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geargirl -> happy with polly dom (7/6/2005 2:31:17 PM)
Are there women really happy that the man they love is a polly dom? doest that take everything specail and any meaning away?

ShiftedJewel -> RE: happy with polly dom (7/6/2005 2:43:52 PM)
I've never been happier in my life. Of course it helps that we are both poly I guess. Jewel

stormsfate -> RE: happy with polly dom (7/6/2005 3:57:37 PM)
Yes...I am happy with my owner being poly. I believe it takes our relationship to an even deeper level. With regard to being special, I feel it brings something even more to our relationship. best regards, fate

kisshou -> RE: happy with polly dom (7/6/2005 6:00:25 PM)
I am unique, no one else can bring to a relationship with my Owner the exact same things I do because there is only one of me. Nothing or no one else in his life can take that 'specialness' away. Not only am I happy that he is poly, I thank him everyday for owning me. :)

EmeraldSlave2 -> RE: happy with polly dom (7/6/2005 6:12:41 PM)
This chica is happy happy! But all relationships go through issues, poly too. If it's who you are, it can work.

LaMspeach -> RE: happy with polly dom (7/6/2005 7:15:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: geargirl Are there women really happy that the man they love is a polly dom? doest that take everything specail and any meaning away? Yes, I am truely happy that my Master is poly. No, it doesn't take anything away from our relationhip, If anything it adds to it. quote: ORIGINAL:kisshou I am unique, no one else can bring to a relationship with my Owner the exact same things I do because there is only one of me. Nothing or no one else in his life can take that 'specialness' away. Not only am I happy that he is poly, I thank him everyday for owning me. :) I agree totally with, kisshou. Each of us bring something different into the relationship that no one else can because we are all unique.

JerryInTampa -> RE: happy with polly dom (7/12/2005 8:48:08 AM)
Yes. I can think of two ongoing poly relationships (of friends), and a former one (my own), where all involved are quite happy with the relationship.

smilezz -> RE: happy with polly dom (7/14/2005 4:29:51 PM)
Thorns is poly, i am not. It's all in the negotiation. I love this man with everything that i am.....but then again, we are the core to this relationship...there is no outside interest of His that can or would ever come between that. It takes nothing away from our relationship whatsoever....i understand who He is, what He wants, what He needs. We differ in this area...i know He is not going anywhere, nor is He leaving me for anyone else. ~smilezz~

ladyhawk40 -> RE: happy with polly dom (7/15/2005 7:39:00 AM)
This my first post here but I had to answer this question. I am very happy being owned by a Master that is poly. But he makes it good for me. He is totally honest with me and makes sure I know he is not going anywhere. He wants me to feel secure with everything. Right now we don't have another person, real life, but we are looking for someone.

fastlane -> RE: happy with polly dom (7/15/2005 1:12:33 PM)
I only have one slave, but I do own a two cats and a Parakeet. Am I Poly and never realized it? Scratch that thought....one of my cats just caught Poly and feathers are everywhere. Damn, this is a bad day!

flowerchild -> RE: happy with polly dom (7/15/2005 11:01:09 PM)
My Owner is poly, I am not, yet. I am coming to accept the fact that at some point in the future He would like to add another person to this relationship. This will not be a one night stand, it will be an addition to our couple making us a triplet. It has been hard for me because I come from a very strict Christian household, my parents are monogamous and always have been and that's what I was brought up around. I have been with E for 8 years now (He has only owned me for the past month) so we are in a very stable relationship and as soon as we are able (and I've come to terms with my hesitations) we are going to start the dating process to find our third. I'm happy with Him because I know He cares for me and loves me with all of His heart and that nothing could ever make Him choose someone over me.

