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bi-curious - 5/7/2004 10:10:51 PM

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I am wondering if those females of you that once considered yourselves "bi-curious" had good or bad experiences when you tried being with another female, and under what circumstances you tried it. Right now I am somewhat curious but i would only play with another female under the direction of my Master, and to please Him. He has mentioned He would like a threesome and i am a little nervous about it.

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RE: bi-curious - 5/7/2004 10:31:23 PM

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Hi Proud,

I am not really curious, nor do I consider myself bi, but I have played with other women. The thing I like the most, is woman kiss softer. The least, is oral. I was once given to a sub as a BD gift. They had me blindfolded, and I was to *pleasure* her. The two dominants in the room the room are saying *no, do it this way*, while she's squealing and saying *noooo she KNOWS what she's doing,,,,*. I had trouble not laughing.

When one a really good friend of mine turned 40, she asked me to play with her as a gift. It was just suppose to be the two of us, but Master got off work early. Though he had never even suggested a 3 some (he was just watching), I kinda got in top mode and got her to pleasure him while I was spanking her.

I have had a few other experience, but to me that's all it is. I don't look at women and say *boy she's hot* or *I'd love to get into those pants*, and I don't overly like going down on another woman, but as far as sex partners go, they can be fun.

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RE: bi-curious - 5/7/2004 10:46:53 PM

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I am not homosexual, and do not have the slightest interest in having some other dude's danglies around when I am having sex.

But this thread seems rather sexist, since it seems to assume we are talking about women on women.

Bi-curious goes both ways...

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RE: bi-curious - 5/7/2004 11:04:18 PM

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Sinergy, they are talking about women. Proudsub mentions females in her first sentence. Besides, do you really want to hear about what two guys did together?

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RE: bi-curious - 5/7/2004 11:08:49 PM

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I am fairly sure I didn't imply it didn't go both ways Sir, however, since I was giving personal experience, I can't give anything other than f/f. Sorry :)

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RE: bi-curious - 5/7/2004 11:17:15 PM

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quote:

But this thread seems rather sexist, since it seems to assume we are talking about women on women.

I was asking about women but if any men want to jump in that's fine.

Estrict thank you for your reply. I do enjoy videos of two women. I find them very sensual.

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RE: bi-curious - 5/7/2004 11:33:11 PM

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I do enjoy videos of two women. I find them very sensual.

::laughing:: I actually find it more of a turn on to watch two guys, even though if I ever did a threesome with 2 guys, I would much rather they were both using me than each other. I am not much into watching movies though,,, I prefer to *listen*.

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RE: bi-curious - 5/8/2004 12:41:52 AM

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I have had 3 experiences with females, I loved it. As long as it is safe I dont mind. I personally like to have my nipples sucked on while I get myself off. I dont think I could do it any other way. As long as it is safe, I dont mind. When you have had a long term relationship with someone it is always best to be safe. Toys are fun to!

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RE: bi-curious - 5/8/2004 6:35:53 AM

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I was about 13 or 14 years old when I first kissed a girl. It was something that happened rather naturally in the moment, but it was kinda hard to get my head around for a year or two.

Then for a few years it was about being as wild as wild could get, so I found myself in different situations with women and men. By the time I was 17 I had a child, lived on my own, and considered myself "non-gender specific." Some would call it bi, but I really do think of it as a "gender isn't any more important than race or religion" kinda thing.

I love women. I love men. They are both different and wonderful in their own ways. There are things I prefer about men and things I prefer about women; mostly what flies my kite is who the people are inside and gender in those situations is just about what plumbing you have to work with.

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RE: bi-curious - 5/8/2004 7:41:19 AM

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i consider myself to be bi-curious, i've never kissed a woman nor had sex with a woman...

However, i have had threesomes, but the attention was focused on the man.

i have, on more than one occasion wanted to kiss a woman, but alas, it has not happened, YET. i'm working on that though! i'm very affectionate, and love to be touched....soooooo....i'll keep you posted!

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RE: bi-curious - 5/8/2004 10:04:44 AM

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quote:

i consider myself to be bi-curious, i've never kissed a woman nor had sex with a woman...

Rain maybe we should get together and practice LOL

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RE: bi-curious - 5/8/2004 2:54:01 PM

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My first experience was wonderfull. She was brought to me as a birthday present. My Ex knowing i was curious went and talked to a mutual friend of ours that was Bi. It was fantastic! And i'd have to say every experience since then has been great.
Making love to a women is so much different then to a man. They are soft and smooth, their scent is wonderfull and their touch is different. It's all good.

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RE: bi-curious - 5/8/2004 3:20:37 PM

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quote:

My Ex knowing i was curious went and talked to a mutual friend of ours that was Bi.

Did that change your friendship with the woman at all? The female we are considering for a 3some is also a friend and i am worried it might hurt our friendship in some way.

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RE: bi-curious - 5/8/2004 3:53:40 PM

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I know you were talking to Feline, but in the one case I mentioned to you that turned into a 3 some, she is my best friend. That was one of the reasons she felt safe enough to do it. We are still best friends.

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RE: bi-curious - 5/8/2004 6:53:15 PM

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quote:

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Did that change your friendship with the woman at all? The female we are considering for a 3some is also a friend and i am worried it might hurt our friendship in some way.

No. The only thing that changed is that we became much closer.

Have you discussed your feelings with your friend? If not, i would suggest that you do. She may have the same worries as you.

Relax and enjoy. Don't let your nervousness ruin the moment. Because i think in the end you'll realize there was nothing to worry about.

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RE: bi-curious - 5/9/2004 3:41:30 PM

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proud... The key is to relax and enjoy. Get the stereotypes out of your mind and concentrate on the sights, tastes, touches and sounds. Women are amazing creatures to love.

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RE: bi-curious - 5/9/2004 3:51:00 PM

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quote:

Women are amazing creatures to love.

I second that!

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RE: bi-curious - 5/9/2004 8:19:55 PM

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quote:

proud... The key is to relax and enjoy. Get the stereotypes out of your mind and concentrate on the sights, tastes, touches and sounds. Women are amazing creatures to love.

If it comes about i plan to do just that and will enjoy it knowing i am pleasing my Master. Thank you all for you responses, i feel much better about it now.

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RE: bi-curious - 5/10/2004 4:24:12 AM

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Women are so so so wonderful!

I had always found them attractive, and one of the (many) reasons that I wanted to be with one was after I had tasted myself. I thought "this is wonderful!!".

I have been with 4 women, 3 of those being from threesomes. Although I love a woman when it is just the two of us, there is something more exciting with threesomes. So much more touching and kissing and all the other lovely things.

But, as quite a few of the posters before me have written, women are just so soft. And it feels so wonderful to trace their bodies with your fingertips.

Anyway, I have no doubt that you will enjoy it. I know the expression on my face when I first went down on a woman was the "deer in headlights" look, but as soon as she moaned I knew I was in heaven!

Take care!

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RE: bi-curious - 5/14/2004 2:22:05 AM

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my first experience was a disaster. Master had a playmate that wanted to experience being with a woman (or so she said). we both have never done it before, but i was more than willing to do it since i did know her. What actually ended up was i was giving but not receiving both times we did it. After the second disappointment, i asked Master not to have me be with her again, and He agreed.

Master now has another slave, but she lives in another state. i was really nervous at first, because i didn't want a repeat of the first time. She has to be the sweetest, most considerate female in the world. She took it very slow with me, and let me feel completely relaxed with her. i think the best thing with me is the kissing. It is softer and more sensual than with a man. Also, the touching is more sensual. Granted, i do love it rough, but it is a very nice contrast.

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