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RE: Major Pet Peeve - 8/13/2005 9:35:56 PM   
Ojedieu


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ORIGINAL: richbtch24

And I'm not changing my pic to that, last time I checked it was pretty difficult to be a pervert at 23 yrs old.



Aw, I thought it was a cute pic -- funny even, and if you'd used it I'd have even given you brownie points for having a sense of humor. So, what are you doing on this site if you're not a pervert? I think quite probably everyone else on here would proudly self-define as a pervert. BDSM is kinky, not the "norm", and hence qualifies as a perversion. I'm quite proud to say I'm a pervert. Any one else feel this way?



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RE: Major Pet Peeve - 8/13/2005 9:42:36 PM   
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Aw, I thought it was a cute pic -- funny even, and if you'd used it I'd have even given you brownie points for having a sense of humor. So, what are you doing on this site if you're not a pervert? I think quite probably everyone else on here would proudly self-define as a pervert. BDSM is kinky, not the "norm", and hence qualifies as a perversion. I'm quite proud to say I'm a pervert. Any one else feel this way?


I feel that way. I'm still not sure why he didn't use my picture. I thought it was funny. I suppose we are alone in that. If some guy had a picture like that up, I would have thought, "Wow. Someone that can laugh at themselves! HOT!" and emailed them right away.


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RE: Major Pet Peeve - 8/13/2005 9:53:07 PM   
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Status: offline 		thats cool, I pretty much talk to people through the forums. I'm more of a lurker, I have a lot to learn before I can truely start emailing people on here and talk to them about everything. So my intention is only so people know who they are talking to...not in order to get them to contact me. I guess that could be a reason as to why I am not a fan of "pervert" yet. Although I am sure I will grow to embrace it.

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RE: Major Pet Peeve - 8/14/2005 2:40:27 AM   
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i was curious to know if "pervert" and "BDSM" were the same.

pervert, (deviant, deviate, degenerate) noun

a person whose behavior deviates from what is acceptable especially in sexual behavior

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http://www.wordreference.com/definition/pervert

BDSM is a term which describes a number of related patterns of human sexual behaviour. The major subgroupings are described in the abbreviation "BDSM" itself:

bondage & discipline (B&D)
domination & submission (D&S, Ds, D/s)
sadism & masochism (or sadomasochism) (S&M, SM)
Many of the specific practices in BDSM are those which, if performed in neutral or nonsexual contexts, are widely considered unpleasant, undesirable, or disadvantageous. For example, pain, physical restraint and servitude are traditionally inflicted on persons against their will and to their detriment. In BDSM, however, these activities are engaged in with the mutual consent of the participants, and typically for mutual enjoyment. Because of this, those who practice BDSM see it as entirely different from sexual abuse.

This emphasis on informed consent and safety is also known as SSC (safe, sane and consensual), though others prefer RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink), which places the emphasis more on informed consent, and acknowledges the fact that all activities are potentially risky.

encyclopedia.laborlawtalk.com

http://encyclopedia.laborlawtalk.com/BDSM

i guess it's close enough. Though there is some stigma to "pervert" in it's law-breaking aspects. However i know it's an honorific here.

pinkpleasures

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RE: Major Pet Peeve - 8/14/2005 2:43:09 AM   
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Status: offline 		Rob, are you still singing this song? Geez.

I see you've changed your pic and cut out the chicks and focus on you... I would say that sucked but you are good looking so that's ok. What's your beef? Could you possibly condense it to about one sentence or less for those of us with a short attention span?
Thanks, ~ respectfully zay

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