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Taping A Sexual History - 2/28/2006 5:04:28 PM   
Vancouver_cinful


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Status: offline 		Does anyone here recall the film Sex, Lies, and Videotapes?

I've been asked if I would like to do a scene with a fairly new dominant friend, in that vein. His idea is that he will tape me talking about my sexual history, and will be asking questions and guiding me to reveal things. There would be moments where I might be asked to demonstrate how someone touched me or something similar.

My thoughts are that this could be incredibly fun and erotic...but also a bit edgy, if it brought up feelings I may be unaware of. I have no history of sexual trauma, so it seems safe enough but I'm still aware that sexuality can be a huge emotional issue.

Anyone here have any comments, ideas, experience, suggestions, they could share on this?

Cin

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RE: Taping A Sexual History - 2/28/2006 5:13:58 PM   
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Status: offline 		Videotaping is something I regularly do. It's interesting to document experiences and impressions in a girl after a visit.



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RE: Taping A Sexual History - 2/28/2006 5:42:55 PM   
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Videotaping is something I regularly do. It's interesting to document experiences and impressions in a girl after a visit.





Master videotapes a lot. Also, when he first began working with me i was to journal to him my entire sexual history from the first encouter, in detail. He found interesting patterns in it that i had not seen before. Also, any time he uses me i am to report on it to him, in detail - what i felt physically and emotionally. It tells him all my trigger points, both good and bad, and allows him to know me quite intimately.

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RE: Taping A Sexual History - 2/28/2006 5:53:09 PM   
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ORIGINAL: amayos

Videotaping is something I regularly do. It's interesting to document experiences and impressions in a girl after a visit.





Master videotapes a lot. Also, when he first began working with me i was to journal to him my entire sexual history from the first encouter, in detail. He found interesting patterns in it that i had not seen before. Also, any time he uses me i am to report on it to him, in detail - what i felt physically and emotionally. It tells him all my trigger points, both good and bad, and allows him to know me quite intimately.


I must have a twin brother out there.

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RE: Taping A Sexual History - 2/28/2006 5:58:47 PM   
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Status: offline 		I've been videotaped and photographed before during scenes...love it. But this seems very different. More emotionally edgy...

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RE: Taping A Sexual History - 2/28/2006 6:02:25 PM   
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You go ahead and get on tape...........put your thoughts down........

DO NOT!!! AND I REPEAT.......DO NOT......

wear platform shoes;
them long, pointy collars from the '70's;
have any kinda background going on other than a sheet to hide it;
someone ain't gonna like where you live;
have any pattern in the foreground;
someone ain't gonna like that;


Listen to me closely now; Do Not wear a Nehru Jacket, and do not have Ace Ventura playing on the TV in the background..........

After that, if it feels good......DO IT!!!!!!!!!!!!

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RE: Taping A Sexual History - 2/28/2006 6:22:17 PM   
Vancouver_cinful


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Status: offline 		I solemly swear no Nehru will be employed in the making of said videotape. I can also say with all seriousness I doubt Ace Ventura would contribute to the mood so it's safe to say that advice will be well-taken as well.

I may have to ask that you reconsider your stance on platform shoes however...

Cin

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RE: Taping A Sexual History - 2/28/2006 6:27:34 PM   
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Status: offline 		Someone, in ages hence; will carve on your gravestone that you wore platform shoes............

That ain't what you want happinin', babe!

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Kids out here can be so cruel..........

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RE: Taping A Sexual History - 2/28/2006 6:31:08 PM   
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Someone, in ages hence; will carve on your gravestone that you wore platform shoes............

That ain't what you want happinin', babe!

Ron

Kids out here can be so cruel..........


Since I need heels to reach a height of 5' I'd like to think I would be treated with some compassion on this one issue.

I would expect no mercy on the Nehru jacket issue...no, none at all...Just say No to Nehru!

Cin

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RE: Taping A Sexual History - 2/28/2006 6:39:35 PM   
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RE: Taping A Sexual History - 2/28/2006 6:45:32 PM   
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Anything and I mean anything can be sold, auctioned, or traded off for profit--make sure your head comes out of the "glamour" and into the real life ramifications---would you be happy to have this sent to your family?? Think well and long--IMHEO


Yes, so far this is the biggest question I have...How much can I guarantee that I end up the sole owner of the taped contents. It's a technical issue for sure, unless the tape were to be handed directly from the camera to me.

