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Decided I'm a Lesbian - 5/7/2005 11:24:04 PM   
darkprincess21


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Status: offline 		Ok, I was seeing this guy for about a week. He's not into the lifestyle or anything but he is a nice enough guy. Anyways, the last time we went out we ended up making out and messing around, By the end of the whole thing all I wanted to do was puke. I'm starting to realize that I'm not even attracted to men. All I can think of is how beautiful women are and I never check out men, I check out women. Anyways, Just a realization I guess.


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RE: Decided I'm a Lesbian - 5/8/2005 12:37:11 AM   
perverseangelic


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Status: offline 		Heh. Know the feeling, in part :)

Women -are- nifty, huh?

Still, I gotta say that one of the nicest self-revelations I've come accross is that I pretty much think people in general are hot.

Anyway, have fun with the woman-hunting.

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RE: Decided I'm a Lesbian - 5/8/2005 8:28:32 AM   
sub4hire


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Status: offline 		Hehe, you should tell him he turned you into a lesbian. Well, that would be cruel..but I've known people to do it in the past.

Have some fun

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RE: Decided I'm a Lesbian - 5/8/2005 9:15:58 AM   
BlkTallFullfig


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Hehe, you should tell him he turned you into a lesbian. Well, that would be cruel..but I've known people to do it in the past.

That would be a very cruel joke, not at all fair to this guy given that DarkPrincess' issues with men didn't start with him at all..
As long as you're having fun, doesn't matter whom you choose to love or do.. M


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RE: Decided I'm a Lesbian - 5/8/2005 3:04:30 PM   
MadameDahlia


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Status: offline 		I'm an equal opportunist... or maybe you can just call me greedy. I'm secure in who I am. And I think everyone should be just as happy in whatever place they feel is best.

Congrats and good luck!

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RE: Decided I'm a Lesbian - 5/8/2005 3:21:20 PM   
BlkTallFullfig


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ORIGINAL: MadameDahlia
I'm an equal opportunist... or maybe you can just call me greedy. And I think everyone should be just as happy in whatever place they feel is best.

Hey I've nothing but envy for bisexual females; I wish I could widen my pool of potential lovers that way; unfortunately I cannot get excited about dominating ladies. M

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RE: Decided I'm a Lesbian - 5/10/2005 3:06:51 PM   
onceburned


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Status: offline 		Did anyone else see the U.S. television show "Cold Case" on Sunday May 7? I thought it did a good job showing a young lesbian relationship in a positives and sympathetic light.

Pretty amazing considering it aired so early - 8 pm Eastern/ 7 pm Central. And on CBS, too!

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RE: Decided I'm a Lesbian - 5/11/2005 1:34:20 AM   
brightspot


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Status: offline 		Hello Darkprincess,

I'm a Lesbian, if you ever feel a need to talk write
me on the other side.

*Brightspot

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RE: Decided I'm a Lesbian - 5/13/2005 6:16:15 PM   
fourpeas


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Status: offline 		I've dated women before too. I find myself being definitely more tongue-tied by women than men. Weird huh? I just don't like to label myself bi-sexual because... I just don't. I don't know that it fits me. My relationships with women have been SOOOOO different from the ones with men that it's like there's no comparison. Weird. Anywho, be secure and proud in who you are! hooray!

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RE: Decided I'm a Lesbian - 5/14/2005 12:03:31 AM   
LadyAngelika


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Status: offline 		I made that same declaration at 21, to my friends, parents, everyone. You may be for a while, you may be for the rest of your life. Sexuality exists in a continuim. I rediscovered my sexuality again at 27 when I realised I was really bisexual. Actually it was my girlfriend at the time that made me realise this.

Just enjoy the moment and explore to your heart's content, being safe & responsible of course. And at any time, you can email me if you want some BDSM lesbian resources. Mind you, there are probably a whole lot more around then there was 10 years ago.

- LA

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RE: Decided I'm a Lesbian - 5/15/2005 10:00:13 AM   
astralboy


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Status: offline 		One week seems a very short time to decide... but it's a good thing to look around...
Things are not easier on any side (even if they look like), just different.

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RE: Decided I'm a Lesbian - 5/15/2005 11:21:46 AM   
SweetDommes


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Status: offline 		She didn't decide in one week, it was after that week with the guy that she started thinking about her life and how it was going with males/females in general that made her decide. And anyway, all it takes is that one brief moment of clarity to figure it out - that's what happened to me.

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RE: Decided I'm a Lesbian - 5/15/2005 12:18:39 PM   
perverseangelic


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Status: offline 		What SweetDommes said.

It isn't something you just decide. It soemthign you just admit. At least, in my experience. I didn't just decide I was pansexual. I did shock my friends by admitting it, out of the blue. It had just taken some time to be ok with it myself.

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RE: Decided I'm a Lesbian - 5/18/2005 11:10:13 AM   
Lepidoptera


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ORIGINAL: darkprincess21

Ok, I was seeing this guy for about a week. He's not into the lifestyle or anything but he is a nice enough guy. Anyways, the last time we went out we ended up making out and messing around, By the end of the whole thing all I wanted to do was puke. I'm starting to realize that I'm not even attracted to men. All I can think of is how beautiful women are and I never check out men, I check out women. Anyways, Just a realization I guess.


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Yeah... I know the "puke" feeling.

I've just decided that I'm a lesbian who enjoys forced heterosexuality :D.

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RE: Decided I'm a Lesbian - 5/21/2005 8:16:38 AM   
Domcat


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Status: offline 		you just "decided" you are a lesbian? Oh...ok...

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RE: Decided I'm a Lesbian - 5/21/2005 10:24:57 AM   
perverseangelic


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ORIGINAL: Domcat

you just "decided" you are a lesbian? Oh...ok...



Perhaps if she said "admitted" that would be better?

It's a hard decition to accept, god knows it took me long enough to be ok with being pansexual. But I can look back and say I remember the day I "decided" I was bi. (I've expanded since then :) )

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RE: Decided I'm a Lesbian - 5/21/2005 12:20:41 PM   
Domcat


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Status: offline 		you "decided" you were bi...oh...ok

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RE: Decided I'm a Lesbian - 5/21/2005 1:43:34 PM   
MadameDahlia


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Status: offline 		peverseangelic... I wouldn't try to reason with this one too hard. He's entitled to his views...

And remember, if you feed them they will come. -winks-

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RE: Decided I'm a Lesbian - 5/21/2005 2:15:17 PM   
perverseangelic


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Status: offline 		Yeah, I tend to forget. I always feel like if I explained it just a -little- bit better, they'd get it.

It's the wannabe librarian in me.

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RE: Decided I'm a Lesbian - 5/21/2005 8:49:35 PM   
Lepidoptera


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ORIGINAL: perverseangelic

Yeah, I tend to forget. I always feel like if I explained it just a -little- bit better, they'd get it.

It's the wannabe librarian in me.


See, now you're being good and that means I have to be good too. *pouts*


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