ScooterTrash -> RE: happy with polly dom (7/16/2005 9:24:28 PM)
In most cases (there are exceptions) everyone in a poly "family" is poly...that eliminates this speculation. In our case, we are both Dominants and are thrilled we both are poly, as it would just about have to be that way for it to work. Likewise, any sub or slave we consider also has to be open to poly, that to us is the special part of them. So no, it doesn't take away in our case(s), it adds.

wolfsprincess -> RE: happy with polly dom (7/17/2005 6:44:45 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ScooterTrash In most cases (there are exceptions) everyone in a poly "family" is poly.... Then i may be one of these "exceptions" if i understood correctly. W/we have a "polyfideleous" household - Master has more than one slave, i have only one Master, and O/our relationship stays within the confines of those chosen by Master. In other words, i am not allowed to "play" with Others. princess "...slave isn't just a word - it's who and what i am ... walking forever in His light and seeking shelter in His shadow" http://absoluteslavery.com http://absoluteslavery.com/secure/forum/

stormsfate -> RE: happy with polly dom (7/17/2005 7:11:15 AM)
Hey Wolfsprincess...welcome to the boards :) Nice to see another poly fi family here! f

ScooterTrash -> RE: happy with polly dom (7/17/2005 7:30:16 AM)
quote: In other words, i am not allowed to "play" with Others. I totally understand this, as we have a closed environment as well and don't "play" outside of the family. But if "Master" allowed you (or requested you) to interact with another of his slaves and you were receptive to this, I guess what I am saying is you are poly as well. Don't take this wrong, I am not saying you are or aren't, just giving an example.

wolfsprincess -> RE: happy with polly dom (7/17/2005 8:07:39 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ScooterTrash I totally understand this, as we have a closed environment as well and don't "play" outside of the family. But if "Master" allowed you (or requested you) to interact with another of his slaves and you were receptive to this, I guess what I am saying is you are poly as well. Don't take this wrong, I am not saying you are or aren't, just giving an example. i understand Sir, and yes, if He told me to interact i would. There would be no question as to whether or not i was receptive to it. It would not be a choice i could make. princess "...slave isn't just a word - it's who and what i am ... walking forever in His light and seeking shelter in His shadow" http://absoluteslavery.com http://absoluteslavery.com/secure/forum/

wolfsprincess -> RE: happy with polly dom (7/17/2005 9:27:17 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: stormsfate Hey Wolfsprincess...welcome to the boards :) Nice to see another poly fi family here! f Thank you for the welcome!

slavedesires -> RE: happy with polly dom (7/17/2005 5:10:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: geargirl Are there women really happy that the man they love is a polly dom? doest that take everything specail and any meaning away? Nope!! What makes Him happy will make me happy or i walk. May i reverse it and ask...what makes monogmy so special and meaningful? ~~shy

slavedesires -> RE: happy with polly dom (7/17/2005 5:21:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: wolfsprincess quote: ORIGINAL: ScooterTrash In most cases (there are exceptions) everyone in a poly "family" is poly.... Then i may be one of these "exceptions" if i understood correctly. W/we have a "polyfideleous" household - Master has more than one slave, i have only one Master, and O/our relationship stays within the confines of those chosen by Master. In other words, i am not allowed to "play" with Others. princess "...slave isn't just a word - it's who and what i am ... walking forever in His light and seeking shelter in His shadow" http://absoluteslavery.com http://absoluteslavery.com/secure/forum/ oh my ...looks like i aint running off to that website after all Shifted Jewel [;)] just learned another new word...."polyfideleous"....so am i getting the picture? Absolutely slavery means no choice for the slave/slaves. Onemight be straight and the other bi...and the master can do as he pleases totally...even have one straight slave, one bi slave, and any number of combinations with the bi slave while the stright slave serves monogamously or fideleously? Emerald....heard of this?..oh wait, she might already know all about this.....hehehehe silly shy girl

slavedesires -> RE: happy with polly dom (7/17/2005 5:23:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: smilezz Thorns is poly, i am not. It's all in the negotiation. I love this man with everything that i am.....but then again, we are the core to this relationship...there is no outside interest of His that can or would ever come between that. It takes nothing away from our relationship whatsoever....i understand who He is, what He wants, what He needs. We differ in this area...i know He is not going anywhere, nor is He leaving me for anyone else. ~smilezz~ and i had no idea smilezzzzz was entangled with Thorns........... am learning alot tonight woooohoooooooooooooo silly shy girl

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