TiNeedsHouseboy
Posts: 145
Joined: 4/24/2005 From: Big Apple blossom blown to The Windy City Status: offline
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Your capacity to insert innuendo where there is none defies logic. It's the sort of dynamic that would keep a psychotherapist quite busy for some time to come during intensive psychotherapy sessions. FYI: I have nothing against men in the least. In fact, I have enduring, significant relationships with men that have gone on for decades, with no end pending, short of end-of-life. Why? They find me nurturing, intuitive, and libidinally aware. In fact, I've just begun my 19th year with the man who sleeps in my bed nightly. I am still friendly with the man who I was involved with before him. And on and on it goes.... back to my boyfriend from 1971. I'd have to do a headcount on Platonic male alliances. There are many. Beyond that, despite the prevalence and popularity of humiliation among BDSM practitioners, I despise humiliation as a dynamic for my interactions. I don't accept doormats, or insecure partners, or those who require humiliation as part of their domination. My partners must be mensches in every sense of the word. My friends and libidinal partners are never intimidated when I call a spade a spade. It's simply a channel to open a path to discussion, insight, and growth. Time to look DEEPLY into your psyche and why my post disrupted your life. I would again stress that you read the book titled HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU. You're continuing to mirror the psychodynamics analyzed in that book. It will help you to get a better grasp on your ability to relate to women, so that you won't need to create threads like this one, or throw tantrums like the one you're tossing about. You're clearly trying to engage me in some sort of power struggle. Since I won't play your game, you've run to "mommy moderator" to try to spank me. It must be exhausting to live in your universe. ~ Ti ~
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