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Totally Opposite? - 1/29/2005 8:17:37 PM

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In many ways, BDSM is about contrast. Pain and pleasure, for one example. Would you consider Tantra a contrast with BDSM, and would you incorporate it in your relationship?

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RE: Totally Opposite? - 1/29/2005 8:26:18 PM

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I have incorporated it in my relationships with subs. I think it is a great way not only to use the sensuality of it all to show my sub how much I care about her, but it can also be a very powerful tool in orgasm denial as well.

If you asked people who are vanilla Im sure they would say yes, it's a contrast to BDSM, but since I incorporate it into the lifestyle I dont think it's a contrast.

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RE: Totally Opposite? - 1/30/2005 12:03:49 AM

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quote:

it can also be a very powerful tool in orgasm denial as well.

If you asked people who are vanilla Im sure they would say yes, it's a contrast to BDSM, but since I incorporate it into the lifestyle I dont think it's a contrast.

Thank you for this insight, I see this as an enhancement to a relationship as well.

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RE: Totally Opposite? - 1/30/2005 3:37:10 AM

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IMO I do not see Tantra as a contrast, but an enhancement. Its another form of expression and experimentation... for some who cannot live without it another fetish, therefore I would see it as just another branch of the BDSM tree.

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RE: Totally Opposite? - 1/30/2005 7:04:09 AM

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in my little opinion i do not see it as a contrast at all.....

i have always seen in that liestyle the freedom to be what i am - the acceptance of myself and other people too.

everyone is complex.

just for myself - i love to live by seemingly contrasts.

as much intense one side - as much intense the other side too

intense tender let me endure harschness and vice versa/ not to forgett all what laying in between....

... but like said just my little opinion - smile -

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RE: Totally Opposite? - 1/30/2005 4:04:10 PM

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Nothing is a contrast for me. No matter what it is, I'll think of a way to incorporate it into BDSM as an enhancement and never a distraction.

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RE: Totally Opposite? - 1/30/2005 5:14:50 PM

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I have attended several workshops on Tantra, and BDSM. In many cases they go hand in hand. Here is a good website to explore with regards to it.

http://spiritualbdsm.com/

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