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A new theory on people not responding to emails - 10/13/2005 2:52:34 PM

AAkasha

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I will toss this one out there as a new theory why so many people do not respond to emails. I'll use the male sub/femdom equation but it probably goes all ways.

If you are emailing someone from a profile here on collarme and they do not reply to your email at all, don't immediately assume all femdoms are rude. Despite the fact that many femdoms on threads here explain why we don't respond to every email, there are still some subs that insist the numbers are SO high that the problem is worse than we know.

I would like to suggest that a great many femdom profiles are written in a way to attract sub men because the femdom is not sincere. She is either seeking quick cash or someone she can manipulate and use. There are a ton of women online looking at BDSM as a way she can meet a man to manipulate, use, treat like garbage and not have to be accountable. They think this is what a submissive male "seeks."

They are not going to reply to an email that is well thought out, sincere, intelligent. It's not their "target market." They are going to reply to dopes, uneducated people, those that have their cock in their hand when they write, and those that blatantly offer themselves up for slavery in the first line of an email. That's what they want -- hook, line and sinker. They aren't going to waste their valuable time writing to men who are sincere in looking for a partner.

Here's the rub. The profiles that are *most attractive* are probably the ones that are fake. They have a hot picture (hot, but not TOO hot, just to be sure), seem to list out just what a sub wants to hear, and have listed a host of fetishes and state that they are looking for a partner NOW or need a slave.

The profiles that might not get a second look by subs are more down to earth, almost vanilla, have a normal picture or not picture at all, are perhaps even "boring" to read when compared to the smoking-hot other profiles that make a sub go "WOW!" and his cock spring up.

If you think you met the femdom of your dreams based on her picture and profile, keep in mind two things:

1. She probably receives 100 emails a day because OTHER subs are thinking the same thing.
2. Remember: "If it's too good to be true, it's probably not."

If the profile seems to stack up as everything a sub would die for in a woman, it just might be a scam. And if it is, the "scammer" is going to delete emails from subs that can't be fooled, are sincere, and she knows she can't get money or gifts from them. So consider yourself lucky.

Akasha

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