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RE: Tributes??? - 9/17/2005 8:14:53 AM   
kc692


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I forgot to ask.....will you be requiring specific tribute, or are we free to tribute you with whatever we would like? I know you don't require tribute, but , I for one would be happy to give you some!!!
Why yes I would be requiring tribute this time; I think the boys should bring the baguettes, brie and the wine so we can have something to do while they suffer for us. M


*Thud!!hits the floor, laughing, wiping tears from eyes* I'm too choked up to type much, so....SOUNDS WONDERFUL!!!!

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RE: Tributes??? - 9/17/2005 8:47:25 AM   
Oumae


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Status: offline 		What an image..... a line of subs outside Lady A's room, awaiting French lessons, all standing to attention .

Oumae

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RE: Tributes??? - 9/17/2005 1:53:33 PM   
kc692


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ORIGINAL: Oumae

What an image..... a line of subs outside Lady A's room, awaiting French lessons, all standing to attention .

Oumae

You wanna bring one and join Us?

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RE: Tributes??? - 9/17/2005 3:09:19 PM   
PAVANE


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Status: offline 		Why should a Dominant female or male want money of a sub?
I never demanded anything of my submissives or slave, except unquestioning obedience. If they wish to present me with a gift thats fine, but I have never asked for one.
Btw to say the Enigma should find another Domme is he doesnt like the conditions of servitude is misreading what his comment says. He is asking is this a trend.




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RE: Tributes??? - 9/17/2005 3:36:31 PM   
kc692


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ORIGINAL: PAVANE

Why should a Dominant female or male want money of a sub?
I never demanded anything of my submissives or slave, except unquestioning obedience. If they wish to present me with a gift thats fine, but I have never asked for one.
Btw to say the Enigma should find another Domme is he doesnt like the conditions of servitude is misreading what his comment says. He is asking is this a trend.






BTW, YOU should read his profile. He is not searching for a domme as he is supposedly dominant. He is just whining.

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RE: Tributes??? - 9/17/2005 3:39:23 PM   
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I never demanded anything of my submissives or slave, except unquestioning obedience. If they wish to present me with a gift thats fine, but I have never asked for one.
Why should a dominant male or female want a sub's body? Or are we saying his/her body is less important than his money?
I don't think it's my place to dictate what you should require of yours just as it isn't your place to say what I should want from MY sub. My opinion is that any woman who is telling prospectives exactly what she wants, is doing him a huge favor in allowing him to choose whether to respond or pass her by. M

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RE: Tributes??? - 9/17/2005 3:40:57 PM   
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ORIGINAL: BlkTallFullfig

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I never demanded anything of my submissives or slave, except unquestioning obedience. If they wish to present me with a gift thats fine, but I have never asked for one.
Why should a dominant male or female want a sub's body? Or are we saying his/her body is less important than his money?
I don't think it's my place to dictate what you should require of yours just as it isn't your place to say what I should want from MY sub. My opinion is that any woman who is telling prospectives exactly what she wants, is doing him a huge favor in allowing him to choose whether to respond or pass her by. M


GO GIRL!!! (clap clap clap clap)

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RE: Tributes??? - 9/17/2005 4:45:37 PM   
LadyAngelika


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any woman who is telling prospectives exactly what she wants, is doing him a huge favor in allowing him to choose whether to respond or pass her by.


This should be like an "auto-reply" to anyone starting a moneydomme, tribute, etc thread.

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RE: Tributes??? - 9/17/2005 4:51:08 PM   
Lordandmaster


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Status: offline 		LA--I accept BMW's, diamonds, and stock certificates.

Oh, and zero-coupon bonds, if you can still find any.

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RE: Tributes??? - 9/17/2005 4:52:29 PM   
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LA--I accept BMW's, diamonds, and stock certificates.

Oh, and zero-coupon bonds, if you can still find any.


You're such a HO!

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RE: Tributes??? - 9/17/2005 9:35:47 PM   
EvilGeoff


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Status: offline 		We can get money?!?!?

Dadgum, why wasn't I told of this in my copy of "Domming for Dummies"? ! ? ! ? ! ?

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RE: Tributes??? - 9/18/2005 2:55:48 AM   
Oumae


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ORIGINAL: BlkTallFullfig

My opinion is that any woman who is telling prospectives exactly what she wants, is doing him a huge favor in allowing him to choose whether to respond or pass her by. M



Exactly!

Whilst it may not be my thing if it works for some then not up to me to tell them not to.

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RE: Tributes??? - 9/18/2005 7:03:57 AM   
LadyAngelika


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ORIGINAL: EvilGeoff

We can get money?!?!?

Dadgum, why wasn't I told of this in my copy of "Domming for Dummies"? ! ? ! ? ! ?


