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RE: A question from man for all women.... - 5/22/2005 12:49:14 PM

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but i`ll take an unreaserched guess that 9 of 10 hetro males wonder about the answer.

Oh, I think you are far off on your estimate. As Kiaban mentioned, sending such pictures seems to be the province of Horny Net Geeks and other wankers. Guys who are interested in serious relationships aren't going to do something so stupid.

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RE: A question from man for all women.... - 5/22/2005 1:02:52 PM

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Though I'm a male, I get offended by cock pics because I ruins everything. It just flat out suggest that the guy just wants sex or CBT. CM isn't a porn site. Though the profile section allows us to dress in verious sexy manners, shouldn't there be an eliment of suprise that makes ppl want to read the profile? I msyself work in a Hospital and it ends up becoming once you seen one cock you've seen them all. So unless you're a atleast a foot long in the pants when hung it's not likely that anyone is going to really care about seeing your cock in a picture. As I heard one of my friends talk about an ex boy friend "Just because he had a 747 didn't mean that he knew how to land it."

so instead of women being offended by a cock picture, it's more of a "I'm not that impressed" or "Whatever" feeling.

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RE: A question from man for all women.... - 5/22/2005 4:13:00 PM

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greetings,

i will venture my opinion here. In general, men are visual, and women are emotional. women would like to see thought pattern, and strength. that a man is someone they could "like" or "submit to" in this case. that really has nothing to do with the size of his penis.

men, are visual... generally the first thing that they think with is thier eyes. some men will project this type of visualizing on women. basically thinking to themselves "well i want to see her tits! she must be dying to see my dick" these men, tho probably dont mean any harm, simply need to be educated. which usually happens rather quickly, when the offended female flames him. saying "What happened to "hello"??"...

disclaimer1: this is not to say women dont become sexually heated at a good looking guy, its just usually part of a "package"

disclaimer2: this is not to say that men dont want a woman with brains, most do. its just that well... men appreciate a pretty ..err... face. nothin wrong with that. its what makes a man... a man.

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RE: A question from man for all women.... - 5/22/2005 4:52:07 PM

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Or you could take one idea from another thread and exclaim, "Oooh! Another one to sell on eBay. How does Monday sound for your castration?"

Unfortunately... I have little doubt you might hear back from one or two.

The members only section filled up, RFLMAO!!

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RE: A question from man for all women.... - 5/23/2005 4:29:16 AM

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Gee...I am happy to be one of the putative 10% of guys NOT wondering about this. As has already been said, I expect girls don't like cock pics for the same reason I don't enjoy pussy pics: BORING!! In a picture, I want to see the face, the body, the person. But I am glad guys send cock pics...it makes it easier for we who don't to make a good impression...LOL! Moot point for me now, since I am not looking, but still...hmmm...maybe my not sending cock pics is one of the little reasons why I am not looking?

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ORIGINAL: newbie4princess

I realize i`m speaking for men without asking any or giving a second thought to those who may take offense with their inclusion, but i`ll take an unreaserched guess that 9 of 10 hetro males wonder about the answer. The question-

"Why do you "ladies" get so offended by guys sending pictures of our dicks?"

i can understand if this is the only pic sent. Aren`t we living in an age that women have stood up and made the claim that size does matter? Do you not all check our nose, hands, and feet?

I`m just asking and not looking to offend.....

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RE: A question from man for all women.... - 5/24/2005 10:47:56 AM

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Moot point for me now, since I am not looking, but still...hmmm...maybe my not sending cock pics is one of the little reasons why I am not looking?

Bob

That and a glowing personality... Congrats on having found your very own Minx. And congrats to her for having found you. Good luck both of you.

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RE: A question from man for all women.... - 5/24/2005 10:56:01 AM

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Simply put - if a chick doesn't ask to see your wang, it's rude to assume she would like to.

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RE: A question from man for all women.... - 5/24/2005 10:47:35 PM

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Oh, I think you are far off on your estimate. As Kiaban mentioned, sending such pictures seems to be the province of Horny Net Geeks and other wankers. Guys who are interested in serious relationships aren't going to do something so stupid.

Very well said. From my vantage point, if I wanted to make a connection with a Lady, {Dominant or Submissive} sending that type of picture would never even enter my mind.

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RE: A question from man for all women.... - 5/24/2005 11:30:40 PM

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I don't like Dick's or Cock's, I find them plain Ugly!
And further more who is to say they are your's!
Even though my profile is Clear, I still get them!

My Domina and myself explore, a lot, to specifically find
strap on's that are as far away from phallic as possible.

But fingers are really the Best, Yes sometimes size matters, but there are always more fingers or even a fist...That's what I want, a Domina to send me a shot of her Fist!!
But...I have to admit.. it would really shock me to have a Domina write and
send me a pic of her toys or even better yet Her Fist!
Get a Clue.

*Brightspot

I wanted to add, I do see, not so much on this site, but a few others, that a lot of Women also like to show only their genitals and breasts. Athough I find a vagina or a woman's breasts much more tolerable to look at, I still find it just as much a turn off.
I would much rather see a Beautiful Smile!

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RE: A question from man for all women.... - 5/25/2005 12:05:38 AM

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I dn't know if it's been mentioned before or not, but It stands to reason.

First impressions are everything, In public would you go up to someone an whip it out an say look my dicks great don't you think so?

I certaintly hope not you'd be going to jail for indecent exposure. Cock pics being sent un solicited is indecent exposure as well, only online it's not illegal. If you wouldn't do it in public where you could get in serious trouble for it or at the very least earn the persons disinterest whyw ould someone do it online.

Why would a woman who don't know you, want to "know" your dick. To me it says whanker all over it when guys send unsolicited dic pictures and lets me know they're not serious, and are only out for sex.

I'm not interested in sex , or meeting your dick or fawning over it, If I was I'd just buy a dildo and fawn over it.

lol sure size matters, how can you tie it up and torture it if you're into cbt if it's this lil tiny 1 incher. :))

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