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testlimit -> RE: No sub/slave can be straight... (6/12/2005 9:17:21 PM)
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Well first off i think you need to be clear on what the definition of submisive versus slave.
See to me, while a slave might be expected to please who they are told to please, a submissive would have a choice. Submission doesn't equal total loss of autonomy, for that matter niether does slavery, neccesarily (we're talking about people here so no two situations are going to be the same).
It is perfectly reasonable for either a sub or a slave to be straight. all being straight means is that you are only attracted to person's of the oppisite sex. If your Dom/Master/Mistress is any good, they will respect your preferences in general. That's not to say you would never be expected to please someone of the same sex, but it would be with the understanding that it's because you're trying to please your Dom, not out of any enjoyment. As an occasional excerise in power it might be ok, but if your Dom is repeatedly forcing you into these situations that they know bothers you, you might want to think about finding a new Dom. You're submission, and yes even your slavery is a choice. You are the only one who can choose to obey. I think that's something alot of submissives tend to forget. It's situations like that, that give the BDSM community a bad name.
I hope I'm making my point clear. I'm not condemning having your sub/slave do things they don't want to do, I'm pointing out the difference between it being a character building excercise, which is great, and being abusive, which isn't.
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