LadyAngelika
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Joined: 7/4/2004 From: Montréal - Canada Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: Sinergy From my perspective, a person who nitpicks to that level would be somebody I would not want to have in a relationship with. So true Sinergy… but I’m going to take this quote out of context to make another point. Male subs/slaves shouldn’t settle for someone who won’t treat them right. I am very much aware that there is an imbalance in the ratio of male subs seeking Femme Dommes and Femme Dommes seeking male subs. That being said, I don’t see it as an opportunity for me to be more of a bitch or to treat male subs as disposable. A woman who does this does not respect men. I’ve often been told by my male subs that they can tell I am fond of men. This has not always been their experience. When I receive a note from a sub/slave and he or she has addressed me in a way I don’t want, I firmly, but respectfully, correct them. Here is a recent example: “I very much appreciated your email. Thank you. First and foremost, please address me as Miss Angelika or Lady Angelika in future emails. I am not anyone’s Mistress until they are wearing my collar. And by that same token, you are not my slave. I am adamant about this.” … and it goes on to specific questions I have. On the flip side, I do not respond to rude messages. I delete. Though I have to say, I haven’t received many. Most of the men who have written to me have been quite respectful. Maybe it’s something I say in my profile? I don’t know. And a note on Lawrence’s ass…. Simply irresistible <swoon> - LA <edited for a misplaced sentence>
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