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What do we REALLY have here at CollarMe?

None - 0 Real Time experience & NO desire to do so

0% (0)

None - But Real, Ready, Willing & Able

8% (6)

None - Just at the site for "inspiration" while my spouse is out.

2% (2)

Some - Had 1 or 2 Experiences Looking for More

18% (13)

Between Assignments - Lived it - Loved it - Can't wait to do it again

25% (18)

Active in Poly, looking for 'new blood'.

5% (4)

I am a Master/Mistress, sub/slave, Dom/me, with partner. Life if GOOD!

39% (28)

Total Votes : 71

(last vote on : 11/20/2005 8:30:49 PM)
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What do we REALLY have here at CollarMe? - 2/10/2005 10:27:47 AM

Mercnbeth

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From: Palos Verdes Estates
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I noticed that CollarMe is fast approaching 100,000 registered users - WOW & Congrats! What a great party it would make if we ever decided to hold a convention. But hey, I know it's the internet. Maybe the reality is that there are just 25 or so of us creating profiles and posting under other personalities for our own amusement.

I've wondered what the real chances are of meeting someone here, getting together with them, getting to know them, and forming a nice relationship. beth and I met in this manner, and on March 1st it will be our 2nd anniversary. We know of a few others who met in this manner.

The question is how many of the 100,000 are really active, looking for someone, and are available. In other words what are the real chances of hooking up? You know, even if everyone picks numbers 2, 4, or 5; you still have to address location, age, preferences, and yes, physical attractiveness.

As far as I know, your name isn't recorded in the tally, so unlike Yahoo, you won't be "outed" for telling the truth.

Thanks for satisfying my curiosity!

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Merc & beth

"The words printed here are concepts. You must go through the experiences." - Saint Augustine

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RE: What do we REALLY have here at CollarMe? - 2/10/2005 11:58:20 AM

feline

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We met in this manner. It was on another site.

And in June it will be 2 years as well.

Went through a lot of HNG's, wannabe's, and jerks while "looking". But . . . . . damn it was worth it! Kind of like the saying "you have to kiss a lot of toads to find one prince."

We met last August. I flew there and stayed a few days. And there are plans in the works to go back around April. And if all goes well, (I have no doubt) that I will be moving there before the end of the year.

Of course that takes me off the active list.

Happy Anniversary!

Take care,

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RE: What do we REALLY have here at CollarMe? - 2/10/2005 12:07:52 PM

ruffnecksbabygir

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Merc and Beth,
Simply out of curiousity, how long after you met yours online did she move in with you?

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Babygirl

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"And Those Who Danced Were Thought To Be Quite Insane By Those Who Could Not Hear The Music" -- Angela Monet

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RE: What do we REALLY have here at CollarMe? - 2/10/2005 1:03:17 PM

Mercnbeth

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quote:

how long after you met yours online did she move in with you?

ruffnecksbaby,
No problem we are an open book. beth moved in about 6 months give or take a day or so, from first meeting with many extended weekends in between.

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Merc & beth

"The words printed here are concepts. You must go through the experiences." - Saint Augustine

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RE: What do we REALLY have here at CollarMe? - 2/10/2005 1:44:07 PM

ruffnecksbabygir

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Thanks for your reply : )

from your posts i gather that the two of you are a couple which others could look up to as a positive example.

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Babygirl

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"And Those Who Danced Were Thought To Be Quite Insane By Those Who Could Not Hear The Music" -- Angela Monet

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RE: What do we REALLY have here at CollarMe? - 2/10/2005 1:45:00 PM

suberic

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From: Nashville TN
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Well, I voted poly.

My lady and I are very happy and have been married for 13 years, privately playing all the time. But we are also looking for another to be with us, female sub, pretty and asian by preference. Long list of things that we are looking for, not the least of which is "clean, non-smoker". This would be for permanent joining of our family, and that takes some doing.

We thought we had her at one point, but she couldn't handle sharing me. So, that was out.

So I fit into both categories, the last one and the poly one. Joy.

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RE: What do we REALLY have here at CollarMe? - 2/10/2005 2:51:19 PM

proudsub

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Have a partner, married 36 years, been His unofficial sub since we were married but didn't realize it until a few years ago.

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proudsub

"Without goals you become what you were. With goals you become what you wish." .

