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Unusual? - 9/2/2005 9:58:52 AM

ridergn

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Is it very difficult to find another submissive female. One who is equal in submission to my master? This journey I have chosen, the path I follow seems so hard at times.

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RE: Unusual? - 9/2/2005 10:29:36 AM

plantlady64

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Hello There,
I would say the odds of finding your third, or more, in poly relationships is indeed harder than finding your mate to start. The odds change when you add another personality into the dynamics of your leather family. When it's two people who have to agree on someone new & the someone new has to feel a connection to two of you instead of one it will sometimes take quite a while.
I think you have to also count on fate & cirmcumstance. Who knows you may find her tomorrow or 10 years from now.
Sincerely,
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RE: Unusual? - 9/2/2005 2:49:22 PM

fastlane

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I know one thing.....that Tiger has BIG Teeth.....and I don't care how submissive it acts....I would slowly move out of the cage!

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RE: Unusual? - 9/2/2005 3:40:11 PM

KnightofMists

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yes it can be a very difficult and long path to find another to enter into your relationship. Be prepared to make mistakes as well and enjoy the rewards. Be prepared to learn and grow with each step of the way. Be prepared to see what is not working and change what needs to be changed, this includes your ownself.

curious... I was talking to my girl kyra about this thread... mmmm does Turpentine Creek mean anything to you?

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RE: Unusual? - 9/3/2005 4:11:03 AM

mossy

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Dearest ridergn,

this may sound confusing, but i have myself been in your place.

your answer.........lies directly.........in the wording of your own question.

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RE: Unusual? - 9/3/2005 9:22:06 AM

tade

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I have learned that in this mixed up world I always find (or am found by more to the point) exactly what I was looking for the moment I stop looking. Not to say that you don't continue to look. Afterall you can't win if you don't play, but as soon as it's not a priority it's more likely to happen. When the student is ready the Master will appear. Have fun and enjoy the ride.

Between now and then,
Tade

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