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Delvin -> RE: Are you having a hard time finding the right one (10/2/2005 8:37:20 AM)
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yes and no. Yes, the games are still there as always, so weeding out people who are looking for quick information to get personal gradification is always there. Finding more to add to the harem is always hard as you are dealing with the girl(s) you have, their emotions, the girl(s) you are considering and all of their concerns. It is very distracting to reach a point where you think all will work fine, all have sat down and talked through the months and are ready to begin only to find out it was either a sham or actual "truths" come out, ie (Well, actually, I am married, does that pose a problem ?)....well duh !
Always difficult to add to the family and more so when the girl(s) your adding have a hidden agenda which either comes out during the initial discussions or worse, later as life begins. Always impossible it seems to find the girl(s) to add at times.
No, being always truthful and honest, I have found a good majority of the women will politely decline any offers and even some will remain friends of the family, though that life is not for them. We know there are different views of this lifestyle, and Poly isn't immune to that. So many different ways to conduct the family life, again as long as everyone understands from the begining what is required, more often then not having everyone together isn't that rough. It's the desire, need sometimes that is overlooked.
*passes out the asprin....your going to need it*
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