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LadiesBladewing -> RE: a typical day for a slave (11/15/2005 4:55:28 AM)
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It's important not to get too hung up on what you call yourself. What is important is that you're in the right relationship for you. Everything else comes in time.
We get completely out of the sub/slave discussion in our house. We have servants. The magnitude to which they indenture themselves in service depends on the servant, but our preference is and will always be the servant whose very -life- is indentured to us. With this in mind, I will answer the following by what we would expect from a servant who was completely indentured to our household, and who had served with us for, say, several years...
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For example, are you allowed to choose your own clothing?
A servant in our household would have hir clothing evaluated, at some point, and appropriate clothing would be purchased to make sure that xhe would always be dressed in ways that were pleasing to us. Aside from this, xhe would likely select daily clothing hirself, with the understanding that SilverRose or myself could say, at any time, "I don't like that, go change into 'x'."
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Do you sit at the table and eat with him?
In a formal setting, our servant would not join us at the table, unless xhe were kneeling at either my side or SilverRose's side, awaiting an opportunity to serve. In a truly formal setting, xhe would be stationed in a corner of the room, standing easily, and awaiting to tend, discretely and courteously, to any need that our guests might have... but on a day-to-day basis, xhe would likely be welcomed to join one or both of us where we were eating. We might also, especially during training or when we were feeling especially inclined, require that our servant could take no food unless it came directly from our hand. For the most part, though, day-to-day, our servant is a member of our household, and would likely, informally, share meals with us, once xhe'd taken care of serving us and had obtained permission/instruction to prepare hirself a plate.
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Are you allowed to go to bed when you are tired or do you have to wait for his permission?
Ideally, our servant would have a schedule, and there would be a designated bed-time. If we were at home, xhe would be expected to remain up while -we- were up, and continue to serve us until we went to bed, and if xhe was particularly tired for some reason, would have to ask to be excused to go to bed, and would have to make sure that we were taken care of before going. In the case where the schedule was "thrown off" for some reason (guests, holiday, a trip), our servant would have to ask permission to be excused to retire for the evening, unless we had already retired (in which case, if xhe wanted to stay up for some reason, xhe would -also- have to ask permission to remain up after we had retired).
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Is there sexual servitude or is it more domestic type servitude in a M/slave relationship?
This depends -entirely- on the individual relationship. Our property is ours, completely indentured. If we choose to use hir sexually, xhe is ours to do so. If we choose not to, xhe is also ours to make that choice with.
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And what about bondage, spanking and sub space?
Again, this may have a place in any given relationship or it may not, at the Owner's discretion.
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I have read until my eyeballs are about to pop out, but no one seems to mention the actual details of what they have actually had to do to for their Master in order to please him..
The best place to go for these answers is to your Owner. Ask him the exact same questions, and he can tell you what it will mean in -your- relationship. Since that is the only one that counts -for you-, that is the only truly important information that will make any sense or make any difference in your own life.
Lady Zephyr
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