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Superman42280 -> A Night in the life of a Poly Family (7/26/2005 11:40:07 AM)


I asked this in another forum, but I am *very* curious what the differences will be in this section....

For those of you in a poly relationship.... what's a typical/day night like? Stormsfate, you're one of the nice people that talk to me, what's a day/night like with you and stormsvision together to please and interact with storm? If I may ask? I love details, it's how I learn.

for you all: what do you do, what do you wear, how do you prepare, how routine is it, etc....?

I've always wondered this.

Thanks so much.



SweetDommes -> RE: A Night in the life of a Poly Family (7/26/2005 11:59:59 AM)

For us, at this point - it's a pretty "normal" roommate situation, unfortunately. We hang out together, eat dinner (normally either fetched by rob or me, or cooked by rob) together, and go to bed. Only difference being that we all sleep in the same bed. With rob still recovering from surgery, plus the move wearing us all out and our work schedules not being very compatable, D/s has been put on the back burner for awhile (as has our sex life *sigh). When things are more normal for us, rob waits on us and serves us more than just fetching/cooking dinner - but what all he does depends on what we have been doing earlier. If I've been at work, rob is normally asleep when I get home, but the next day, he takes care of me - if I'm sore, he gives me backrubs, if I'm just too tired to move, he fetches things for me, etc.

I'm not exactly sure how things will work once we have two boys full time, but hopefully we'll be finding out pretty soon.



Andream -> RE: A Night in the life of a Poly Family (8/6/2005 6:37:31 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: SweetDommes

For us, at this point - it's a pretty "normal" roommate situation, unfortunately. We hang out together, eat dinner (normally either fetched by rob or me, or cooked by rob) together, and go to bed. Only difference being that we all sleep in the same bed. With rob still recovering from surgery, plus the move wearing us all out and our work schedules not being very compatable, D/s has been put on the back burner for awhile (as has our sex life *sigh). When things are more normal for us, rob waits on us and serves us more than just fetching/cooking dinner - but what all he does depends on what we have been doing earlier. If I've been at work, rob is normally asleep when I get home, but the next day, he takes care of me - if I'm sore, he gives me backrubs, if I'm just too tired to move, he fetches things for me, etc.

I'm not exactly sure how things will work once we have two boys full time, but hopefully we'll be finding out pretty soon.


Hi there. This is my first official post to these boards as I'm a newbie here. This thread has me interested and I hope you don't mind if I ask a few questions.

Is there any occassion in which two of you have sex and the third is either not there, or does not join? Is it part of the overall agreement that all things are done together as a trio? (Sex or otherwise on that second question)

I often picture a poly relationship being much as you describe here. This is real life, and reality has a way of forcing its way upon you whether welcome or not.

Best of luck to all of you and especially to Rob for a speedy recovery.



nella -> RE: A Night in the life of a Poly Family (8/6/2005 6:56:07 AM)

Andream welcome to the form. [:)]

my Dom have often spoken of wanting to have one or two perhaps slaves in adition to me, i am a submissive i think, and we have discussed it. So i am curious to, as to how this would work in practice, the thing whit poly relationships.



SweetDommes -> RE: A Night in the life of a Poly Family (8/6/2005 10:35:46 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Andream

Hi there. This is my first official post to these boards as I'm a newbie here. This thread has me interested and I hope you don't mind if I ask a few questions.

Is there any occassion in which two of you have sex and the third is either not there, or does not join? Is it part of the overall agreement that all things are done together as a trio? (Sex or otherwise on that second question)

I often picture a poly relationship being much as you describe here. This is real life, and reality has a way of forcing its way upon you whether welcome or not.

Best of luck to all of you and especially to Rob for a speedy recovery.

Woohoo! I got someone's posting virginity [;)] Welcome to the boards [:)]

Back to your post, though, rob is doing much better now (he lurks around here sometimes, maybe he'll chime in too).

There are often times when it's just 2 of us while the other is at work, asleep, or just banished to the office to listen LOL All things involving the boy are cleared first (so if I am going to play with him without Holly, I check with her first and vice verce) but if Holly and I are going to play together, we just do.

