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do you believe in making - 8/1/2005 6:48:09 PM   
hardxdrive


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love to your bdsm partner?
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RE: do you believe in making - 8/11/2005 9:25:05 AM   
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Absolutely!

Just not very often. But it sure does help my Sub's attitude if I do it occasionally. She doesn't expect it and is never sure if that's what I'm really going to do or if it's a different lead-in to a BDSM scene. When she's finally sure that it's safe she has a fantastic orgasm (or two, or three) and floats back down slowly to reality. Afterwards she's even more willing to fulfill my needs and desires.

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RE: do you believe in making - 8/11/2005 9:31:08 AM   
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Yup.

I believein doing whatever my partner wants ;) THat includes making love, quite often.

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RE: do you believe in making - 8/11/2005 9:31:33 AM   
ChereeAmoor


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YES!! I try to put it into everything I do.

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RE: do you believe in making - 8/11/2005 9:31:45 AM   
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Most definately! I wouldn't have it any other way.

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RE: do you believe in making - 8/11/2005 9:35:53 AM   
nella


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Yes, me and my Dom make love, we are engaged t be marrid.

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RE: do you believe in making - 8/11/2005 9:36:11 AM   
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quote:

love to your bdsm partner?


Every activity we do is "making love". I don't assign any specific act to the term. When I use the flogger, or any other implement on her, it's "making love". The only exception is punishment, but in a broader sense that can also be considered making love. Punishment would be "making love" to the relationship we share, and being sure in continues on the path we've chosen.

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RE: do you believe in making - 8/11/2005 9:56:11 AM   
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quote:

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love to your bdsm partner?


I know I am in a very small minority in how I practice BDSM, but my answer here still is yes. Although my BDSM partner is not my submissive or dominant.

I do not make love to my slaves.

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RE: do you believe in making - 8/11/2005 1:04:01 PM   
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Of course I do. It would be a sad life if I never made love with my husband.

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RE: do you believe in making - 8/11/2005 2:06:01 PM   
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Yep, all of the time.

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RE: do you believe in making - 8/11/2005 2:43:15 PM   
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I wouldnt have a Partner I couldnt make love to.

Q

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RE: do you believe in making - 8/13/2005 11:34:44 AM   
Hallittlelolita


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I totally agree with Quivver. I believe that a bdsm partner should be a partner first then comes bdsm. It took 4 yrs for me and my husband/Master to get into the scene. I think Love should come first then the other stuff

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RE: do you believe in making - 8/13/2005 11:50:49 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: hardxdrive

love to your bdsm partner?


ok i am the freak.. not all of them .. my Owner yes... other Domiantes that i have played with no... two diffrent things to me ... my BDSM D/s activites dont always include makeing "love" or having sex....

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RE: do you believe in making - 8/13/2005 4:29:12 PM   
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Yes, we play, but making love to each other is very important if not more so to us.

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RE: do you believe in making - 8/16/2005 3:49:03 AM   
NakedOnMyChain


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Hell yeah!

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