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What means VANILLA? - 9/11/2005 5:06:20 AM

Zolady

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Bonjour !
I have been in BDSM since 20 years now...on and of ...because very élitiste.
But I Had never seen <VANILLA>
what does it mean?
Romantic?
because you can be a kind tender romantic domina ...al tastes in life andsexe.
merci good sunday to all.
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RE: What means VANILLA? - 9/11/2005 5:33:31 AM

MsSonnetMarwood

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But I Had never seen <VANILLA>
what does it mean?

"Vanilla" means not kinky.

Someone who doesn't do BDSM is termed "vanilla".

Kinky people often refer to "vanilla aspects of their life" which usually means career, family, things outside of BDSM that they do/are interested in.

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RE: What means VANILLA? - 9/11/2005 4:26:47 PM

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Yup! Plain old ordinary and BORING sex (etc).

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RE: What means VANILLA? - 9/11/2005 4:41:31 PM

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ORIGINAL: Zolady

Bonjour !
I have been in BDSM since 20 years now...on and of ...because very élitiste.
But I Had never seen <VANILLA>
Zolady

"Vanilla", ça désigne tout ce qui est ordinaire, peu élaboré. Le sexe pratiqué de façon standard (sans jouets sexuels, sans jeu de rôle...), mais ça peut aussi désigner quelque chose de simple dans d'autres domaines. En finance, les vanilla-options sont les options les plus simples qu'on puisse imaginer (les options de vente et les options d'achat, il existe des options plus complexes...).

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RE: What means VANILLA? - 9/11/2005 4:42:08 PM

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In the BDSM context, vanilla means non-alternative sexuality. In other words, 'normal'. It could refer non-kinky sex or people who practice non-kinky/non-alternative sex only. For example, you might say "We had vanilla sex last night." I t could also refer to no power exchange that occurs in most alternative lifestyle relationships.

When I think of vanilla I think the plain old boyfriend/girlfirend, husband/wife, ect.

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RE: What means VANILLA? - 9/11/2005 6:02:20 PM

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ORIGINAL: frenchpet

quote:

ORIGINAL: Zolady

Bonjour !
I have been in BDSM since 20 years now...on and of ...because very élitiste.
But I Had never seen <VANILLA>
Zolady

"Vanilla", ça désigne tout ce qui est ordinaire, peu élaboré. Le sexe pratiqué de façon standard (sans jouets sexuels, sans jeu de rôle...), mais ça peut aussi désigner quelque chose de simple dans d'autres domaines. En finance, les vanilla-options sont les options les plus simples qu'on puisse imaginer (les options de vente et les options d'achat, il existe des options plus complexes...).

J'aimerais aussi rajouter que trop souvent, certains feront référence aux activités non BDSM comme des activités "Vanilla", c'est-à-dire s'ils aiment faire du vélo, du ski, crocheter, et bien, ce sont les activités "vanilla". Personnellement, je ne vois pas le rapport mais pour plusieurs, il semble en avoir un!

Bienvenue à bord! C'est agréable d'avoir d'autres francophones parmi nous!

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RE: What means VANILLA? - 9/11/2005 6:40:08 PM

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quote:

quote:

ORIGINAL: frenchpet

quote:

ORIGINAL: Zolady

Bonjour !
I have been in BDSM since 20 years now...on and of ...because very élitiste.
But I Had never seen <VANILLA>
Zolady

"Vanilla", ça désigne tout ce qui est ordinaire, peu élaboré. Le sexe pratiqué de façon standard (sans jouets sexuels, sans jeu de rôle...), mais ça peut aussi désigner quelque chose de simple dans d'autres domaines. En finance, les vanilla-options sont les options les plus simples qu'on puisse imaginer (les options de vente et les options d'achat, il existe des options plus complexes...).

J'aimerais aussi rajouter que trop souvent, certains feront référence aux activités non BDSM comme des activités "Vanilla", c'est-à-dire s'ils aiment faire du vélo, du ski, crocheter, et bien, ce sont les activités "vanilla". Personnellement, je ne vois pas le rapport mais pour plusieurs, il semble en avoir un!

Bienvenue à bord! C'est agréable d'avoir d'autres francophones parmi nous!

- LA

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RE: What means VANILLA? - 9/11/2005 7:10:33 PM

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ORIGINAL: ProtagonistLily
I feel so...Amerikan ~grin~

L

Awww... sorry sweets. Basically you know everything that has been said :-) Essentially, frenchpet described what vanilla is, that is more conventional sex, and I added that some people call non-kink activities like hobbies vanilla and added my 2¢ that this made no sense to me.

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RE: What means VANILLA? - 9/11/2005 7:56:57 PM

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Couldn't say t any better than that LOL

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ORIGINAL: OscarHargraves

Yup! Plain old ordinary and BORING sex (etc).

Sincerely andie and her Master Hal

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RE: What means VANILLA? - 9/12/2005 1:26:44 AM

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Vanilla on the boards mean new poster. in real life it means a non kinky person like every one said.

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RE: What means VANILLA? - 9/12/2005 7:40:10 AM

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Y'all forgot the icecream... I love vanilla icecream .. but then I've never seek kinky icecream for that matter. (Unless its the stuff I cover a slave and lick of her)

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RE: What means VANILLA? - 9/12/2005 8:03:50 AM

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To me....

vanilla = boring

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RE: What means VANILLA? - 9/12/2005 9:09:19 AM

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In other words, a VANILLA is just asking for a proper spanking. You know you can't deny it. }:D

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