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is there a Mistress out there that can help me - 11/18/2004 1:38:54 PM

Maamsslave

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can a Mistress have more then one slave.

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RE: is there a Mistress out there that can help me - 11/18/2004 1:42:51 PM

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She can have all the slaves she wants. What is important is to be aware how YOU feel about the situation. If you're not comfortable being poly (sex and/or non-sexual), you need to find a Mistress who isn't poly either. Be honest with her and yourself. If the relationship ends because you are different, it will hurt a lot less than both being in agony because they are trying to force themselves into roles they do not fit.

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RE: is there a Mistress out there that can help me - 11/18/2004 5:30:04 PM

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ORIGINAL: MistressFire70

She can have all the slaves she wants. What is important is to be aware how YOU feel about the situation. If you're not comfortable being poly (sex and/or non-sexual), you need to find a Mistress who isn't poly either. Be honest with her and yourself. If the relationship ends because you are different, it will hurt a lot less than both being in agony because they are trying to force themselves into roles they do not fit.

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Absolutely agree with this

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RE: is there a Mistress out there that can help me - 11/19/2004 5:21:20 AM

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A Mistress can choose to live in a mono life and have only one slave or choose to live in a poly life and have more then one slave and to even have slaves of different races or ages or sexes and to even have another Dominant either Male or Female in Their life and it is the choice of the Mistress which One She chooses, but it is also a slaves choice befor going into any relationship to also choose what they seek, a life which is filled with other slaves that share the Mistress they serve of if they desire a one on one relationship with a Mistress and this must be plain and shown right up front when first going into any relationship with any Dominant as befor being collared it is your right to choose for your self what you expect and desire and want and what your limits are both hard and soft as slave and then release that right to the Owner or Owners you have chose to take over your everything to control and make Thier best choices keeping in mind your limits directed befor the Ownership took place. I am a Mistress whom lives with in a Poly Home. I have had both Dominant Males and slave males and females in My Family all at one time living Our Lifestyle.I hope this helped in your question. JMO

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RE: is there a Mistress out there that can help me - 11/19/2004 10:59:36 AM

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Yes, and I am quite clear about that in My profile. Yet I still get mail from submissives or slaves who want to explore a possibility with Me but are very put off by a poly-household. I am not going to fight with them over their personal feelings. They do, as Dread says, have the right to decide if this is the contract and life and Mistress for them before entering into the relationship. So My question back would be, why do y'all write to Me in the first place? If you don't want poly and that is what I am, then you should be moving on.

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