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vicinity -> RE: Fisting (11/22/2005 11:54:53 AM)
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lots of good advice on fisting in this thread. from experience fisting and being fisted here's what works for me
1. lube, lube lube--not just one application. keep adding lube around the opening
2. get her very excited, lots of foreplay and go slowly. playing with the clit might help her relax.
3. do NOT jerk your hand out suddenly. just cease all motion until your sub can relax
4. do not force it. i expect a burning sensation but not tearing or bleeding
5. sometimes do it on my back but find it easier facing down
6. play it safe by using gloves. I'm very experienced but still use gloves. find that hand is more slippery, does not absorb any of the lube
7. fist will form naturally after knuckles pass through the tight part
8 what goes in must come out, so listen to the sub when pulling out. keep reminding her to relax. it is possible for the sub to help push out the hand, but not necessary
9. if it doesn't work, dont' feel bad. some hands are just too large, in my opinion
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