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Did your desires? - 7/20/2004 1:04:37 PM   
dmc68


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Status: offline 		Date back to presexual days?

Mine did. I can remember being fascinated by scuba and wetsuits as early as 4.

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RE: Did your desires? - 7/20/2004 1:15:11 PM   
pixieunleashed


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Status: offline 		yes, they did, I remember doing bondage as a child, at 9 my best girl friend and I used to always pretend we were imprisoned sex slaves locked in our own 9X9 cells, and we made up all kinds of tapping codes (of course, we didn't think to study morris) to communicate with each other. Anyway...more kinks than that :) those are just the ones I remember.

In my experience, everyone that I have dated that was kink friendly ( I am hesitateing to use lifestyle as it seems it again has too many different meanings) has fantasized about their whatever kink as a child.

thanks for reading this, have a great day,

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RE: Did your desires? - 7/20/2004 1:17:29 PM   
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Status: offline 		Yep. Dreaming about women in catsuits when I was 5 or so.


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RE: Did your desires? - 7/20/2004 1:27:02 PM   
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Status: offline 		I was always a compliant child and eager to please. I remember having humiliation fantasies as a pre-teen.

I never thought getting a whipping was a bit of fun as a child. My Daddy holding me by my upper arm with his 60 inch belt doubled in his hand, flailing away at the begging child, telling me he would decide when I'd had enough. Even in my warped mind, I can't reconcile this memory with me willingly bending over for a Dom.

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RE: Did your desires? - 7/20/2004 1:32:39 PM   
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Does that count?


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RE: Did your desires? - 7/20/2004 1:34:05 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ModeratorThree

I used to make my cousin eat dirt whenever he annoyed me..


Does that count?


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I dunno...my older sister used to beat the living tar outta me as a kid...but she's still not the boss of me!

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RE: Did your desires? - 7/20/2004 1:35:05 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ModeratorThree

I used to make my cousin eat dirt whenever he annoyed me..


Does that count?


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No this is normal behavior for any child :)

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RE: Did your desires? - 7/20/2004 1:35:21 PM   
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but she's still not the boss of me!



Laughs!




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RE: Did your desires? - 7/20/2004 1:36:41 PM   
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No this is normal behavior for any child :)



he still is not normal... and I would almost bet I could still make him eat dirt!


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RE: Did your desires? - 7/20/2004 2:06:43 PM   
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Status: offline 		Mine started at the age of 5 years old when I and my cousin would tie each other up to see if we could escape from the binds. I can actually remember him and I was going through a drawer looking for handkerchiefs we can use to gag our 19 year old Aunt who baby was sitting us at the time. I tied up the neighborhood girls, my other cousins, and my sister girlfriends.

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RE: Did your desires? - 7/20/2004 4:08:55 PM   
tanna


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Status: offline 		Oh yeah! I always volunteered to be the one tied to the tree when we played cowboys and indians.. Liked playing with the handcuffs when we played cops and robbers too.

When alone in my room I would play with the candle my mother didn't know I had.. Would let the wax melt and drip it on myself.. (And I always remind my mother what a good kid I was.. LOL) I can't remember how I learned that rubbing alcohol burned, but played with it too.. Learned quickly to put it out just after lighting it. Jeeze, can you imagine the beating I would have gotten if I'd been caught? LOL

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RE: Did your desires? - 7/21/2004 1:17:08 AM   
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Status: offline 		there was another thread on the board that kid of adressed this question - something along the lines of First thoughts of BDSM - you might find it an interesting read

to recap what I remember saying in that other thread:

when I was 6 or so, we had a huge collection of comic books - my favorite was a western where the cowboy rides into a town, finds the only person there a woman in puritan type stocks who had been bullwhipped, he tends to her, avenges her 'wrongs', they ride off into sunset - but what always kept me going back to it was the pictures of her in the stock, back of her dress ripped open from collar to just above her butt, back bloody lines from the whipping

(mom threw out the whole stack of comicswhen I was about 11 or so or I would still have that one)

and in elementary school during recess we would always play 'catch the princess' - basically the girls run around, the boys chase them, and when a boy catches a girl, he leads her to 'base' where she is 'bound' until freed by being touched by another girl - and some boys just stay somewhat near the base to try and catch girls trying to free the already captured

so yes, my desires definitely pre date puberty

Apply usual caveats here

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RE: Did your desires? - 7/21/2004 4:48:15 AM   
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Status: offline 		I have a few memories I guess. One is very early, five or six, when we lived in a townhouse complex and I insisted all boys and the two girls in my complex call me Queen. They were to bring me presents like cookies from their house or stickers or something like that. They always complied otherwise they would find themselves ostracised by the others. I even had one shine my patent leather shoes once.

