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You "dream" first encounter - 11/25/2005 6:18:48 PM

AAkasha

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For those submissives that haven't ever submitted in real life, what is your "dream" first experience? Do you imagine that it is with someone you've interacted with already and set up boundaries, or do you wish it was someone that sort of seduced you and took charge?

Do you imagine it to be very subtle and not much to it physically, or do you hope that it would include lots of physical play?

Do you imagine it to include sexual intercourse, or orgasm for you, or do you picture it being relatively non sexual in nature?

How long would it last? All night long, or a weekend, or just a brief period of time?

How affectionate do you imagine it being in a perfect world? Is your partner more cold and detached, or loving and affectionate?

What do you imagine?

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RE: You "dream" first encounter - 11/25/2005 6:25:52 PM

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LOL Aakasha if I hadn't seen this was you I would have thought someone was looking for wank material.

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RE: You "dream" first encounter - 11/25/2005 6:33:54 PM

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ORIGINAL: AAkasha

For those submissives that haven't ever submitted in real life, what is your "dream" first experience? Do you imagine that it is with someone you've interacted with already and set up boundaries, or do you wish it was someone that sort of seduced you and took charge?

right now i would like someone to take charge of what is going on, but who is also awear of what i am feelign and does not makeme feel unconfertable

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Do you imagine it to be very subtle and not much to it physically, or do you hope that it would include lots of physical play?

to begin with more emouthional that includes a little of phyisical play that start out slow and only progresses slowly and trust truelly builds from being together in person

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Do you imagine it to include sexual intercourse, or orgasm for you, or do you picture it being relatively non sexual in nature?

How long would it last? All night long, or a weekend, or just a brief period of time?

How affectionate do you imagine it being in a perfect world? Is your partner more cold and detached, or loving and affectionate?

What do you imagine?

Akasha

It woud pritty non sexual, i could not jsut jump into a scene wiht a dom/domme on first meeting, and without having known them in real life. As for lenght woud depend on confert level maybe a day. i would perfer they be mroe loving an affectionate hten cold adn detached becaues i would want to use that time to really see how tehy are.

I see a caring a loving person, who can help me throught my though time now and help me grow, and in return i will be their for him.

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RE: You "dream" first encounter - 11/25/2005 6:43:21 PM

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greetings, akasha ,
it takes two....
,so i don't ever know;
what ever she wants.

i ,always wanted the meanest,to the max;no fear ,on her part ;
1st date ,to be the hold.
don't know, if she took me there ,yet,can't ask; can't push ;can't even say; if i even stare ;i begg.
it's, up, to the top....
whatever she wishes is my command.

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RE: You "dream" first encounter - 11/26/2005 5:10:37 AM

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Above all else, i hope my first encounter leaves me feeling He MAY be my One.

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RE: You "dream" first encounter - 11/26/2005 6:49:27 AM

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Dream first encounter? Well that happens to be something that is on my mind recently, so let me try and answer You.

It would be someone i knew, though for how long would depend on the person. Diffinately, They would be the one who started it, perhaps turning a invitation to coffee or a meal into it for example.

They would be caring, but firm with me. Guiding me into sweet submission. It would be non-sexual that first time for sure, though teasing would be ok.

i would hope that They would be firm with me, pushing me to explore and meet Their needs and in so doing meet the need inside me.

How long would it last? As long as Mistress wished it to of course.

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RE: You "dream" first encounter - 11/26/2005 8:10:38 AM

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goood luck to everyone on their first encounters, i hope they turn out to be everything you want them to be and more.

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