Thanks for the concern, I'm pretty cautious about such things.

Cin

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RE: Taping A Sexual History - 2/28/2006 7:02:27 PM   
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I've been asked if I would like to do a scene with a fairly new dominant friend


The "new" part bothers me a little. How well do you know and trust him? Can you be sure the video won't show up online somewhere? or used as blackmail at a later time? Sounds fun, just wanted to mention those possibilities because i had a problem with my first r/l dom posting pics online without my permission and it ended our relationship.

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RE: Taping A Sexual History - 2/28/2006 7:33:34 PM   
BitaTruble


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Status: offline 		Himself tapes virtually everything. I love this idea and am going to run it by him to see if we can do this. Sounds like a lot of fun. Just be careful and make sure you trust the new guy.

Celeste

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RE: Taping A Sexual History - 2/28/2006 8:05:02 PM   
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I must have a twin brother out there.


LOL see? i swear to God you scare the hell out of me sometimes!!

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RE: Taping A Sexual History - 2/28/2006 8:06:53 PM   
ownedgirlie


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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Stop the Fuckin' Music........

You go ahead and get on tape...........put your thoughts down........

DO NOT!!! AND I REPEAT.......DO NOT......

wear platform shoes;
them long, pointy collars from the '70's;
have any kinda background going on other than a sheet to hide it;
someone ain't gonna like where you live;
have any pattern in the foreground;
someone ain't gonna like that;


Listen to me closely now; Do Not wear a Nehru Jacket, and do not have Ace Ventura playing on the TV in the background..........

After that, if it feels good......DO IT!!!!!!!!!!!!

LOL,
Ron


LOL Ron....you silly man. Videotape....with clothes on? Who are you kiddin?!

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RE: Taping A Sexual History - 2/28/2006 8:25:27 PM   
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ORIGINAL: proudsub
The "new" part bothers me a little. How well do you know and trust him? Can you be sure the video won't show up online somewhere? or used as blackmail at a later time? Sounds fun, just wanted to mention those possibilities because i had a problem with my first r/l dom posting pics online without my permission and it ended our relationship.


An absolutely valid consideration. Although my sense is that I can trust him I did make a point of mentioning that we are fairly recent friends because I think its a vital part of the situation.

In some ways that part appeals to me. We are new to each other so everything I tell him is new to him, and that will definitely add to the humilation/nakedness aspect of it. Revealing your innermost secrets to a friend is a very comforting thing, to reveal yourself to an almost stranger has an element of risk and naughtiness to it...Edgier.

The downside of this is how do I make sure the taped contents stay safe?

Cin

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RE: Taping A Sexual History - 2/28/2006 8:32:50 PM   
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Status: offline 		WOW! i would definitely think long and hard before i let someone i didn't know VERY well videotape me doing anything i wouldn't feel comfortable with anybody, anywhere seeing. Please be cautious. Once it's filmed - it's done and there's no undoing it.

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RE: Taping A Sexual History - 2/28/2006 8:47:30 PM   
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WOW! i would definitely think long and hard before i let someone i didn't know VERY well videotape me doing anything i wouldn't feel comfortable with anybody, anywhere seeing. Please be cautious. Once it's filmed - it's done and there's no undoing it.


Absolutely right.

I've just finished airing this concern with him and he has told me he'd be happy to hand me the tape straight from the camcorder (it's not a digital). He has even offered to use my laptop for transfering it to a DVD.

That's seems safe to me...What do others think?

Cin

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RE: Taping A Sexual History - 2/28/2006 9:16:38 PM   
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I've just finished airing this concern with him and he has told me he'd be happy to hand me the tape straight from the camcorder (it's not a digital). He has even offered to use my laptop for transfering it to a DVD.

That's seems safe to me...What do others think?


That makes me feel better about it. So if you have control of the tape is there anyone in your household that you wouldn't want to see it? I once came across some tapes my daughter definitely didn't want me to see, in fact on one of them she actually stood in front of the camera and said "if my mother ever sees this she will shit in her pants". Well i didn't shit but i did send her to get help.

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RE: Taping A Sexual History - 3/1/2006 12:35:41 AM   
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Status: offline 		After running this by Himself, he is going to do it. :) Great idea, so thank you for sharing and I hope everything works out great with your production!

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