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domtimothy46176 -> RE: Sister Sub (10/1/2005 9:33:28 PM)
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ORIGINAL: kisshou
bisexual is an orientation, you can not 'be' bi for someone else
can a person perform sexual acts under someone else's command or direction, sure they can but that is something else completely
and beleive me when it gets down to the nitty gritty there is a world of difference having sex with someone who is not comfortable and being forced or pressured to having sex with someone with a true orientation....
I'm fortunate in that toy is both enthusiastically bi-sexual and poly-minded. I would conjecture, however, that regardless of her personal interests, or the lack thereof, she would accept my judgement on such matters just as graciously as she has accepted our current status. I may lack the proper perspective but I can't envision maintaining a long-term relationship with a submissive without having also secured sufficient trust to lead her in directions she may have no interest in, of her own accord.
Expanding toy's horizons in ways she may not have imagined is not just my right, but also my duty, as per our agreement, wherein I promised to help her become all that she can be. If I only lead her in areas that interest her or keep her comfortable, I'm hardly encouraging her growth and development. Even were she completely heterosexual, I would expect to help her develop her ability to put aside her preferences and defer to my wishes.
Timothy
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