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Time Limit - 12/7/2005 1:48:37 PM

littleone35

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Hello i was wondering if any subs/slaves have a Master who likes time limits. What i mean is i was playing with a Dom he was using his hands and he said if you don't cum in 30 seconds you are not going to cum.

Has anyone ever experienced that? Not with intercourse just hands or a toy or something?

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RE: Time Limit - 12/7/2005 2:00:12 PM

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Sure. Arbitrary time limits are used all the time. I use them with my boys occasionally.

The orgasming thing doesn't work for me because I am very difficult to orgasm and time limits just take focus away and make it not worth the effort. But that doesn't mean it's not fun for a very sadistic top...

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RE: Time Limit - 12/7/2005 2:19:51 PM

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Yep, all of the time. Except it flows beyond just kinky sex and into real life as well.

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RE: Time Limit - 12/7/2005 2:21:18 PM

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yesssssssssss

Mistress has done it....

if i am not "finished" under 3 minutes...i am not GOING to finish.

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RE: Time Limit - 12/7/2005 2:33:54 PM

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Yes ... one particular game I play is to tell them I have a figure in my head and I am going to count backwards to zero, if they haven't cum by the time I get to zero then they will not get to cum for as many days as was the figure I started with.

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RE: Time Limit - 12/7/2005 8:36:46 PM

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Yes, but.

I have a whole lot o' trouble orgasming with someone other than myself. Even with my partner it's taken a LOT of work to get me to be albe to orgasm.

Time limits, which were tried with some former partners, put me so far on edge I couldn't get off even if I wanted to. It got to the point where I wouldn't try, because I was so stressed I couldn't anyway. So, we pretty much stopped as it wasn't hot for anyone invovled.

Time limits to get someone -else- off? Lots of fun.

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RE: Time Limit - 12/8/2005 6:32:47 AM

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I don't know about time limits, but I will make my slave give me head all the TIME!

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RE: Time Limit - 12/9/2005 3:48:09 AM

sweetpettjenny

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yes ...most likely if its 30 seconds, id not be cumming..sigh

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RE: Time Limit - 12/9/2005 6:30:16 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: sweetpettjenny

yes ...most likely if its 30 seconds, id not be cumming..sigh

I've never seen cumming in zero to thirty seconds as a "good" thing myself.

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RE: Time Limit - 12/10/2005 6:23:32 AM

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I had an ex-Dominant that would time me, though not to orgasm.

Immediately after entering his home i was required to gracefully remove my clothes (down to my bra and panties) fold my clothes and place them neatly on a chair, light several candles in the room, turn on some music, and present myself kneeling, eyes lowered, at his feet, all within one minute.
If i did well, was rewarded with a spanking!
It was fun, kept me focused on him and i do love a challange.

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RE: Time Limit - 12/10/2005 6:32:37 AM

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I believe it was Johnson who said........

'When a man knows he's to be hanged in a fortnight, it concentrates his mind wonderfully.'

Time limits are useful in many situations.

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RE: Time Limit - 12/10/2005 6:33:41 AM

MHOO314

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I specifically use time limits for assignments--not so much for orgasm control or not as that can be dependent on many things, but I am adamant about time limits for assignments or projects---

and I never set a time limit for play, after all it is My time--

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RE: Time Limit - 12/10/2005 12:02:18 PM

slavejali

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i have a fetish for time, i love being pressed for time or have to work within a defined time period to get something done. i think i enjoy the intensity and the focus that brings. This can be used quite well wth me within Master/slave relationship.
If Master however said, cum within 30 seconds, i doubt i could do it, unless, a whole lotta stuff had gone on beforehand and i was in the right frame of mind at the time.

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