A poly relationship is just like any other, only with more work, IMO. Real life happens, fights happen, illness happens, etc. All those things interfere with sex/play life just like in a "normal" relationship



nella -> RE: A Night in the life of a Poly Family (8/6/2005 12:17:45 PM)

How do one avoid jelosey, i would imagine that can often be a problem.



stormsfate -> RE: A Night in the life of a Poly Family (8/6/2005 2:29:45 PM)

Its no different than any other relationship, except there are three of us instead of two.


best regards,
fate



nella -> RE: A Night in the life of a Poly Family (8/6/2005 2:58:06 PM)

ok thanks, but i have a feeling i would be jelaus in a situation like that, but that is my vice, i admire somone that manage not to get jelaus.



MstrHellsFury -> RE: A Night in the life of a Poly Family (8/6/2005 6:31:20 PM)

chimming in late again...first things first...define what the relationship with another involved will do to your basic makeup...if you have territorital issues...poly may not be right for you..if it's just a plaything then you might survive the occasional trist...all things concerned I'd say you'll know if and when you're really ready and able to accomodate another of whatever sex in what's been a mono situation for you...as to the post...Sman...I know you say you're interested and also writing a book about the lifestyle...why not go out and explore some of the avenues you seem so interested in asking all the questions...you know some on the job training...then you'll have a better insight as to what others express and how they feel about the things they give in the opinions that you recieve...some may have no problem revealing such intimate details of their private behind closed door lives..and it's their right to do so...but some of the things you ask are a tad too personal don't you think...get a woman..get a life..experience some of these things and you won't have so many questions on such a basic level...elevate your thoughts...this is not flaming you..or belittling you in any way...as always this is just MHO..

Fury



kisshou -> RE: A Night in the life of a Poly Family (8/6/2005 6:55:20 PM)

A typical evening at home starts out with Master arriving home from work. My slave sister and I (we are both former strippers) are freshly showered and dressed in corsets, sheer stockings with garter belts and high spiked heels.

We greet Master at the door and relieve him of his briefcase while handing him a cold drink. We proceed him down the hall , our stocking clad legs brushing against each other til we enter the bedroom. Master lounges back in his easy chair while my slave sis and I entertain him by playing together sexually on the bed.

Master strips and joins us in bed , where sis and I give our all in pleasing him. Afterwards she bathes him while I head to the kitchen to serve up the gourmet meal I have prepared. After dinner, she cleans up the kitchen while I massage his shoulders and back while he plays video games. When her chores are done she kneels at his feet ready for his command.

When He says bedtime we snuggle one on each side of him, depending on how hard a day he had at work he sometimes plays with us again. The following morning I jump out of bed at the first noise of the alarm clock then rush to the kitchen to make his coffee and toast. My slave sis sucks his cock to wake him up. We alternate days for the morning chores. Sis and I each get a passionate kiss and a tug to the nipples before he heads off for work. We then finish our chores and head off for work.



MstrHellsFury -> RE: A Night in the life of a Poly Family (8/6/2005 7:09:56 PM)

you just made what was a slow night..( my girls are out to the movies..my treat for being so good this week)...how can I say...LMAO...Thanks..

Fury



kisshou -> RE: A Night in the life of a Poly Family (8/6/2005 8:12:43 PM)

*smewch* ;)



nella -> RE: A Night in the life of a Poly Family (8/6/2005 9:20:22 PM)

Wow, that is quite a night, and you do this every night?



stormsfate -> RE: A Night in the life of a Poly Family (8/7/2005 6:03:19 AM)

<laughing hysterically and wiping water from the monitor> Thanks, kisshou! I need to put down dropcloth to catch all the spills in this corner....lol.



best regards,
fate



lovingmaster45 -> RE: A Night in the life of a Poly Family (8/7/2005 8:52:39 AM)

We don't have a "typical" evening. We would get quickly bored. 7/28..bobbie came to dinner; played in hottub; we had a 3 some.
7/29...sub susan came from Raleigh for the weekend. we scened that night...Barbie went to bed. I left susan tied to the bed in the pink room and joined Barbie around 1 AM. I got up early on 7/30 to get ready for the Blues Festival. Made coffee and bagels. i woke susan; gave her coffee and juice and ehr first fuck of the day. Barb got up around 10 and we all 3 headed to the Blues Festival. We were joined by bobbi. Had a great day; came back to the island; played in hottub. This time bobbi, susan and I had a 3 some while Barbie finished up some work on her webpage. Sunday afternoon susan left and Barb and I went to the beach for the afternoon. Came home watched 60 minutes; played in the hottub...had "efficient sex".

