize - 7/17/2005 1:26:41 AM

hullman

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im only speaking of what i learned and experianced in 28yrs in the scene,and it takes time for either to trust there dom that much to sign there contracts and to me that is the heart of the matter, a sub signs with reservations whilst a slave has none

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RE: Here's What Slave/Subs don't realize - 7/17/2005 3:02:46 AM

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sorry I just had to change the subject line... it was driving me nuts

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RE: Her's What Slave/Subs don't realize - 7/17/2005 3:23:42 AM

lonewolf05

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quote:

ORIGINAL: hullman

im only speaking of what i learned and experianced in 28yrs in the scene,and it takes time for either to trust there dom that much to sign there contracts and to me that is the heart of the matter, a sub signs with reservations whilst a slave has none

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Sir? i don't know about You, but "I" always have...reservations........ about everything in life. i am never completely free of it.
i have been around people that change moods faster n i can take a breath. i do not fully trust ANYONE ANYWHERE.........i have been stabbed in the back and kicked in the teeth too much for me to EVER trust THAT much.

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RE: Her's What Slave/Subs don't realize - 7/17/2005 7:21:06 AM

hullman

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sorry to hear that wolf but if you cant trust how do you expect people to trust you,i will agree women are quick changers until trained then if they know it offends they stop unless they do it to get punished,and there are some who would do that,as to trust in the relationship there has to be ,as there wellbeing is in your hands.

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RE: Her's What Slave/Subs don't realize - 7/17/2005 8:38:09 AM

Gemeni

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Acts aside,I disagree with your premise.

A slave gives total consent once. The only choice after is to leave the dynamic.

A sub gives consent every time they decide to obey.

Let's leave real slavery out of it entirely-there is no consent at all.

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RE: Her's What Slave/Subs don't realize - 7/17/2005 11:09:33 AM

lonewolf05

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i will only give trust to a limit. no one or nothing on this planet will ever get unconditional trust. i am always looking over my shoulder and watching my own butt.
if i even smell a bad situation i am so out of there it isn't funny.
and i am not talking about play time..since i have not been there.

i just never ever stop looking-around to see what next is coming. i worked the streets too long. CYA cover your ass.
no one gets 100% trust from me.

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