|
ed408 -> RE: Why Men 'Like' Orgasm Denial (soc.subculture.bondage-bdsm.femdom) (9/27/2005 7:35:37 PM)
|
This subject, or at least along the lines of denial, increased submissiveness, is something i've been trying to put together in some kind of follow-able coherent structure for posing in a forum to people but for now....
The longest i went without orgasm was just over 3 months for a self-proclaimed Dom i knew and he decided i should undergo that before being "accepted". (No chastity belt/cage just on ones' honor & trust to not even stroke)
Having done a month before the initial month wasn't so bad, then time seemed to slow down to a crawl and i climbed the wall several inches per day.... By the end i was almost tuoching the ceiling when the "Dom" decided he didn't want to bother me. Needless to say, one hell of a let down but damn was i glad to be able to get off!
That amount of time is definitely more than i want to do again but it's not a hard-limit so if i ever find a Real Dominant then gawd help me.... but one thing is for sure, our mind becomes more and more transfixed - at least mine did - going places i wouldn't have considered/wanted but "(almost) anything to cum pleeeeeease" in that desperate voice. lol.
i think i was fortunate that i didn't have to use toys/plugs or any other paraphernalia during those 12.5 weeks otherwise i don't think i could have made it.
|
|
|
|