A few years later, I was playing discipline games with a friend of mine during sleepovers. We were seven. I never had any corporal discipline as a child so it was always fascinating to me. I used to order her to spank me. And then I would tell her that it was my turn to spank her. She would ask me to stop and I would say no, she had not had enough. She probably could have used a safeword.

And since I didn’t experience any corporal punishment, when ever a friend of mine would receive some, I would always interrogate them to find out more about what it was like, what their parent used, if they cried, if it hurt, etc.

Another memory I have is a masochistic game I used to play with a friend of mine where we would scratch each other’s arm or leg continuously and see how long we could take it. Often it would bleed. Or we would bite each other and see how long we could take it. That lasted from the age of eight till fourteen about. Then her and I reverted to making out a lot.

But on that last one, she and I are still friends to date. She is not at all into this lifestyle though. She is also completely hetero. I wonder how many vanilla people have kinky experiences. I wonder how many of my boy servants when I was the little Queen serve a Mistress today.

Thanks for the lovely trip down memory lane!

- LA

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RE: Did your desires? - 7/21/2004 7:47:22 PM   
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quote:

there was another thread on the board that kid of adressed this question - something along the lines of First thoughts of BDSM - you might find it an interesting read


first thoughts of bdsm

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RE: Did your desires? - 7/21/2004 7:48:38 PM   
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I used to make my cousin eat dirt whenever he annoyed me..


Who didnt?

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RE: Did your desires? - 7/21/2004 7:55:57 PM   
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Who didnt?

I didn't. But I did beat the crap outta my brothers when they would get sassy.

What's scary is that my daughter (8) has always loved to get tied up. She also loves playing the dog leash and collar. And when I'm playing around and pop her on the butt, she comes back for more asking it to be harder!!! ~giggles~ Yep that's my daughter!

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RE: Did your desires? - 7/21/2004 8:21:04 PM   
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Status: offline 		Oh I have several many of "those" stories, as well, but one of my favorites to share is the one about when I was 7. Our next door neighbors were Italian, and the male was the head of the household. His wife was pregnant with their fourth child, and I would go over to visit with her, and help her in the kitchen in the afternoons. If he saw me outside doing yard chores, he would send one of his boys to do it for me. I would wait until I saw him coming out on his porch, and I would take the rake, or the shovel, or the trash can, whatever it was, away from whichever boy it was helping me, and just look like I had been laboring the whole time. The father would come out the door, with his strap in hand and order the boy over the stoop right in front of me. While he took his whipping, I looked him right in his eye.

One day the boy asked me, after the whipping, why I kept doing that. I flicked his chin and said, "So you don't forget who's Boss." and winked at him. I was merely mimicking something I had seen my father do, but over the years, it has become my own.

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RE: Did your desires? - 7/21/2004 8:27:57 PM   
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Status: offline 		Yes...I clearly remember playing as a 6-7 year old with some friends (male) who wanted to pull my panties down and spank me. I let them...grins. I also remember begging to "please..please...stop"...very much in jest. I was loving it even at that age...go figure.

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RE: Did your desires? - 7/21/2004 11:12:32 PM   
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Status: offline 		perhaps it's corny......but this girls did as well. seh remembers being a child and 'roleplaying' by herself imagining herself taken tied up and used as they wished.....it wasn't until last year that she heard of the Gor novels. this girl has always been excited by bondage, and even some pain. as a child she remembers watching movies and the minute someone came into a scene with total control of someone, it excited her in ways that confused her back then.........just her two cents on the subject......

innocent angel

(guess she's not so innocent afterall huh? LOL)

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RE: Did your desires? - 7/22/2004 1:01:28 PM   
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Status: offline 		thank you M. proud - was kinda hoping/expecting you to take the hint (and save me the bother of having to search)

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