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Perempt -> RE: new to this (2/25/2004 3:58:51 PM)
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I do not understand your last question precisely, but I assume you are asking how yu get started in bdsm, choosing a trainer or Dom, nd starting your new life?
I think the chances of finding your life partner as a novice on your first try are quite small. Miracles happen, of course, but at the start you do ot even know what you are looking for.
I recommend starting with a Mentor or Trainer, and take your training with Him or Her. That person should be eperienced, should be atient with you, should question you at length at how you feel at every step, so that you come to understand yourself and your needs, and should take time to answer your questions.
There are all kind of Dom/mes, as you will come to understand,, but it is not crucial that the Trainer be any particular type, since S/He is not molding you to Hs design, but merely giving you a round range of experience to learn your own needs.
Last: the Trainer shold be a friend: someone you can laugh with, can open up to, someone who cares about you, and will let you fly on your own when you are ready.
Shop for One carefully. 's'
Good luck!
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