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The BIG Day - 3/1/2006 7:10:10 AM   
Mercnbeth


Posts: 2326
Joined: 6/18/2004
From: Palos Verdes Estates
Status: offline 		Six hours and three years ago we never met. We had profiles on a BDSM dating site. For ten days, we exchanged pictures, emails, phone calls. A cynical New Yorker, meeting a long haired red headed California girl. At least you represented yourself as a woman. But it's on-line. Until we met I remained as skeptical as you were trusting. All the "safe-call" precautions were my idea - you reluctantly put them in place. (Or did you?) There would be no play, and absolutely NO SEX. Okay, I'll compromise and take some of my toys, because you're curious and had never seen any before. The plan was to meet, talk and get to know each other and, if that worked, we'd have dinner and I'd drive back to LA. If that was all good we'd go from there.

The three hour drive from LA to Santa Maria was uneventful. No matter what happened it was a beautiful day. I got to travel to a part of California I had never been before. The car top was down, the radio blasting, the sun was shining bright. Even if the picture you sent was of how you used to look 10 years or 50 pounds ago it wouldn't have mattered. I had already come to love your personality, and it was going to be a good day.

Eight hours and three years ago, all my "rules" about platonic first meetings were out the window. It's a wonder that you took any of my "rules" seriously after that! you got to see and experience many of the toys first hand. I was SURE you weren't a guy posting a program as a woman. What an amazing day, night, next morning, and every day since!

What an amazing three years. In some respects it seems like it's been a second, in others it seems like we've been together forever. Every day is better than the one before.

I give you all my love, my pet - Happy anniversary to us!

Merc
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RE: The BIG Day - 3/1/2006 7:12:45 AM   
IrishMist


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From: Indiana
Status: offline 		Now that is a wonderful and touching tribute. Congratulations you two, and may you be blessed with many years to come.

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RE: The BIG Day - 3/1/2006 8:45:47 AM   
Oumae


Posts: 614
Joined: 1/4/2005
Status: offline 		Happy Anniversary to you both!

Oumae

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Is cuma le fear na mbrog ca leagann se a chos.
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RE: The BIG Day - 3/1/2006 8:55:09 AM   
fastlane


Posts: 1386
Joined: 5/26/2005
Status: offline 		Nothing more pleasing then to see a Dom who carries a big stick....to go along with his big heart.
You two are very lucky to have found one another and I hope your happiness contiues through a lifetime!

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RE: The BIG Day - 3/1/2006 9:26:58 AM   
Moloch


Posts: 62
Joined: 6/25/2005
Status: offline 		omg 3 years!!! gratz!!! Bondage FTW!!!

Seriously, congratulations and a happy anniversary.

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RE: The BIG Day - 3/1/2006 9:30:17 AM   
MHOO314


Posts: 1850
Joined: 9/26/2004
Status: offline 		Yours has always been an ongoing story of inspiration--O/our best wishes for Y/you!

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RE: The BIG Day - 3/1/2006 9:44:24 AM   
jocelyn


Posts: 33
Joined: 6/28/2005
Status: offline 		Salud, salud!

j

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RE: The BIG Day - 3/1/2006 10:09:47 AM   
subtoFemDommes


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Status: offline 		OK; i teared up. Much congratulations and endless years of love to the two of you.

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RE: The BIG Day - 3/1/2006 10:27:07 AM   
SweetSarijane


Posts: 121
Joined: 10/7/2005
Status: offline 		Happy Anniversary to you both and many many more.

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Sarah


"If you love something, set it free. If it comes back it's meant to be."

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RE: The BIG Day - 3/1/2006 8:18:00 PM   
champagnewishes


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From: Hollywood, CA
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ORIGINAL: subtoFemDommes

OK; i teared up.


So did I....

Happy Anniversary and may it be a lifetime of togetherness.

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RE: The BIG Day - 3/1/2006 8:35:27 PM   
GoddessDustyGold


Posts: 1216
Joined: 4/11/2004
From: Arizona
Status: offline 		Thank you so much for sharing. It made My day!
**Raises glass to many more years for Merc 'n beth**

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Don't put Me up on a pedestal if all you want to do is look up My skirt
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RE: The BIG Day - 3/1/2006 9:01:20 PM   
windy135


Posts: 259
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Status: offline 		Wonderful,, Congrats :)

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RE: The BIG Day - 3/1/2006 9:52:44 PM   
proudsub


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From: Washington
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quote:

What an amazing three years. In some respects it seems like it's been a second, in others it seems like we've been together forever. Every day is better than the one before.

I give you all my love, my pet - Happy anniversary to us!


Very touching and congrats!! Wishing you many more years together.

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proudsub

"Without goals you become what you were. With goals you become what you wish." .


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RE: The BIG Day - 3/1/2006 10:15:55 PM   
Gauge


Posts: 783
Joined: 6/17/2005
Status: offline 		A tip of my hat to you both. May your journey together continue.

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RE: The BIG Day - 3/1/2006 10:49:39 PM   
slavejali


Posts: 721
Joined: 11/8/2005
Status: offline 		Congrats Mercnbeth~ love to see two people so obviously happy with each other~

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RE: The BIG Day - 3/2/2006 2:54:42 AM   
smilezz


Posts: 489
Joined: 6/18/2004
Status: offline 		..And all is as it should be. Happy Anniversary to both of you. Life is an amazing journey, it makes it even more special when you have someone to share it with.

~smilezz~

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RE: The BIG Day - 3/2/2006 3:29:41 AM   
FangsNfeet


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quote:

I give you all my love, my pet - Happy anniversary to us!



It's nice to know how happy BDSM couples can really be. When I first read the tile "The Big Day" I was thinking you were ready to pull out a little box. Mine is still on lay a way. Any how, have a great day. I can't think of many couples who deserve each other and be has happy as the two of you. Despite the fakes, phoneys, and scams, the internet is still a great tool in helping you find true love and fun.

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RE: The BIG Day - 3/2/2006 2:01:12 PM   
SirKenin


Posts: 1078
Joined: 10/31/2004
From: Barrie, ON Canada
Status: offline 		Congratulations and Happy Anniversary you guys. You guys are great. It looks good on you.

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RE: The BIG Day - 3/2/2006 2:22:19 PM   
Mercnbeth


Posts: 2326
Joined: 6/18/2004
From: Palos Verdes Estates
Status: offline 		thank you, EVERYONE!!! for the well wishes and warmest of thoughts!!!
Our life together has been filled with unexpected pleasures, phenomenal and exhilarating experiences, fulfillment on both sides of the slash. It has also been and continues to be, this slave firmly believes, a blessing to us and to others close to us!!!

thank YOU, Master
for opening Your life up to Your slave
for trusting someone so familiar and comfortable with submission and slavery, but with no experience in an M/s relationship
for indulging Your slave her fantasies and encouraging her spirit to fly
for giving Your slave the opportunity to serve You every day and night
for as long as You will have her


warmly,
beth

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Merc & beth

"The words printed here are concepts. You must go through the experiences." - Saint Augustine

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RE: The BIG Day - 3/2/2006 7:03:22 PM   
Vancouver_cinful


Posts: 476
Joined: 2/3/2004
Status: offline 		Congratulations, you two!!

Dreams really do come true, huh? Guess I won't give up, guite yet!

Cin

< Message edited by Vancouver_cinful -- 3/2/2006 7:04:16 PM >

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