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ORIGINAL: IronBear

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ORIGINAL: OscarHargraves

This sounds like the behavior of a desperate person who is really insecure in his(?) BDSM self. He wants the lady to commit to him so that nobody else will get her and she will stop looking. He's afraid that if she looks beyond him she'll find someone she likes more. Problem is that this behavior will tend to make her do just that.

Damned well put Oscar! Look at the behaviour which the OP has described as being the first in line filter to remove all the pillocks from the list of those who you are looking at. If I knew you had a child or other family committments, and you didn't put them first, I'd want to beat your arse black and blue and maybe even send you on your way with a flea in your ear. Family always comes first no matter what.