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RE: Is he a Real True Dom/Master or a phoney? - 7/13/2005 11:52:01 AM

TallDarkAndWitty

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ORIGINAL: EmeraldSlave2
TDAW- thanks muchly, I like the new B&W pic.

Anytime babe...I think you are the cat's pajamas. Blunt as a slab of granite at times, but always sharp as a blade.

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RE: Is he a Real True Dom/Master or a phoney? - 7/13/2005 3:45:02 PM

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ORIGINAL: pleasureforHim

...My inbox has email from people..mainly women...thanking me for standing up to her because for whatever reason they were too distraught to do so. For example, a girl posted that she was in distress, and Emerald dismissed her due to spelling and grammar mistakes. Emerald was not the only offender who did this and i blistered each and every one. i have no "Emerald" fixation; i have a "hate speech" fixation; and some of what Emerald has posted in the past has fallen into that catagory....

You've got to be shitting me. In case you didn't realize it this is an internet forum and you're actually letting someone who is simply blunt in her opinions get under your skin in a real way. Take a break from the keyboard for a few and breathe.

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RE: Is he a Real True Dom/Master or a phoney? - 7/13/2005 3:57:42 PM

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Okay, this thread is totally out of control with the flaming. Please play nice or I will just pull it.

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RE: Is he a Real True Dom/Master or a phoney? - 7/13/2005 5:59:24 PM

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well good evening, as i was strolling through this lengthy post that i "originally" posted, as i recall it was of getting "validations" and "opinions" of a Dom whom i felt was fake and phoney, now just how did it get all twisted out of control and does not even pertain to my original concern????????????

wow!! what is with everyone?
Having a bad day!!

lets all chill out!!

bunny

PS: i got my answer from many of you......but lets not continue to get down on each other for un-necessary reason!
its uncalled for.

thank you

< Message edited by sexysubbunny -- 7/13/2005 6:01:43 PM >

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RE: Is he a Real True Dom/Master or a phoney? - 7/14/2005 3:29:49 AM

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ORIGINAL: pleasureforHim

As for my criticism of Emerald; i have found her to be cruel; ill-informed; and attention-seeking. ...

i have no "Emerald" fixation; i have a "hate speech" fixation; and some of what Emerald has posted in the past has fallen into that catagory.

I'm curious as to why you find it acceptable for you to use hate speech with regard to E while at the same time stating how much you loathe hate speech. Its like the pot calling the kettle black.

There is a difference between cruelty and honesty...and she is bluntly honest about her impressions for sure and apparently feels no need to fluff things up for people who are overly sensative. Ill-informed? Not in my opinion. She has an amazing wealth of knowledge and experience for someone of her age, and while I don't always agree, I can't see how disagreeing with someone's opinion makes them ill-informed. Attention seeking? Absolutely and she is the first to admit it.

As for further suggestions...I would suggest that if someone has an issue with E or with anyone else, they don't follow them around the board and each time they post take pot shots. If you have issues with someone's ideals...by all means, attack the issues...not the person.

I'll yahoo with you any time. As for a three way... resolving this issue is between you and her.

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Hey there, redpetals!!!! Nice to see you posting :)

I agree, adults should not need a third person REPEATEDLY requested to mediate on a 3 way conversation.

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RE: Is he a Real True Dom/Master or a phoney? - 7/14/2005 7:35:11 AM

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You’ve had some great advise lil one. One of my “speciality” counselling areas is the D/s, BDSM and Gorean Lifestyles. I’ve had to deal (Mostly on line) with lil ones who have been caught in this trap by “wanna be’s”. To often lads not long out of high school; all testosterone and little brains who are on a high at the though of owning a sex slave… My advise is simple and to the point…… When in doubt ~ DON’T! Just follow your gut feeling in such matters and play safe. First meetings are better in public with support handy in case of a problem.

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RE: Is he a Real True Dom/Master or a phoney? - 7/14/2005 3:19:16 PM

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hello IronBear, and thank you so much for your words of advice and kindness, it is much appreciated as was everyones advice on this post!
i am sorry it got to carried away and out of control..............

just a NOTE TO EVERYONE HERE:

the Dom ( fake/phoney one) whom i am referring to is NOT THE DOM i am presently seeing..
i have met someone new and turns out to be very special and a real Dom in my eyes, he meets my expectations as the sub that i am and i just wanted everyone to know that if they read my recent journal entries,
that (one on my posts) is not the same person i refer to on here..

now, hopefully that doesn't confuse anyone.....!!
grins..........and a great big smile...........

Have a great eveing and again IronBear, Thank you kindly!!

lil bunny

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