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RE: What do we REALLY have here at CollarMe? - 2/11/2005 1:19:26 PM

sub4hire

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quote:

Maybe the reality is that there are just 25 or so of us creating profiles and posting under other personalities for our own amusement

Well, I have this one. How many do you have? I mean, the idea is there you brought it up. Obviously as we've just found out dread has several.
I'm sure it probably is quite common.

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Malcolm Forbes

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RE: What do we REALLY have here at CollarMe? - 2/11/2005 7:24:24 PM

Mercnbeth

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quote:

How many do you have?

Gloria,
Only one, and that's for both of us. I keep most of my alternative personalities in check. Although sometimes "billy-boi", the transgendered, transsexual, bi-sexual, switch, personality sneaks out and walks Sunset Blvd at 3:00am; but he/she isn't allowed on the computer.

But hey - did you notice there was an honest person who admitted just being here for "inspiration"? Diogenes, we've found your man! (or woman).

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Merc & beth

"The words printed here are concepts. You must go through the experiences." - Saint Augustine

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RE: What do we REALLY have here at CollarMe? - 2/11/2005 10:11:22 PM

sub4hire

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I just had to ask since you brought it up. Thank you for clarifying.

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Malcolm Forbes

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RE: What do we REALLY have here at CollarMe? - 2/12/2005 8:46:39 AM

Mercnbeth

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quote:

I just had to ask since you brought it up. Thank you for clarifying.

Keep up the good police work.

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Merc & beth

"The words printed here are concepts. You must go through the experiences." - Saint Augustine

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RE: What do we REALLY have here at CollarMe? - 2/18/2005 9:05:10 AM

Mercnbeth

Posts: 2326
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Seems everyone should be able to find someone. No lurkers, and one honest man, hiding from his wife.

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Merc & beth

"The words printed here are concepts. You must go through the experiences." - Saint Augustine

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RE: What do we REALLY have here at CollarMe? - 2/18/2005 2:14:52 PM

Darthbetta

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wehalp 20 out of 100,000 isn't a bad ratio

... as "REAL" and partnered up

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RE: What do we REALLY have here at CollarMe? - 2/18/2005 2:15:53 PM

liltxsubby

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I voted with a partner. We met here just a few months ago.

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RE: What do we REALLY have here at CollarMe? - 2/18/2005 6:50:44 PM

willing2serve

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What about a category for a work in progress?

Respectfully,
Willing2serve1

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RE: What do we REALLY have here at CollarMe? - 2/18/2005 7:16:49 PM

liltxsubby

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quote:

What about a category for a work in progress?

yeah that work's too

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Laugh with them, or let them laugh at you.

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RE: What do we REALLY have here at CollarMe? - 2/18/2005 8:28:04 PM

FangsNfeet

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Thanks to Collar me I meet my sub and I am enoying having her be mine.

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I'm Godzilla and you're Japan

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RE: What do we REALLY have here at CollarMe? - 2/18/2005 8:59:34 PM

sterlingsweet

Posts: 180
Joined: 8/10/2004
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I meet my Domina almost a year ago on-line at a different site.

We travel back and forth for our RT needs, since we are 400 miles apart.

Although there is no one else involved, we maintain an open relationship
(even-though I would prefer monogamy with her).

We look at our future as together, as monogamous partners, Poly with one
or two added individuals, or my meeting someone whom I desire who fits more
my wants for monogamy, and remain friends.

So...I guess I would say I am in a relationship so I am not Actively Seeking, but
also I am open to meeting someone or if I ran across a profile that interested me or
someone contacted me, I would be free to look into any interest I may have.

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Peace Out...Sterlingsweet

I finally got my cuffs,
I hope to use them soon ~wink

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RE: What do we REALLY have here at CollarMe? - 2/19/2005 11:07:16 AM

NATI

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I am in the 'between assignments' category - and REALLY looking forward to the day when I snag that sub. Still, life is good. The 'quest' makes the finding that much more worthwhile.

< Message edited by NATI -- 2/19/2005 11:08:20 AM >

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For most of history, Anonymous was a woman

Virginia Woolf

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RE: What do we REALLY have here at CollarMe? - 2/19/2005 4:24:18 PM

velvetvixen

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Master and I met on Yahoo.com. I had an adult profile and He knew that there was "Something up with me".

I met a women that is one of my best friends on Alt.

I am sorry to say that I have never met anyone in real life from Collarme, but I know that the opportunity is there.

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