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bi-male experiences .... - 12/11/2004 9:02:25 PM

alwayzron

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Gotta ask .... any male subs in here ever been forced to service another male? Serious (and real) answers and experiences please.

And for the Misresses .... if you require a male sub to perform forced-bi, and he refuses, does this make him not really submissive, but rather, a bottom?

Inquiring minds want to know. Well ... at least what is left of my mind.

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RE: bi-male experiences .... - 12/11/2004 11:04:26 PM

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RE: bi-male experiences .... - 12/26/2004 5:03:51 PM

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This is an area She has wanted to explore.... the thought terrifies and repulses me. Could or do those things happen, I dont know... would like to hear about other couple's experiences.

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RE: bi-male experiences .... - 12/26/2004 7:05:32 PM

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It doesn't make him "non- submissive" it makes him "non consentual".. There is a big difference!. I have found that with the right motivation very few will refuse to do something if they sincerely know in thier heart that it is pleaseing to the Mistress and that the Mistress truly enjoys it and is turned on by it. If a sub is confident of those thing, and they are rewarded and cherished for doing such, then in MY opinion there is very little hesitation.

In MY opinion, the biggest mistake most commonly made by Mistress's in regards to this subject is NOT cherishing the sub and letting him know that he has pleased you for doing such. All to often I see Mistress's use it as simply a form of degradation and humiliation, and weaken the subs self esteem, instead of letting him know that his act is endearing they often turn it into an act of replusion, and no sub that I intentionally wants to be repulsive to his or her Mistress. So in regard to this act, its sucess, in MY opinion lies with the response of the Mistress.

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RE: bi-male experiences .... - 12/28/2004 3:00:14 PM

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Can it be "forced" if you crave it?

Alas, no, I've not been with a Domme who's had another male there to service. I've been seeking such a scenario for a while. In the meantime I've tried to serve several male Doms but most of them have turned out to just be guys who like fellatio-on-demand.

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RE: bi-male experiences .... - 12/28/2004 8:12:30 PM

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guys who like fellatio-on-demand.

Let's be real here ... that's all men !!!

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RE: bi-male experiences .... - 12/30/2004 5:16:37 PM

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As Ms. Eden stated, it is more of an issue of her pleasure. My wife has stated it in such terms.. it is what she wants, wants to see happen, wants to experience my response.

It is clear that it is going to be an inevitable part of our journey, and perhaps quite soon. I think i know She has someone in mind. And I know the knowledge of my fear is very pleasing to her.

I would like to find out more from those placed into that experience, and dealing with my thughts and emotions to come.

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RE: bi-male experiences .... - 12/30/2004 7:29:37 PM

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Although I don't know where your marriage is at ... nor at what level of submission you're living ... you will be ingesting (more than likely) the fluids of another male if this happen. You have the right (and your Wife/Domme has the obligation) to ensure that he's clean and disease free.

Without ruining the surprise aspect, I would tell your wife that you love her, are committed to your relationship and want to please her, but that if she ever decides to bring 'someone else' into the scene, then to please ensure both your safety and hers.

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RE: bi-male experiences .... - 12/30/2004 7:33:23 PM

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ORIGINAL: alwayzron

Gotta ask .... any male subs in here ever been forced to service another male? Serious (and real) answers and experiences please.

it's only happened once, but yes, i was 'forced' to suck another man's cock for a Domme's viewing enjoyment...i loved being taken totally out of my comfort zone for Her pleasure...in the right circumstances, i'd love to do that again for a Domme who would want that....or more.

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RE: bi-male experiences .... - 12/30/2004 8:18:18 PM

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She's already, on several occassions, used the phrase "drug and disease free" and I think I know who she has in mind. So at least from that perspective, I will be ready.Safe, yes I am sure, but rough, yes.

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RE: bi-male experiences .... - 1/1/2005 6:59:00 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: alwayzron

Gotta ask .... any male subs in here ever been forced to service another male? Serious (and real) answers and experiences please.

And for the Misresses .... if you require a male sub to perform forced-bi, and he refuses, does this make him not really submissive, but rather, a bottom?

Inquiring minds want to know. Well ... at least what is left of my mind.

He refuses? Never...wouldn't be acceptable. It is listed always as something that interests Me so a slave who doesn't fathom this could be a very real experience when with Me is an idiot.

Jasmyn

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