I worked Monday...was off Tuesday so we spent the day doing projects and haiing sex...just Barbie and me.
8/3. Got a call from Lady V. Said I had to come over. I drove to her house. She greeted me at the door and took my hand. Led me to the bedroom. there was a blonde tied to the bed. She said I ahd to take the girl because her ex was bringing their daughter home a day early. Her name was cindy. She was from San Diego and V had picked her up at the Fat Pelican. I brought her home and used her hard. Used her again the next morning and took her back To V.
V. put her on a bus that afternoon.
Work week...even had to work Saturday
Sat night drove to Fayetteville for Army wife's gangbang. I had 24 guys use her while her hubby videotaped it. Terrific evening.

Today is Sunday. I am chatting with danielle in Charlotte; planning our outfits for Purgatory. Barbie and I are going to the beach in a few. A new girl we met is coming for her second visit at 7 tonight. She will be ehre until Tuesday. Seh will go with me Saturday to Purgatory to meet danielle.

We are poly; but it takes a lot more to maintain everything because we do not all live together. It works for us. It is repulsive to others. We don't give a shit. and NO jealousies are allowed here.



Passion357 -> RE: A Night in the life of a Poly Family (8/7/2005 9:01:45 AM)

Hello Folks. I, too am new here, but this thread, I must reply to LOL. I live in a Poly Family, and I laugh at all the questions. I do *not* laught "at" the people asking them, it just tickles me to know there is so much curiosity about something so natural to me..Poly.

Master and Myself have had sex before when the other slave girl did not participate, but only watched and/or listened. Once you (you in general) have known us for a while, it seems to come natural an understanding of Who/what We are.



ChereeAmoor -> RE: A Night in the life of a Poly Family (8/9/2005 6:21:15 AM)

Typical weekday here:

both Masters get up and go to work. None of us are breakfast eaters, at most we will grab a piece of fruit. I stay home all day doing whatever needs done, and then they both come home at about 4PM. I make supper and we eat. We are all in bed by about 10PM. There might be TV, or computer time, or lively discussions about politics, and once a week there are a few hours spent at a local bar with a bunch of co-workers.

We are very low on protocol and since we have our 2 teenaged sons living with us, there are a lot of things that just don't apply in our case, like nudity or me tottering around on stiletto heels or my kneeling on the floor beside the supper table. We are all as dull as can be, and we like it this way.

When either of them wants me, I am right there. Sometimes their work schedules vary so that I will have a day or two alone with One or the Other, and sometimes I will go off for a wekend alone. We don't call it a lifestyle. It is just our life, everyday, common as dirt, and we enjoy it and each other fully.



wolfsprincess -> RE: A Night in the life of a Poly Family (8/13/2005 4:15:06 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: MstrHellsFury

chimming in late again...first things first...define what the relationship with another involved will do to your basic makeup...if you have territorital issues...poly may not be right for you..if it's just a plaything then you might survive the occasional trist...Fury




So You consider "play" partners as a type of poly relatinship as well?

princess
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DominateCouple1 -> RE: A Night in the life of a Poly Family (8/13/2005 3:40:14 PM)

Hi
ours in the same as a normal relationship but we have a slave who does things for us...it is not all whips and chains but works very well for us as we have a life we all share.



MstrHellsFury -> RE: A Night in the life of a Poly Family (8/13/2005 5:38:58 PM)

everyone has their own defination or idea what poly means to them...as for me...I'm in a closed relationship so I don't indulge in outside partners...I'm sure there are others who would consider play partners as some form of poly..



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