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Witch side of being a Switch do You crave the most - 6/11/2005 7:04:40 PM

knees2you

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Just Curious,
What side of the Switch Bdsm~or S-M
Do You crave the most??

I was collared to a Switch, Who altimately
liked being a Submissive/Slave, more so then being a Mistress.
She was very Dominate to me, but liked
serving a Master, more then me serving Her~~~

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"If a Snake bites before it is Charmed there is no profit
for the Charmer."

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RE: Witch side of being a Switch do You crave the most - 6/12/2005 4:42:26 AM

MissMarmaladolly

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It depends on the person, really. I'm more dominant, unless there's that one special person, then...

...I'm hopelessly submissive.

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RE: Witch side of being a Switch do You crave the most - 6/14/2005 10:07:24 AM

westside

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Both!

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RE: Witch side of being a Switch do You crave the most - 6/14/2005 11:18:29 AM

suberic

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quote:

ORIGINAL: knees2you

Just Curious,
What side of the Switch Bdsm~or S-M
Do You crave the most??

And the answer is.... yes.

For me it's not an either/or, it is both. Some days I like to be cared for, others I like doing the caring.

My normal "mode" is me taking care of my lady, running around and taking care, getting and doing. IN there, I have to have some space to do my stuff, to do a few things for me first. Then there are the nights I don't want to take care of anything, but to order m'lady (my slave) around and tell her what she is going to do. Then I like to spank and flog her as well.

So it's not one thing or the other, it is definately both, and it depends entirely on my mood, how I feel and what we negotiate during the course of the day/week/month.

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RE: Witch side of being a Switch do You crave the most - 6/15/2005 6:34:03 PM

shynuntamed

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in some cases I like to be the slave with that special someone but in another case I can be Dominate because I like to share experiences with others and help T/them learn

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RE: Witch side of being a Switch do You crave the most - 7/15/2005 4:29:24 PM

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I lean to the dom side but love the anticipitation of subing. I like to consider myself to Bottom from the Top, just part of my giving nature. I hope to one day to find a lady that I can switch with spontaniously mid scene, purhaps a number of times in a single scene.

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RE: Witch side of being a Switch do You crave the most - 7/15/2005 4:56:10 PM

Rubyb

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quote:

ORIGINAL: tallandhard

I lean to the dom side but love the anticipitation of subing. I like to consider myself to Bottom from the Top, just part of my giving nature. I hope to one day to find a lady that I can switch with spontaniously mid scene, purhaps a number of times in a single scene.

Go you!

I love to do this. There is someone out there for you, keep looking.

To answer the original question:

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What side of the Switch Bdsm~or S-M
Do You crave the most??

It depends on my mood, who I'm with and my partner's desires.

I enjoy being a sub to my hubby, T, but he also lets my mistress side come out to play.
With my sub, Nat, I enjoy taking the lead. However, Nat has a dom side that also needs attention. There's so much fun to be had with my men. I couldn't choose just one.

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RE: Witch side of being a Switch do You crave the most - 7/15/2005 7:08:02 PM

tallandhard

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Rubyb

quote:

ORIGINAL: tallandhard

I lean to the dom side but love the anticipitation of subing. I like to consider myself to Bottom from the Top, just part of my giving nature. I hope to one day to find a lady that I can switch with spontaniously mid scene, purhaps a number of times in a single scene.

Go you!

I love to do this. There is someone out there for you, keep looking.

Thanks and I will. The encuragement is always nice :)

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RE: Witch side of being a Switch do You crave the most - 7/16/2005 1:12:52 PM

itzelwing

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I live mostly in my dominant/sadistic side, however I absolutely love to take the ride of an intense beating.

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RE: Witch side of being a Switch do You crave the most - 7/16/2005 7:35:34 PM

sultryvoice

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After being told time and time again, that I am Dominant but you can be a switch too. I have found that I am a submissive/switch. I can be a Dominant to a very submissive male but when I can tell a Dom has a stronger self, I am submissive. I stopped listening to the others finally and have found my true self. I am more sub but I do have a very sadistic, Dominant streak. Here is where I am comfortable. So listen to yourself and you will find the peace you so richly deserve. A switch is the best of all worlds!

Respectfully,
S/sultry

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RE: Witch side of being a Switch do You crave the most - 7/17/2005 10:31:59 PM

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I love being a switch and it does depend on my mood.

When I am in my Domme mood, Alexis (my slave CD) gets all kinds of punishment. She relishes in it. She pretends to hide the paddles so I can get mad on purpose.

When I am in my sub mood, I get to hide the dildos, paddles, silk scarves...

Also, when I am in sub mood, I loved being romaniced...

Dang it, i know I mispell that...

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RE: Witch side of being a Switch do You crave the most - 7/17/2005 11:11:51 PM

SweetDommes

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As with the other answers - it depends. It depends on the day, the hour, the level of my hormones, the phase of the moon and any number of totally irrelavent things LOL

However, it mostly depends on who I'm with - with Holly, I'm submissive to "normal" ... with most others I'm "normal" to dominant.

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RE: Witch side of being a Switch do You crave the most - 8/18/2005 5:15:00 PM

LadyofLight

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I am emotionally submissive but sexually dominant.

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RE: Witch side of being a Switch do You crave the most - 8/19/2005 6:11:10 AM

LadyKim

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I lean very heavily to the dominant side (hence the reason I post on here as a domme); however, there are occassions when I will meet a personality I enjoy 'bottoming' for. Once upon a time, I was submissive; however, since embracing my more dominant nature, I have found that I cannot really 'submit' to someone else. I can serve as a bottom during our encounter, but I do not get the 'need to serve' I had as a submissive. For me, it is more the need to experience the release through pain or from being used or humiliated for a brief time. Becase of this, I am actually able to satisfy this with a subbie boy from time to time instructing him in how to use my back door. When the 'sub desires are sated', I am quick to reign him back in and flip back to my more natural role of being the one in control. Nine times out of ten the sub has no clue he was just topping me, but it allows me to feed that side. Works well for me.

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RE: Witch side of being a Switch do You crave the most - 8/20/2005 9:59:53 AM

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In practice? Don't know. Haven't had much experience.

In theory, I can tell you that it fluctuates *greatly* with my mood and how things are going in my life. If I am generally happy with where I am in life, I'm usually more dominant, if I'm more insecure (like right now, with my job ending in a week with no replacement lined up) then I'm generally more submissive.

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RE: Witch side of being a Switch do You crave the most - 8/25/2005 2:45:22 PM

MyKey

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very much depends on which side is getting an airing and which side isnt, if I have been too long dominant (in life or love) then i crave submission, and vice versa.

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RE: Witch side of being a Switch do You crave the most - 9/11/2005 2:42:54 PM

LadyofLight

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Mostly it depends on my interpersonal intimate relationship with the man involved.

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you're either covering it,
laughing it off,
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kissing it,
busting it,
trying to get a piece of it,
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RE: Witch side of being a Switch do You crave the most - 9/11/2005 4:10:00 PM

RumpusParable

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my tendencies from strongest to weakest:

masochist, with all
sub, majority
dom/sad, rarely if inspired

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RE: Witch side of being a Switch do You crave the most - 9/11/2005 7:21:37 PM

theRose4U

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I have been a practicing Domme for a number of years but always had a part of my heart tht was not satified. After being in a long term relationship with a VERY Dom man I found the relaxation that comes with voluntary submission to one. Not to say that the red headed Domme in me doesn't burn hot :)

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RE: Witch side of being a Switch do You crave the most - 9/14/2005 10:27:50 PM

ShadeDiva