Cos this is in Domming for Dommays! You gotta learn it right from the Ladies ;-)

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RE: Tributes??? - 9/18/2005 8:21:10 AM   
MstrHellsFury


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Status: offline 		I'd put my 2 cents in somewhere here...but then I'd be paying a tribute to someone...therefore I'm gonna squeeze Lincon til he squeels...nobody gets my pennies but me...

Fury

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RE: Tributes??? - 9/18/2005 8:40:30 AM   
DominaLibris


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Status: offline 		What sadness!! When my friends drop by for a visit, they always bring flowers, wine, chocolates, or whatever they desire. It's exactly what I do when I visit. After all, visiting is accepting hospitality at someones' home.

The issue is the word tribute -- cheapos translate it to money. Shame, shame!!

Obviously good manners have disappeared with the dinasour in certain quarters.


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RE: Tributes??? - 9/18/2005 8:54:53 AM   
blackpearl81


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Status: offline 		ERRRM... *Thinks about this for a sec*

All i can say is.. if i wanted to leave a place broke and with a hardon (pardon the crudity) id go to a strip club.. .but.. since strip clubs are not my thing.. i just sit back and laugh at some of these so called "Dominants"

Just seems to me that labeling yourself "Dominant" is being used more and more loosely, directly impacting the legitimate Domina's out there that ARE seeking servitude, or a 24/7, or whatever else it is that their seeking...


Yes.. this is coming from a submissive who has never been collared/owned/or trained.. i know this.. and im probably going to catch a lot of flack for my comments.. but this is just simple opinion...

Be well a/All

~BP~

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RE: Tributes??? - 9/18/2005 9:45:01 AM   
MsSonnetMarwood


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Just seems to me that labeling yourself "Dominant" is being used more and more loosely, directly impacting the legitimate Domina's out there that ARE seeking servitude, or a 24/7, or whatever else it is that their seeking...


Yep, just like the masses of wannabe "subs" out there who are just looking for fantasy material, no strings play, to cheat on their wives, etc., affect the fact that there ARE some wonderful subs out there available and looking for a sincere relationship.

That's life. There's not a lot you can do about it. Whining certainly doesn't help.

But once again, if a Domme is being upfront that she requires tribute, then she's doing you a favor by allowing you to decide then and there if that's what you want or not.

Just like if a sub is upfront about being married/having a girlfriend/not looking for a relationhip but just play...it allows me to decide if I want to deal with them or not without wasting my time.



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RE: Tributes??? - 9/18/2005 10:32:57 AM   
LadyAngelika


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ORIGINAL: MsSonnetMarwood
But once again, if a Domme is being upfront that she requires tribute, then she's doing you a favor by allowing you to decide then and there if that's what you want or not.

Just like if a sub is upfront about being married/having a girlfriend/not looking for a relationhip but just play...it allows me to decide if I want to deal with them or not without wasting my time.


Sonnet,

You present the rational perspective. If someone is being upfront and honest about their needs/desires, people should be appreciative of their honesty. When I’m approached by a married man, my response to them is always polite. I tell them that for personal reasons I will not get involved with a married man (the reality is I get emotionally attached and then it hurts too much) and I wish them luck in finding what it is that they are seeking. I usually get thanked for not judging them. If someone contacts me for no-strings and I’m in a no-strings mood and there is attraction, then cool. If not, I tell them I’m not in a no-strings mood. Again, I get thanked for being honest and upfront without being a bitch about it.

Unfortunately, for many, if it doesn't fit into their comfort zone, it's wrong. Funny how WIITWD doesn't fit into a whole lot of people's comfort zone and these are probably some of the first to say "don't judge me for my desires". Irony never ceases to amaze me!

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RE: Tributes??? - 9/18/2005 10:46:18 AM   
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Cos this is in Domming for Dommays! You gotta learn it right from the Ladies ;-)
- LA
Hey I was chatting/talking with someone from Kansas who's been doing wiitwd many years longer than I, and he insisted fem doms are Dommays, so I instructed him to call me my name or Ms because Dommays feels like fingernails on chalkboard for me to hear. M

< Message edited by BlkTallFullfig -- 9/18/2005 11:00:57 AM >

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RE: Tributes??? - 9/18/2005 1:48:05 PM   
LadyAngelika


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ORIGINAL: BlkTallFullfig

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Cos this is in Domming for Dommays! You gotta learn it right from the Ladies ;-)
- LA
Hey I was chatting/talking with someone from Kansas who's been doing wiitwd many years longer than I, and he insisted fem doms are Dommays, so I instructed him to call me my name or Ms because Dommays feels like fingernails on chalkboard for me to hear. M


Did you tell him that as the Dommay, it was up to you to determine what the hell you wanted to be called? I would have instructed that he would have to call me She-Ra: Princess of Power and he could call have to refer to himself in the third person as monkey boy. That'll learn em.

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