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gypsysoul -> RE: Sexual Self-Awareness over 45 (9/24/2005 3:34:46 PM)
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ORIGINAL: anthrosub
I saw an online news article on either MSNBC or CNN (can't remember which) today and thought it was quite interesting. It was revealed in a recent study of over 3000 people that more than half of them had no idea they would experience major changes regarding their sexuality over age 45. In other words, they continued to think their sexual energy levels and abilities (i.e., age 25) would continue until they were much older. I wonder if anyone here has the same self perception and if so, perhaps this thread might enlighten a few.
It also makes me wonder about profiles where the Dominant (particularly Dommes) stress they are looking for someone in their 40's or older. I'm not trying to read anything into that but simple wonder if there's any connection. Obviously, older submissive males are a bit easier to keep on the leash than someone much younger with all their hormones running wild.
In any case, I feel better having read the article as I experienced and was quite aware of changes taking place in myself around my mid-forties.
anthrosub
I think some studies are rubbish. I'm in my forties, and still as horny as I was in my teens. Maybe there are learned behaviors regarding sex, which have more to do with social interaction than with sexuality or hormonal levels. It's just not socially acceptable for a 40-year-old man to jerk off on the school bus. It wasn't really acceptable when we were teenagers, but it happened and it was nasty but not as godawful as it would have been if the guy was 40.
I think that people who are looking for partners over 40 are simply looking for someone for more than sex in a mechanical way. Anyone can fuck; someone with more life experiences just may be more interesting to fuck.
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